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The Psychology of Relationships

The Psychology of Relationships

De: Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
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Every couple has a story: the sparks, the late-night talks, the fights about nothing, and the moments that change everything. So why do some relationships thrive while others fall apart? The answer isn’t luck; it’s psychology. Join Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu, hosts of the hit podcast Dateable and authors of the book 'How to Be Dateable,' as they navigate this next phase of long-term committed relationships. Together with leading experts in the field, they'll explore what science really tells us about love, conflict, and connection — and translate it into tools you can actually use.

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Episodios
  • Do Relationships Make You Happy? The Truth About Love, Marriage & Happiness w/ Rob Mack
    Dec 18 2025

    Many of us hold onto the belief that “once I’m in a relationship… then I’ll finally be happy.” But while love can absolutely bring joy, it can’t replace the inner work of building our own happiness baseline. In this episode, Julie and Yue talk with celebrity happiness coach and positive psychology expert Rob Mack about why lasting happiness starts within—not after you meet the right person. Drawing on research like the Michigan State study showing marriage increases happiness by less than one percent, Rob explains why real love thrives when two people come together already full, grounded in their own worth —and how couples support each other, not complete each other.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why Happiness Isn’t Delivered After Love—It Starts With You

    • How Hedonic Adaptation Lowers the High of Major Life Moments

    • How to Build a Sustainable Happiness Baseline Through Self-Worth

    • Why Some Relationships Drain You—and How to Walk Away With Clarity

    • How to Choose a Partner Who Supports Your Wellbeing (Without Relying on Them for It)

    • How to Create Interdependence—Not Dependence—in Your Relationship

    • Why Two People Who Are Already Full Build the Strongest, Healthiest Love


    To learn more about Rob Mack: follow @robmackofficial and visit https://www.coachrobmack.com

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    54 m
  • Navigating a Pace Discrepancy: When One Person Is Ready for The Next Step In Your Relationship & The Other Isn’t w/ Dr. Alexandra Solomon
    Dec 11 2025

    It’s easy to feel steady in love—until you and your partner aren’t moving at the same pace. When one person is ready for the next step and the other isn’t, even the healthiest relationships can start to feel uncertain. Julie and Yue sit down with clinical psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Alexandra Solomon to unpack what’s really happening beneath pace discrepancies. Drawing from her groundbreaking work on relational self-awareness, Dr. Solomon explains why mismatched timing activates attachment patterns, old schemas, and deep questions about worthiness—and how couples can navigate these moments without spiraling into fear, pressure, or ultimatums.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • Why Pace Discrepancies Trigger Attachment, Anxiety, and Self-Doubt

    • How Your Past Bonds Influence the Meaning You Make in These Moments

    • How to Communicate Needs and Hopes Without Issuing an Ultimatum

    • How to Tell the Difference Between a Temporary Pause and a Fundamental Misalignment

    • Why One Partner Often Moves Faster (or Slower) — and What That Reveals About Their Inner World

    • How to Stay Connected, Curious, and Compassionate Through Mismatched Timing

    • When to Keep Moving Forward Together — and When It Might Be Time to Walk Away


    To learn more about Dr. Solomon: follow @dr.alexandra.solomon, listen to Reimagining Love, and read her books Loving Bravely, Taking Sexy Back, and Love Every Day.

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    46 m
  • How to Love Better: The Reason Why Personal Growth Is What Keeps Your Relationship Strong w/ Yung Pueblo
    Dec 4 2025

    Love grows when you do. We talk a lot about how to find love and how to keep it, but not nearly enough about how to grow inside it. Because real love isn’t just a feeling — it’s a skill. In this episode, Julie and Yue sit down with New York Times bestselling author Diego Perez (better known as Yung Pueblo) to explore how self-awareness, attachment, and emotional regulation shape the way we show up in relationships. Drawing from mindfulness and modern psychology, he breaks down how our pasts wire us, how our unhealed parts seek safety, and why growth — not perfection — is what truly strengthens intimacy.

    In this episode, you’ll learn:

    • How to Build Self-Awareness That Strengthens Your Relationship

    • Why Attachment and Nervous System Patterns Shape the Way You Love

    • How to Regulate Emotions During Triggering or Tense Moments

    • Ways to Separate Past Wounds From Present Dynamics

    • How to Make More Conscious, Intentional Choices in How You Love

    • Why Couples Grow Together Through Repair, Not Perfection

    • How to Practice Accountability That Deepens Intimacy


    To learn more about Yung Pueblo: follow @yung_pueblo and visit: https://yungpueblo.com/

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    42 m
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