The Most Dangerous Lie Creatives Tell Themselves (and How to Stop)

In this fired-up, heart-on-sleeve episode, Mak and Valerie tackle one of the biggest invisible barriers creative people face: waiting for permission.

Whether it's from society, our families, our Instagram followers, or—most sneakily—ourselves, this need for outside validation keeps so many creatives stuck on the sidelines. If you've ever found yourself saying "I'll start when…" or "I'm not legit enough yet," this one’s for you.

They talk candidly about the cultural contradictions around creativity, the fear that hides behind perfectionism, and why messy action is the only kind that actually leads to growth. Expect laughter, tough love, a few rants, and a whole lot of truth.

By the end, you’ll be ready to grab a pen and write your own permission slip—no gatekeepers required.

✨ KEY TAKEAWAYS:

• You don’t need anyone to “pick you.” You’re the one holding the pen. Start writing your own permission slip.
• Waiting to feel “legit” is a lie your fear tells you. Action is what makes you legitimate—not credentials or fancy tools.
• Creativity often gets boxed in by society—but it’s essential, not extra. You’re not frivolous for wanting a creative life. You’re human.
• You’re allowed to pivot. Trying something doesn’t mean you’re locked in forever.
• Feeling jealous? That’s a clue. It’s pointing you toward something your soul wants. Use it.
• No one has it all figured out when they begin. And the ones who look like they do? They just started anyway.
• Every “failed” creative path teaches you something vital. Nothing is wasted.
• Messy, imperfect action beats perfect plans every time. Get your hands dirty. That’s where the magic is.

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