The Psychology of a Covert Narcissist

In this insightful episode of I Am For Me, Coach K explores the quiet yet deeply manipulative world of the covert narcissist. While overt narcissists display arrogance and boastfulness, covert narcissists operate under the radar—often appearing humble, self-deprecating, or victimized to gain validation and control. Coach K sheds light on how covert narcissists subtly erode self-esteem through passive-aggressive tactics, guilt, and gaslighting, leaving their targets confused, drained, and questioning their own perceptions. With practical tips on identifying red flags and setting boundaries, this episode offers hope, clarity, and guidance for anyone seeking to protect their emotional well-being or heal after a covert narcissistic relationship.

Today on I Am For Me:

• What a covert narcissist is and how they differ from overt narcissists
• Subtle manipulation tactics like gaslighting and passive aggression
• The emotional toll covert narcissism takes on relationships
• Practical tips for recognizing red flags and setting boundaries
• Key steps to heal and reclaim your self-worth after covert narcissistic abuse

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