"The only people that I spoke to that one, didn't make me feel like an alien and two, spoke my language were neurodivergent people."

In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan and Simon are joined by Jordans wife Sylvia. They discuss how they discovered their neurodivergence, how Sylvia was the one who first realized that Jordan might be autistic, and her experience of discovering her own neurodivergence and the positive impact it has had on their family. The couple talk about the importance of understanding and supporting each other, and how they have worked through challenges in their relationship. The conversation highlights the need for patience, empathy, and a different approach to communication when dealing with neurodivergent individuals. Simon shares his journey navigating struggles with school, questioning his identity, and finally finding his tribe. He emphasizes the importance of understanding and acceptance from family and friends, and the power of connecting with other neurodivergent individuals.

Takeaways

• Understanding and supporting neurodivergent individuals requires patience, empathy, and a willingness to learn different communication strategies.
• Working through challenges in a neurodivergent relationship requires ongoing effort, understanding, and a commitment to personal growth.
• Discovering one's neurodivergence can be a challenging and confusing journey, but it can also lead to self-acceptance and a sense of belonging.
• Connecting with other neurodivergent individuals can provide a sense of community and understanding.
• Society needs to change its perception of neurodivergent individuals and provide better support and resources.

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"Neurodivergent Jenga is like many little triggers, which take away each one of your little bricks"

In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss the concept of losing spoons and playing Neurodivergent Jenga. We talk the concept of spoons, which represents energy levels, and how different factors can drain or add to their spoons throughout the day. Have you ever been stuck playing Neurodivergent Jenga, where small triggers can lead to a meltdown? We share our personal experiences with triggers and sensory issues and how they can affect our daily lives. Jordan discusses the challenges of being a parent and how neurodivergent children can trigger your own triggers.

Takeaways

• Spoons represent energy levels, and various factors can drain or add to them throughout the day
• Understanding and managing triggers can help prevent meltdowns and preserve spoons
• Parents of neurodivergent children may face additional challenges and need to find a balance between guidance and understanding.
• Executive dysfunction can affect daily tasks and routines, leading to triggers.

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"Neurodivergent tax, also known as ADHD tax, is the impulse buying that has been a delight and a burden on me and my finances."

In this episode of the Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott discuss impulse buying and 'Neurodivergent Tax'. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with impulse buying, including purchasing expensive items like dogs and sneakers, and having to pay the ND tax. They also touch on the impact of FOMO (fear of missing out) and the role of research in impulse buying.

Takeaways

• FOMO (fear of missing out) can contribute to impulse buying, as individuals may feel the need to participate in certain trends or experiences.
• Research can play a role in impulse buying, as individuals may justify their purchases by conducting extensive research and convincing themselves of the value.
• Impulse buying can have both positive and negative consequences, ranging from the joy of acquiring desired items to financial strain and regret.
• Setting boundaries and being mindful of impulsive tendencies can help manage and control impulse buying behaviour.
• Sales and second-hand items can be more affordable options for satisfying shopping desires.
• Parents may feel compelled to buy things for their children to ensure they don't miss out.

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