Your brain is constantly switching between two modes of knowing: the left hemisphere’s precision and prediction, and the right hemisphere’s intuition and imagination. Between them lies the tender space where narrative forms — and where regulation becomes possible.

In this episode, we explore how these two worlds create your ongoing “story of self,” and how that story becomes the map your nervous system uses to determine safety, danger, overwhelm, or possibility. You’ll discover why old narratives feel so sticky, why neurodivergent minds process story so intensely, and how awareness creates the tiny space where freedom begins.

Through vivid metaphors, grounded neuroscience, and a powerful guided practice, you’ll learn to step into the witness — the part of you that can see the story without becoming it. And from that place, you can shift the state, shift the narrative, and shift your next move in the world.

This is narrative neurobiology in action — and it changes everything.

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In this Hot Topic episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott break down a new research article showing how major autism charities portray autistic people as helpless, burdensome, and in constant need of “saving.”

Jordan and Simon explore why so many large charities rely on harmful tropes (puzzle pieces, sad children, deficit language) to generate donations, while autistic-led organisations struggle for support despite doing meaningful work. They discuss tokenism, the “non-disabled saviour” complex, and why proper representation — especially leadership by autistic people — is essential.

Together, they discuss:

• How major charities use stigma and pity to raise money
• Why are autistic people often shown as “helpless children” instead of adults
• The problem with puzzle pieces and deficit-based imagery
• Tokenism and non-autistic leadership in autism organisations
• How charities profit from pity and maintain their monopoly
• Why many autistic-led charities struggle — despite doing better work
• How misrepresentation harms autistic adults seeking dignity and support
• Why nothing should be “about us without us”

The article:https://theconversation.com/autism-charities-can-portray-autistic-people-as-helpless-and-a-burden-our-research-shows-why-it-matters-267385

Jordan also shares stories about being approached by big charities, navigating the ethics of working with organisations, and how he nearly got pulled into a profit-driven model disguised as “non-profit.” They close by highlighting autistic-led charities worth supporting, including Autism Southeast, and why grassroots organisations are essential for real change.

This episode is blunt, necessary, and gives a voice to autistic adults tired of being framed as problems to be fixed. If you’re frustrated with how autism is portrayed, this is one you won’t want to miss.

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In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott dive into a huge question many late-diagnosed autistic and ADHD adults wrestle with: Would a childhood diagnosis have actually changed anything — or possibly made life harder?

Jordan and Simon share personal stories of bullying, masking, meltdowns, stigma, and internalised ableism — and reflect on how childhood diagnosis might have affected their families, identities, independence, careers, and relationships. They also read listener responses on how late diagnosis shaped (or didn’t shape) their lives.

Together, they explore:

• Why early diagnosis can bring validation, language, and support
• How lack of awareness in previous decades created stigma and misinformation
• Whether childhood diagnosis could have prevented trauma — or simply added a label for bullies
• The fear of being limited, infantilised, or underestimated as a neurodivergent child
• How family understanding (or lack of it) shapes identity and self-esteem
• The generational shift in autism knowledge — and why today’s kids have more tools
• Late diagnosis as both a relief and a grieving process
• Why the past can’t be changed — but the future absolutely can

This is an honest, nuanced conversation for anyone who has ever wondered how life might have looked if they’d been understood sooner. Whether you were diagnosed as a child, in your 30s, or at 60, this episode reminds you that your neurodivergent journey starts when you finally have the language for it — and it’s never too late to rewrite your story.

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