Have you ever felt stuck trying to make the right decision — afraid one wrong move could mess everything up?

In this honest and practical conversation, Meredith Brock and Cailah Garcia sit down with author and speaker Grace Valentine to talk about what it looks like to make decisions with God instead of with anxiety.

Through personal stories (including a hilarious texting mishap), biblical wisdom, and a deep dive into Proverbs 3:5-6, Grace reminds us that decision-making was never meant to be something we navigate alone. When we try to decode every outcome or gather endless opinions, we often spiral into chaos instead of stepping into wisdom.

If you’re facing a big decision right now — or simply feeling overwhelmed by uncertainty — this episode will help you pause, seek God’s voice, and move forward with faith instead of fear.

You’ll learn:

• Why trying to figure everything out on your own often leads to anxiety and overthinking.
• How Proverbs 3:5-6 gives a clear framework for navigating life’s decisions.
• What the difference is between seeking opinions and seeking godly wisdom.
• Why surrendering control is often the first step toward peace.
• How God can give you peace even when the decision in front of you feels uncomfortable.

Resources From This Episode:

• Connect With Grace Valentine. Follow her for more encouragement and biblical wisdom on navigating life’s biggest decisions.
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  Website: https://www.gracevalentine.org
• Encouragement for Today Devotions. Start your day grounded in God’s Word. Subscribe to receive short, Scripture-based devotions delivered straight to your inbox each morning — meeting you with biblical Truth right when you need it
• Come Close to Jesus — A Brand-New Resource From Lysa TerKeurst. When life feels heavy or uncertain, prayer can be the place where everything begins to shift. When you give today, you’ll receive Come Close to Jesus as our thank-you — a Scripture-rich prayer resource designed to help you quiet the noise, find the words when prayer feels hard, and draw near to the God who is always ready to meet you. Give now and receive your copy today.
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• Listen to Dr. Joel Muddamalle answer the question, “Why Am I So Afraid of Failure?” on The Proverbs 31 Ministries Podcast.

If you’ve ever sat down to pray and felt unsure of what to say — or wondered whether God is actually listening — this episode is for you.

In this honest and hope-filled conversation, Kaley Olson and Cailah Garcia sit down with Lysa TerKeurst to talk about what prayer really is: not a performance, not perfect words, but daily dependence on a God who is already near.

Together, they explore how to pray when you’re spiritually tired, how to discern whether you’re hearing God or just your own thoughts, and why asking for “daily bread” might be the most grounding prayer you can pray. If you’ve been wrestling with big unanswered prayers or quiet doubts, this episode gently reminds you that Jesus already came close to you — and He is not waiting for you to have it all together before you come to Him.

You’ll learn:

• Why prayer is meant to be a conversation — not a performance.
• How praying Scripture helps you align your heart with God’s will.
• A simple daily prayer Lysa prays before her feet hit the floor.
• How to discern whether a thought is consistent with God’s Word and His ways.

Resources From This Episode:

• Come Close to Jesus: What to Pray When You Need the Lord to Still Your Thoughts, Calm Your Heart, and Guide Your Way by Lysa TerKeurst. When you don’t know what to pray, this Scripture-rich prayer book offers guided prayers and biblical Truth to help you still your thoughts, calm your heart, and draw near to God — even in the middle of real life. It’s yours today when you give a gift to help another woman come close to Jesus again. Give now at www.proverbs31.org/give.
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• If you’re wrestling with what you’re walking through, listen to this episode: “When God Doesn’t Remove the Hard Thing — But Meets You in It.”

Our thoughts are busy places — full of worries, assumptions, memories, and what ifs that can quietly shape how we live and respond to the world around us. And while no one has a perfectly manicured mind, Scripture reminds us that we don’t have to be ruled by every thought that shows up.

In today’s episode, our friend Max Lucado joins us to share a hopeful, practical message about renewing your mind and learning to take your thoughts captive. Drawing from Romans 12 and other powerful passages, Max walks us through three simple but life-changing tools to help you identify toxic thought patterns, uproot lies, and replace them with God’s Truth.

You’ll learn:

• How to recognize patterns and start interrupting the destructive cycles in your life before they take hold.
• Tools to help you to renew your mind and walk into lasting transformation.
• Ways you can uproot the negative underlying beliefs behind your emotions and develop ways to replant truth in their place.
• You don’t have to accept every thought you have.

Partner With Us:

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by anxious thoughts, stuck in negative self-talk, or frustrated by emotional overreactions, this conversation will give you language, clarity, and next steps for moving forward with greater peace and freedom. That’s why we created a free downloadable resource called “I’ll Go First.”It is a simple, guided conversation tool designed to help you open honest, meaningful dialogue about what’s really going on beneath the surface. Whether you’re wrestling with your own thoughts or walking alongside someone who is, this resource gives you practical questions and biblical encouragement to begin the journey toward healthier thinking together.

Resources From This Episode:

• Continue doing deep work by also listening to “Tools to Fight Anxiety and Better Your Mental Health” with Rebecca Maxwell, available on the Therapy & Theology podcast and on YouTube.
• If you’re looking for a practical next step to help quiet anxious thoughts, check out Tame Your Thoughts by Max Lucado.
• Help women experience God’s nearness in this and every moment. Receive Come Close to Jesus as our thanks for your gift today.
• Send this episode to a friend who needs encouragement and God’s Truth today.
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