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  • A New Path to Dating (Season 6 | Episode 231)

    A New Path to Dating (Season 6 | Episode 231)
    Mar 25 2026
    A New Path to Dating (Season 6 | Episode 231) with Jason McGarva [TESSA] In this episode, we delve into the transformative journey of embracing life after children with Jason McGarva, a seasoned dating and confidence coach. As my partner and I step into our new roles as Open Nesters, we explore the concept of conscious dating and the potential for deeper connections during this stage of life. Jason shares his insights on how our past experiences shape our current relationships and how we can cultivate authentic confidence to navigate the dating world effectively. Meet Jason McGarva on INSTAGRAM A New Path to Dating (Season 6 | Episode 231) Jason discusses his unique approach to coaching, focusing on conscious communication and self-esteem. Drawing from his background, which includes influences from the pickup artist community, he emphasizes the importance of authenticity over tactics. We dive into the distinction between feeling one’s true value and resorting to tricks or strategies that may mask insecurities. Jason illustrates this point with personal anecdotes, recounting his own transformation from feeling socially awkward to confidently engaging in relationships. 0:59 Meet Jason McGarva 4:06 Learning to Connect 11:36 Dating After Divorce 17:13 Decision-Making and Dating 26:50 The Shift to Authenticity 30:33 Transformative Coaching 36:16 The Importance of Authenticity 41:06 Reflections on Dating The conversation shifts to the nuances of dating in our later years, particularly for women as they navigate a landscape where societal expectations often undervalue them. Jason expresses empathy towards their struggles and highlights the significance of developing a supportive network. We discuss the metaphor of a seesaw to explain relational dynamics, where the way we present ourselves can impact how we are perceived and valued in social contexts. The principles he outlines serve as a guide for those looking to improve their relational experiences—encouraging curiosity and openness while reducing the tendency to engage in negative self-talk. Throughout the episode, we touch on common frustrations faced by individuals re-entering the dating scene. Jason provides actionable advice aimed at building genuine connections through improved social skills and emotional awareness. He encourages listeners to recognize their intrinsic worth, emphasizing that it is not only about finding a partner but also about creating richer, more satisfying experiences with those around us. By learning to communicate authentically and confidently, we open doors to better relationships not only with potential partners but also with ourselves and our families. As we wind down the conversation, Jason shares his own story of vulnerability and growth, underscoring the importance of being authentic in romantic pursuits. His journey through personal challenges and eventual transformation highlights the deep connections that can form when we show our true selves. We conclude with a call to action, encouraging individuals to seek communities that foster growth and connection during these pivotal stages of life—further proving that life after kids can indeed be life wide open, filled with potential and enriching experiences. About Tessa Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters. Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author, and, of course, Podcaster. Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature. If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives. Please email Tessa to make a connection. And visit her page here on the Open Nesters Website. If you like, please answer the question: What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE… Adventure Freedom of Expression Exploration and Fun Body Movement New circles of friends Deep love relationships
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    42 m
  • Kim DeYoung Voice of Choice (Season 6 | Episode 230)

    Kim DeYoung Voice of Choice (Season 6 | Episode 230)
    Mar 19 2026
    Voice of Choice (Season 6 | Episode 230) with Kim DeYoung [TESSA] In this episode of the Open Nester Podcast, we engage with Kim DeYoung, a choice coach and author, who shares her insights on navigating life transitions in the open nester phase. As we explore the themes of vibrant health, relationships, and self-discovery, Kim illustrates how redefining our perspectives on aging can lead to a life full of possibilities. She emphasizes the transformation from being “empty nesters” to “open nesters,” highlighting a newfound freedom to seek new adventures and experiences as children leave home. Kim DeYoung Voice of Choice (Season 6 | Episode 230) We delve into the concept of choice, focusing on Kim’s philosophy and methodologies surrounding decision-making. With her own rich life experiences as a newly remarried mother of three young adults, Kim has developed a unique framework that encourages individuals to become more intentional in their choices. She discusses her journey of writing “The Book of Choice,” which blossomed from her decade-long dedication to understanding how choices can shape our lives. The book offers practical tools, including a technique known as choice mapping, guiding readers to explore the depth of their decisions. 1:10 The Power of Choice 5:18 Navigating Relationships with Intention 9:50 Supporting Our Children’s Choices 11:58 The Art of Choice Mapping 14:27 Balancing Risk and Reward 17:21 Parenting Without an Agenda 34:32 The Book of Choice 36:41 Reflecting on Our Choices Through a thought-provoking conversation, we touch upon the nuances of fostering deeper relationships with family. Kim shares personal anecdotes about guiding her children through their own decision-making processes, emphasizing the importance of cultivating autonomy. This aspect of her coaching methodology taps into the innate courage required to embrace risk and lean into uncertainty, especially for those in the late 50s and 60s who are exploring new chapters in their lives. We further reflect on the dynamics of modern parenting and intergenerational relationships; Kim offers guidance on allowing grown children to experience their choices without parental attachment to outcomes. The dialogue showcases the profound impact that curiosity and compassionate inquiry can have on our relationships, shifting the focus from control to understanding. Kim believes in the power of asking intentional questions to encourage her children and clients to unravel their desires and aspirations. Throughout the episode, we tackle the complexities of risk and the idea of stepping into the unknown. Kim gives practical examples of how one can innovate their life path while grounding decisions in self-awareness and authentic values. Listeners are encouraged to take small yet significant steps toward realizing their passions, whether it’s dating after divorce or exploring new career options—a testament to the idea that life is about trial and error and continuous discovery. To conclude our conversation, Kim invites everyone to connect with her through her vibrant presence on social media and to look out for her book, which serves as a comprehensive guide to navigating choices across various life stages. We hope this episode inspires you to embrace your open-nester journey with an open heart and a curious mind, reminding you that every choice holds the potential for remarkable growth and fulfillment. About Tessa Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters. Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author, and, of course, Podcaster. Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature. If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives. Please email Tessa to make a connection. And visit her page here on the Open Nesters Website. If you like, please answer the question: What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE… Adventure Freedom of Expression Exploration and Fun Body Movement New circles of friends Deep love relationships
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    42 m
  • ECSTASY and Riding Your Horse with Barbara Carrellas

    ECSTASY and Riding Your Horse with Barbara Carrellas
    Mar 11 2026
    ECSTASY and Riding Your Horse with Barbara Carrellas [TESSA] In this episode of the Open Nesters podcast, I welcome back Barbara Carrellas, a vital voice in the conversation surrounding sex, aging, and our evolving desires. Five years since her first appearance on the show, Barbara shares her insights on not merely accepting aging but embracing it with an open heart and mind, becoming what she terms “open nesters.” We explore how our relationships—be they with our children, parents, or romantic partners—can transcend traditional definitions, opening us up to new possibilities and experiences. ECSTASY and Riding Your Horse Barbara reflects on the intersection of sexuality and aging, leaning into her expertise in Urban Tantra, a practice that integrates sexuality with a broader understanding of intimacy and connection. She emphasizes the importance of transition, inviting listeners to consider the shifts our bodies undergo as we age and the joy that can still be found amid these changes. Through her teachings, she encourages radical acceptance, asking us to look past perceived limitations and embrace the opportunities that come with aging, whether that’s in our professional lives or our personal relationships. 2:16 Aging and Sexuality 6:03 Radical Acceptance and Adaptation 10:43 Embracing Childhood Dreams 12:52 Adapting to Change 18:04 The Power of Connection 24:17 Navigating Ecstasy and Difficulty 33:01 Finding New Possibilities A significant part of our discussion centers on Barbara’s new book, “The Book of Ecstasy,” where she expands upon themes from her previous work, “Ecstasy Is Necessary.” This new installment delves into how pleasure is experienced differently throughout life and how these changes can open doors to new sources of joy and ecstasy. It’s not only about maintaining a connection to our past desires but also about finding new ways to experience pleasure—what Barbara refers to as the “learning radical acceptance.” During our conversation, Barbara shares poignant personal stories, like her unexpected journey into horseback riding during the pandemic, which reminded her of the importance of pursuing childhood dreams. This narrative serves as a reminder that the things we once set aside can re-emerge in our lives in meaningful ways, fostering a sense of joy and excitement despite the physical challenges we may encounter. We touch on how the concept of ecstasy is not solely linked to pleasure but is also about being open to the paradoxes in life—the joy interwoven with grief, the light with the dark. Through Tantra, Barbara illustrates that ecstatic experiences can arise even from sorrow and loss, redefining our relationship with our emotions and experiences. We acknowledge how vital community support is, particularly in instances of health challenges, and how social media can provide a platform for shared experiences and encouragement. Finally, we discuss the nuances of ‘ecstasy drop’—the emotional downturn that can follow intense ecstatic experiences—and how to navigate this often-overlooked aspect of our emotional journeys. Barbara’s insights help illuminate paths for listeners who may feel overwhelmed by the highs and lows of life, encouraging them to seek support and connection. Through this enlightening dialogue, Barbara Carrellas provides listeners with ample permission to explore new aspects of intimacy, pleasure, and joy as they navigate the stages of their lives. She encourages us all to keep our hearts open and to trust that new and fulfilling paths await, supported by community and understanding. About Tessa Tessa Krone is the engine behind and the face of The Open Nesters. Tessa holds an MA in Consciousness Studies and is a speaker, coach, program, and journey facilitator & leader, author, and, of course, Podcaster. Her offerings are based on her mission to help people open to their most self-expressed, loving selves. Tessa’s specialties include embodiment from all the senses and elements of our inner and outer lives, ranging from mindfulness, dance, play, and sensory exploration in nature. If she had one superpower, it would be to help people, especially as they age, to live more open-hearted lives. Please email Tessa to make a connection. And visit her page here on the Open Nesters Website. If you like, please answer the question: What do you need to OPEN your NEST? In your LIFE. In your BODY. In your SPIRIT. Do you need MORE… Adventure Freedom of Expression Exploration and Fun Body Movement New circles of friends Deep love relationships
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