In this episode of The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I dive into a powerful topic: Why Society Punishes Non-Traditional People. If you’ve ever felt like you don’t fit into the traditional mold—whether it’s rejecting religious expectations, questioning societal norms, or living life on your own terms—then this episode is for you.

I talk about what it means to be a free thinker, the pressure of conformity, and how certain traditions shape our lives—whether I embrace them or reject them. I share personal experiences, from growing up biracial in the ’70s and ’80s to navigating the expectations placed on women over 50.

I also explore how society penalizes those who don’t follow conventional paths. From marriage-based tax benefits to social exclusion, the system is designed to reward traditional lifestyles while making it harder for independent thinkers to thrive.

This is Part One of the discussion, and there’s much more to cover. Tune in to hear my candid thoughts on non-traditional living and why it often comes with unspoken consequences.

If you’ve ever felt like an outsider, this conversation is for you.

Listen now and stay tuned for Part Two!

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Today on The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, I’m calling out something that’s been bothering me—people celebrating when others lose their jobs. I’ve seen it all over social media, in the comments, on the news, and it’s honestly sickening. How did we get to a place where we treat someone’s livelihood like it’s just another headline to laugh about?

I talk about what this kind of mindset says about us as a society and why none of us are immune to struggle. I also share personal experiences that shaped my perspective—like the time I was stranded in a ditch and the last person you’d expect helped me out, or how a man that most would write off because of his politics became one of my greatest mentors.

At the end of the day, we all want the same things—stability, peace, the ability to take care of our families. But somewhere along the way, we lost our ability to see each other as human. If we keep moving in this direction, it’s only going to get worse for everyone.

Let’s talk about it. And stay tuned for the next episode: Atheist and Christian Cruelty.

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Hello everyone! This is The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, and today we’re diving into Part Two of Cheating: Who Is Really to Blame?

Many women believe that when a man cheats, it’s just about sex—that the other woman is meaningless. But that’s a lie. Affairs are rarely just physical; they involve time, emotions, and connections.

People love joking that side chicks only get February 15th or never get holidays, but I know firsthand that many other women get birthdays, vacations, and even family introductions. I once dated a man who flew me to meet his mother—not knowing he was engaged. Another had me staying in his house while his wife was away.

The Lies We Tell Ourselves

Wives tell themselves they’re winning because they have the ring, the house, and the status. Meanwhile, the other woman convinces herself she’s the one he truly loves. But the truth is, everyone involved is hurting.

Men don’t just call women for sex and leave. They spend time. They bond. They fall in love. And they chase these women—they are not being hunted down or seduced against their will.

Women often think men never leave their wives, but that’s false. People leave relationships all the time. Many already have their next person lined up before they walk away.

What You Need to Know

Not all men cheat, but many do. And if you think the other woman is just getting sex, you’re lying to yourself. Affairs are built on time spent, just like your relationship once was.

Ladies—stop rushing into relationships. Take your time. Get to know who a man really is before committing. And don’t sleep with someone before you fully understand what you want and what he wants.

Thank you for tuning in. Until next time, this is The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast.

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What’s up, everybody? This is Lois Lane Miami, and you’re tuned into The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast. It’s been a while, right?

Today, I want to talk about something that comes up way too often: blaming another woman for your disrespectful, disloyal husband—and why that’s absolutely ridiculous.

The Debate That Sparked This Episode

Yesterday, I got into a bit of a back-and-forth on a Facebook post. It’s not the first time I’ve had this debate, and I doubt it’ll be the last.

There was a woman calling other women all kinds of names—“whores,” “sluts,” “homewreckers”—blaming them for being with married men. She swore up and down that these women were chasing down men, that men only wanted sex, and that they never leave their wives for the “other woman.”

So let’s break this down, because some of y’all need to hear this.

Stay tuned for Part Two, where I’ll break down even more of this madness.

Thank you for tuning into The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast with Lois Lane Miami. See you next time!

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Welcome to *The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast*. I’m Lois Lane Miami, the Equalizer, here to bridge the gaps in understanding between people from different walks of life. In this episode, I explore the “Poverty Mindset Disconnect,” a topic that resonates with me personally, as I’ve experienced both poverty and relative financial stability.

Growing up in an African-American neighborhood, I faced many of the challenges associated with poverty: unreliable utilities, dependence on public assistance, and frequent moves. Despite these hardships, there were moments of joy, like when my mother managed to buy us something special, even when we had little else.

One major challenge I’ve noticed is the disconnect between those who are struggling and those offering financial advice. While financial literacy is valuable, it often doesn’t address the immediate lack of resources that makes saving or investing nearly impossible. People often assume that the poor are mismanaging their money, without understanding the reality of living with nothing to spare.

This episode challenges the idea that financial literacy alone can solve poverty. Instead, we need to think about providing people with the resources they need to improve their situations. I encourage those who want to help to dig deeper, understand the true experiences of poverty, and offer solutions that go beyond traditional advice.

My goal is to foster empathy and understanding. By sharing my experiences, I hope to help others see the world from a different perspective. Thank you for joining me. Until next time, this is Lois Lane Miami, the Equalizer, on *The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast*.

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Good morning, everyone! This is Lois Lane Miami on The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast, and today’s episode is one that many will find eye-opening: “1000 Ways Money Buys Happiness.” It’s a bold topic, and it’s time to dismantle the age-old notion that “money can’t buy happiness.”

Ever notice that the people who say money doesn’t buy happiness are often those who’ve never truly been without it? They’ve never experienced homelessness, hunger, or the desperation that comes with lacking healthcare. These are the individuals who may have faced minor struggles but generally live with financial security, unable to understand what it’s like to live without the safety net that money provides.

In this episode, I’m going to break down, step by step, how money can indeed lead to happiness. From the very basics—like ensuring you have a roof over your head and food on your table—to more complex scenarios, such as facing a terminal illness, I’ll explore why having money makes these difficult times more bearable. It’s not about buying your way out of every problem, but rather about how money provides the options, freedom, and peace of mind that contribute to a happier life.

I’ll also touch on the irony of those who preach that money doesn’t buy happiness while living lives filled with comforts and privileges that money affords. Whether it’s being able to visit loved ones, afford healthcare, or simply enjoy life’s small luxuries, there’s no denying that money plays a pivotal role in our overall well-being.

Join me as I share personal experiences, debunk common arguments, and offer you 1000 reasons why money is more than just paper—it’s a powerful tool that, when used wisely, can indeed buy happiness.

Tune in, and let’s get into it on The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast!

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Welcome to “The Purple Koolaid Podcast,” hosted by Lois Lane Miami. Today, I discuss a topic that affects us all: “Unforgiving Perfect People.” These individuals believe they know everything and dismiss anyone who disagrees with them as ignorant or unworthy. Their unwavering belief in their infallibility and refusal to forgive others for past mistakes is a troubling phenomenon.

I address this issue head-on, sharing my experiences and observations. I discuss how these “perfect” people often lack evidence or explanation for their opinions, yet they cling to them as if they are indisputable facts. What makes this attitude particularly damaging is their unforgiving nature. They hold past mistakes against others indefinitely, ignoring efforts to improve or change. I feel that everyone makes mistakes and personal growth and redemption should be acknowledged and encouraged.

One notable figure I discuss on this episode is Candace Owens. While acknowledging Owens’ courage and tenacity, for her unforgiving stance towards others, including fellow public figures like Cardi B. I also admire Cardi B’s passion and authenticity. Intelligence and worth are not determined by one’s education or past but by one’s ability to learn, grow, and adapt.

I go onto highlight the hypocrisy in Owens’ criticisms, noting that Owens herself is often judged harshly by others due to her background and choices. This hypocrisy underscores the need for empathy and understanding rather than judgment and condemnation. I believe success, especially for women and minorities, should be celebrated, not undermined by their past mistakes or unconventional paths.

I feel we would benefit from a more forgiving and supportive society. And I encourage listeners to learn from everyone, regardless of their background, and to recognize that no one is perfect. The ability to evolve and overcome challenges is what truly defines a person’s character.

Join me, Lois Lane Miami, The Equalizer, on “The Purple Koolaid Podcast” as I explore the complexities of human behavior, challenges societal norms, and advocates for a more compassionate and understanding world.

Tune in on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, iHeartRadio, or visit purplekoolaid.com for more episodes. Don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe on YouTube. Thank you for listening, and have a great week!

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Using the phrase "We're Grown" to Manipulate You

Welcome to “The Purple Kool-Aid Podcast,” hosted by Lois Lane Miami! After a busy few weeks, I’m back to share some insights and thoughts I’ve been eager to discuss. Today’s episode focuses on the concept of “falling for the okey-doke,” exploring the tactics men use to manipulate women, and more.

For those unfamiliar, my upcoming book “Falling for the Okey Doke” delves deep into the various ways both men and women can be tricked in relationships, workplaces, and other aspects of life. In previous episodes, I’ve covered how employers might manipulate you into doing more than your job description or how partners can deceive each other. This episode will highlight what people want you to believe versus what’s really going on, particularly focusing on the tricks men use to get their way.

One common tactic is men telling women they have “the best sex they’ve ever had.” This flattery is often used to ensure they get more opportunities to be with you, playing on your need for validation. Remember, as long as they are satisfied, the specifics often don’t matter as much to them. They might say it to make you feel special, but it’s usually a manipulation tactic.

Another common phrase is “we’re grown,” used to justify or excuse behavior that should otherwise be questioned. This statement is meant to make you feel like you shouldn’t complain or question their actions, as it’s something adults should supposedly accept. However, accepting mistreatment is never part of being an adult.

Additionally, men often say, “women can’t do what men do,” usually to justify their own disrespectful behavior while discouraging you from responding in kind. This phrase is used to maintain a double standard, implying that women are less worthy of autonomy and respect.

Women, too, sometimes fall into these traps by telling themselves they can use men just for sex, often as a way to cope with emotional hurt. However, there is usually more to it than just physical needs; it’s often about seeking affection or validation.

In summary, recognize these manipulation tactics and don’t fall for them. Instead, value yourself beyond the compliments and deceptive flattery. Don’t let anyone make you feel like you need to accept less than you deserve.

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