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  • 360. Why You Feel Lonely Despite Having Friends
    Nov 6 2025

    In this video, I examine what artificial intelligence suggests is contributing to widespread unrest related to mental health. I share inspiration and advice for self-improvement, aiming to help viewers avoid struggles. This episode focuses on psychology and self-help, offering mindset motivation.


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    0:00 Intro


    0:05 AI's Shocking Mental Health Answer


    0:43 The Breakdown in Human Bonds


    1:32 Why You Feel Lonely With Friends


    2:29 When Internet Wasn't Everywhere


    3:18 The Mask We All Wear


    3:56 Dating With False Identities


    4:27 Reconnecting With Yourself


    4:48 Journal Questions That Change Everything

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    5 m
  • 359. How to Train Your Brain to Feel Safe Again (The Power of Glimmers)
    Oct 30 2025

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    In this video, I explore how small, everyday “glimmers” can shift your nervous system from stress and overwhelm into calm, presence, and emotional regulation. If you struggle with anxiety, overthinking, or feeling constantly on edge, this might be the missing piece.


    A glimmer is the opposite of a trigger – it’s a tiny moment of safety, joy, or peace that signals to your system, “I’m okay.” And when we learn to notice these moments intentionally, we begin to rewire our baseline state from stress to grounded confidence and self worth.


    This isn’t toxic positivity. It’s nervous system awareness. When we learn to slow down and recognise what’s good, safe, and true in the moment, we create space to respond instead of react. Over time, that changes how we see ourselves, how we show up, and how we experience life.


    If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed or disconnected, try this: For the next 24 hours, notice and name three glimmers. See what happens.


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    00:00 Intro


    00:02 What Are Glimmers?


    00:43 Glimmers vs Triggers


    01:35 Why Glimmers Rewire Your Brain


    02:48 Your Nervous System & Emotional Safety


    03:37 Responding vs Reacting


    04:45 How to Start Noticing Glimmers Daily


    06:12 The 24-Hour Glimmer Practice


    07:20 How This Builds Confidence & Self Worth


    08:30 Becoming More Present in Everyday Life


    09:12 Final Thoughts & Next Steps

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    7 m
  • 358. The Uncomfortable Truth About Your Personal Brand
    Oct 23 2025

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    Your personal brand determines your success more than talent ever will. In this video, I reveal why you're already a product (like Starbucks or Apple) and how every action either builds or destroys your reputation. Discover what people REALLY say when your name comes up, the three words that define your brand, and how to bridge the gap between who you are and who you want to be. Whether you're job hunting, dating, or building a business, your personal brand is your most valuable currency.


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    0:00 - Intro


    0:05 - You're Already a Brand (The Starbucks Test)


    0:50 - What Happens When People Hear Your Name?


    1:30 - The Brutal Truth About Your Reputation


    2:17 - How Your Brand Affects Dating & Relationships


    3:21 - Why You're Attracting the Wrong People


    4:18 - The Google Search Test


    4:37 - The 3 Words Exercise


    5:25 - Bridging Your Brand Gap

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    6 m
  • 357. What Nobody Tells You About Mental Health Until It's Too Late
    Oct 16 2025

    1 in 4 young people aged 16-24 struggle with mental health. Men are 3 times more likely to die by s*****e, yet 3 times less likely to talk about it. Recorded on World Mental Health Day with students from DN College Group, we're breaking the silence.


    What we cover:


    - The truth about motivation vs discipline (and why you're not meant to feel motivated all the time)


    - How to manage anger and difficult emotions


    - Why fear keeps you playing small


    - The advice I'd give my 17-year-old self


    - How to actually look after your mental health


    If you're struggling, or worried about someone you care about, watch this.


    You don't have to go through it alone.


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    0:00 - Introduction: World Mental Health Day Special


    1:00 - The Shocking Stats: 1 in 4 Young People Struggle


    4:10 - The Biggest Lie About Mental Health


    11:29 - How Someone Asking "Are You Okay?" Saved My Life


    16:19 - Advice I'd Give My 17-Year-Old Self


    20:00 - The Truth About Motivation vs Discipline


    27:14 - You Are the Sky, Not the Clouds


    34:00 - Why Disruption Always Follows Intention


    36:46 - How to Manage Anger and Difficult Emotions

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    41 m
  • 356. Why Successful People Stay Bored (And You Should Too)
    Oct 2 2025

    Quitting when things get boring is why you're stuck. Discipline beats motivation, and building resolve through monotonous work is the secret nobody talks about. I'm Daniel James, mindset and high performance coach, and I'm breaking down why you haven't achieved your goals yet—and how to fix it.


    The process isn't meant to be exciting. Whether you're building a business, learning a skill, or strengthening relationships, the boring foundation is what creates lasting success. In this video, discover why "all work works" (either FOR you or ON you), how to build unshakeable commitment, and why you need to stop chasing excitement.


    Practical strategies included: the ice water test for mental toughness, understanding why you quit everything, and the mindset shift that changes everything.


    Your breakthrough is on the other side of boring.


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    0:00 - Intro


    0:05 - You're Stuck Because You Quit Too Soon


    1:04 - Why Boring Work Is Actually Building You


    2:23 - The Mindset Shift: Building Resolve


    3:32 - Ice Water Challenge (Test Your Mental Toughness)


    5:15 - "All Work Works" — Working For You vs On You


    6:40 - Why You Keep Quitting (The Growth Period)


    7:23 - The One Question That Changes Everything

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    8 m
  • 353. 3 Surprising Lessons From K-pop Demon Hunters
    Sep 25 2025

    I've discovered three life-changing mindset lessons hidden in Netflix's record-breaking K-pop Demon Hunters film that nobody's talking about. These aren't just entertainment insights—they're practical strategies for performing under pressure whilst staying authentic.


    In this video, I break down how this global phenomenon teaches us about conquering inner demons, the power of community, and finding purpose beyond personal gain. As a mindset coach, I've seen these exact principles transform my clients' lives.


    You'll learn why authenticity is your superpower, how community makes you unstoppable, and why purpose transforms pressure into motivation. No spoilers—just pure personal development gold from an unexpected source.


    If you're struggling with imposter syndrome, feeling isolated, or lacking direction, these insights will shift your perspective completely.


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    0:00 Intro


    0:05 Why Netflix's biggest hit holds life secrets


    1:02 The inner demons we all face daily


    2:02 Public vs private: dropping the mask


    5:08 Why community beats individual strength


    7:19 Purpose beyond performance mindset


    9:26 The demon hunter challenge for you

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    10 m
  • 352. Why Bad Days Mean You're Winning!
    Sep 18 2025

    Discover why your bad days are actually proof of progress! Learn about the positivity paradox - why feeling worse sometimes means you're getting better. In this video, I break down the contrast trap, how your brain forgets past struggles, and why your worst days now would've been victories before.


    As a mindset coach, I've seen countless people convince themselves they're back at square one after one difficult day. The truth? Your emotional floor has risen - you're just comparing today to your recent highs, not your past lows. I'll show you the league table analogy and emotional elevator concept that'll change how you view setbacks forever.


    You'll learn practical tools like mood journalling with the W/L method, understand why disappointment proves progress, and discover how to reframe temporary dips as success indicators. Stop letting the positivity paradox sabotage your mental health journey.


    Remember: your capacity for disappointment has grown because your capacity for joy grew first. Every bad day now is evidence of how far you've come.


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    0:00 Intro


    0:10 The sinking feeling that proves success


    0:49 What is the positivity paradox?


    1:16 League table analogy explained


    3:00 Your emotional floor has risen


    3:47 The contrast trap revelation


    5:41 Why your brain forgets the darkness


    7:30 Mood journalling with W/L method


    8:23 Setbacks as success indicators


    9:46 Reframing your bad days

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    11 m
  • 351. Why Your "Self-Love" Is Actually Self-Sabotage
    Sep 11 2025

    I thought self-compassion meant being gentle with myself until I realised I was actually practicing self-sabotage. In this video, I reveal the crucial difference between true self-compassion and self-indulgence that keeps you stuck.


    Discover the 3 game-changing tests to identify whether you're making loving choices or self-sabotaging ones. Learn why real self-compassion includes standards and boundaries, how to apply the loving parent test, and the critical difference between explanations and excuses.


    If you've been wondering why "being nicer to yourself" isn't creating the change you want, this episode will transform how you approach personal growth and accountability.


    What You'll Learn:


    The hidden difference between self-compassion and self-sabotage


    3 practical tests to identify genuine self-love vs excuses


    Why setting boundaries is actually self-compassionate


    How to hold yourself accountable from love, not hatred


    Key Question: "Is this what someone who truly loves me would encourage me to do?"


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    00:00 - Intro


    00:05 - Why most people get self-compassion completely wrong


    02:23 - The 3 tests to spot real self-compassion vs self-indulgence


    02:49 - Test #1: Self-compassion has standards (self-indulgence doesn't)


    04:20 - Test #2: The loving parent vs permissive parent approach


    05:56 - Test #3: Explanation vs excuse - knowing the difference


    08:14 - The one question that changes everything


    08:45 - Key takeaway: "Do what's right, not what's easy"

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    9 m