The Not-So Perfect Neighbor

In this episode of Pod Candy, Stacey and Dori dive into a raw, emotionally charged conversation sparked by Netflix’s The Perfect Neighbor. They focus on the bigger questions the documentary raises—about boundaries, neighbor conflicts, police response, fear, and how everyday tensions can spiral into irreversible tragedy

Their discussion moves candidly between empathy and accountability as Stacey and Dori debate personal responsibility, parental boundaries, and whether this situation could—or should—have been stopped long before it turned deadly. Forensic psychologist Dr. John Mayer joins to add psychological context, exploring anger, isolation, entitlement, and how unresolved conflict can become a dangerous obsession.
The team unpacks the uncomfortable gray areas: how people justify their behavior, how systems fail, and how easily “normal” disputes can escalate when no one truly intervenes. Thought-provoking, emotional, and deeply human, this conversation stays with you long after the episode ends.

Source Documentary: "The Perfect Neighbor" on Netflix