In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton sits down with former professional athlete and hedge fund analyst Alex Feinberg to deconstruct the "Success Trap" facing modern professionals. Alex shares his journey from the stress of elite athletics to the high-stakes world of Silicon Valley and high finance, where he discovered the "writing on the wall": the global economy is designed to maximize your output while minimizing your freedom.

They deep-dive into the Triple Seven Framework—the ultimate benchmark for integrated success: 7 hours of sleep, a 7-minute mile, and 7 figures of liquid assets. Alex explains why most high-performers are "isolated operators" who sacrifice their health for digits on a screen, and provides the Kingpin Model for reclaiming 10–20 hours a week without losing your professional edge.

If you are a faith-driven leader seeking financial sovereignty, time mastery, and a deeper connection with your family, this conversation is your orientation for the "6-Hour CEO" lifestyle.

Chapters:

0:00 – The "Wallpaper Filter": Why you ignore the obvious

2:15 – Why the world is designed to enslave the American man

7:45 – The Pro Athlete Multiplier: Why your physique is your resume

13:10 – Hedge Fund Secrets: How to win when you aren't working

19:35 – The Kingpin Model: Identifying high-leverage moves

25:50 – Triple Seven Framework: Sleep, Speed, and Seven Figures

34:10 – Why "Work-Life Balance" is a lie for leaders

42:15 – Reclaiming your role as the Modern Noble Knight

Feinberg's Links:

Website/Professional Bio: www.insanelyaddictive.com

LinkedIn: alexfeinberg1

YouTube: @alexfeinberg1

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Science reveals that enjoying your habits might be shrinking your brain. Here is the neuroscience of the AMCC and why 90% of modern men are physically and mentally weaker than their grandfathers.

In this episode of The Modern Man, we sit down with a High-Performance Strategist to decode the biological and sociological crisis facing men today. We break down the Anterior Mid-Cingulate Cortex (AMCC)—the specific area of the brain responsible for willpower—and why new research suggests that "doing what you love" might be killing your resilience.

If you feel like you are working harder but getting weaker, the data backs you up. From plummeting grip strength to the "loneliness recession," we examine the exact statistics that reveal why modern men are falling behind previous generations. But more importantly, we give you the protocol to join the top 10% who are thriving.

We also dive deep into "The Anger Trap"—why most men default to anger because they lack the tools to process shame, guilt, or fear—and how to finally break that cycle to become a better husband, father, and leader.

In this episode, you will learn:

• The Neuroscience of Willpower: Why the AMCC only grows when you do things you hate.
• The "90/10" Rule: Why the gap between the top 10% of men and the bottom 90% is widening.
• Emotional Leadership: How to stop snapping at your family by identifying the "primary emotion" beneath your anger.
• The "Rule of 3": A simple morning protocol to rebuild your self-respect before 8 AM.

Chapter

00:00 - The "Weakness" Crisis: Intro & Hook

02:23 - Why Comfort Kills Ambition (The Kilimanjaro Lesson)

06:58 - The AMCC: Why "Enjoying It" Shrinks Your Brain (Must Watch)

11:43 - How To Hack Your Self-Talk During Hard Tasks

18:53 - The 90% Decline: Why You Are Weaker Than Your Grandfather

26:07 - The "Anger Trap": Why Men Only Show 2 Emotions

33:00 - The "Nice Guy" Syndrome & People Pleasing

42:17 - Purpose vs. Pleasure: The Viktor Frankl Formula

49:23 - From Page to Emperor: The 4 Stages of Manhood

54:11 - The "Rule of 3": How To Fix Your Life By Tomorrow Morning

Kappelhof's Links:

Website/Professional Bio: thewhitehousery.com

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Is your doctor lying to you about recovery?

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Tommy Rhee, the former team doctor for the Tampa Bay Buccaneers and a pioneer in regenerative medicine. We uncover the dark side of "traditional" pain management—why cortisone shots, ice, and pain killers might actually be accelerating your aging process and destroying your joints.

We dive deep into the breakthrough science of "Zombie Cells" (Senescence), how to lengthen your telomeres to reverse biological aging, and the new topical stem cell technology (Regen) that is saving NFL careers without a single needle. If you are a man over 30 feeling the aches of aging, this episode is your roadmap to a pain-free life.

CHAPTERS

0:00 - The "Pain Med" Trap: Why masking injury leads to rupture

02:17 - Who is Dr. Tommy Rhee? (NFL & UCLA Experience)

03:55 - Recovery vs. Overtraining: Why you feel old & tired

08:21 - The Truth About Cortisone & Injections (Secondary Injury)

10:32 - The "Regen" Breakthrough: Stem cells without needles?

14:39 - What are "Zombie Cells"? (The Science of Aging)

20:29 - Live Cells vs. Cell-Free: Safety & Cancer Risks Explained

26:49 - How to fix "Dad Knees" & Tennis Elbow

32:05 - WARNING: Stop taking pain meds before a workout

33:44 - The Future of Longevity: Active at 80

49:03 - Dr. Rhee diagnoses Ted's foot pain (Live Consult)

Rhee's Links:

Website: rheegen.com

Practice: physicalchiro.com

Instagram: dr.rheetommy

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The unspoken reality of being a widower, a single father, and a man trying to find love again.

In this episode, I sit down with David McClain and Jamal Jones, hosts of the powerful podcast Getting Back Up. Both men lost their wives to cancer and were left to raise their children alone. They reveal the brutal truths about grief that most men are too afraid to admit—from the anger you feel at your late spouse for leaving you, to the guilt of removing their furniture to reclaim your home.

If you are struggling with loss, navigating single fatherhood, or feeling guilty about moving on, this conversation is the permission slip you didn't know you needed.

Topics Discussed:

- Why "staying strong" is actually a weakness in disguise.

- The "Dad's House, Dad's Rules" moment: Changing the environment to survive.

- How to date again without feeling like you are cheating on your late wife.

- The concept of "Post-Traumatic Growth" and how to harden like an egg, not soften like a carrot.

Chapters:

0:00 - Intro: The Widower's Dilemma

01:44 - The "Playdate" That Saved My Life

04:51 - What Male Grief Actually Looks Like (It's Not What You Think)

09:07 - Single Dad Survival Mode: "Breakfast, Lunch, and Dinner"

13:50 - The Hard Truth: "You Can't Live In The Grave"

20:41 - The Taboo Emotion: Being Angry At Your Dead Wife

27:15 - Post-Traumatic Growth: The Egg vs. The Carrot

31:48 - How To Stop Passing Trauma To Your Children

36:31 - Finding Love After Loss: Navigating The Guilt

39:41 - "Dad's Rules": Why I Changed The Furniture

47:09 - Why Me? vs. Why Not Me?

McLain's & Jones's Links

Amazon Podcast: Getting Back Up Podcast Finding

Apple Podcast: Getting Back Up Podcast Finding

iHeart: Getting Back Up Podcast Finding

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Are you an ambitious professional feeling overworked and ready to reclaim 10-20 hours of your week? In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, Ted Phaeton sits down with real estate mogul Chris Prefontaine to break down the exact real estate strategy you need to exit your 9-5 and achieve financial freedom without ever stepping foot in a bank.

Chris reveals his "Three Paydays" framework—a proven system for creative real estate investing that uses owner financing and principal-only payments to build passive income and long-term wealth. If you're a family-oriented leader looking for structure, brotherhood, and clarity, this is your roadmap to becoming a time-confident Noble Knight.

Chapters:

00:00 – Why most men feel isolated and unfulfilled in their pursuit of success.

02:18 – Resiliency: How Chris navigated the 2008 crash and came out debt-free.

05:14 – The 3-7 Year Rule: Why "Shiny Object Syndrome" is killing your progress.

07:48 – No-Bank Investing: A deep dive into owner financing and principal-only deals.

10:08 – The 18-Month Blueprint: How to transition from a W-2 to full-time investing.

20:48 – The Three Paydays Framework explained.

31:32 – Living the Dream: What life looks like with zero debt and total time freedom.

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You achieved the money, the car, and the title... so why do you feel empty?

In this episode, I sit down with Rob Kalwarowsky, an MIT-trained engineer turned elite executive coach who has worked with everyone from Olympic Gold Medalists to Fortune 500 executives. But before the success, Rob was "The Robot"—a high-achiever who saved his company tens of millions of dollars while secretly battling a toxic work environment that led him to a suicide attempt.

We uncover the "Success Lie" that keeps men isolated, overworked, and unfulfilled. Rob reveals the "DIY Mask" that caps your business growth, the specific phrase that predicts burnout in 6 months, and the "I'm Human" leadership method that can turn your internal chaos into your greatest competitive advantage.

If you feel like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, this conversation is your permission to put it down.

◼️ Topics Discussed:

The "High Performer Robot" mindset and why it's deadly.

How to spot the "Trappings of Success" before it's too late.

Why your "Do It Yourself" mask is costing you millions.

The "I'm Human" code word strategy for high-stress teams.

Internal Family Systems: How to manage the voices in your head.

Chapters

00:00 - The "Success Trap" Trailer

1:47 - The "Rob Kawasaki" Story & Identity

2:22 - Turning Internal Chaos Into An Advantage

4:16 - The "High Achieving Robot": Making Millions, Feeling Nothing

08:35 - The Breaking Point: Depression & The Suicide Attempt

12:36 - Waking Up: Why We Go Back To Work After Rock Bottom

16:13 - The "Status Quo" Bias: Why You Can't Leave Your Toxic Job

20:00 - Internal Family Systems: Who Is Controlling Your Brain?

26:31 - The "DIY Mask": Why You Are The Bottleneck In Your Business

31:00 - The "I'm Human" (or Cheesecake Factory) Strategy

35:23 - The "Pointless" Feeling of Winning

42:58 - The Hawaii Moment: Choosing Freedom Over Fear

Kalwarowsky's Links

Website: www.robkalwarowsky.com

LinkedIn: rob-kalwarowsky

Instagram: bosscoachrobk

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Jesse Todisco was a successful salesman by day and a heroin addict by night. Then came the 30-hour bus ride that changed everything.

In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, I sit down with Jesse Todisco—author of From Heroin to Healer—to discuss the dark reality of high-functioning addiction and the "impossible" journey of recovery. Jesse opens up about breaking the cycle of generational trauma, the truth about quitting cold turkey, and the profound Ayahuasca experience where he reconnected with his deceased daughter.

If you feel stuck, numb, or like you are repeating your father's mistakes, this conversation is the wake-up call you need. We go beyond the surface to discuss why "success" often masks deep pain and how to finally find peace.

In this episode, you will learn:

The Hidden Cost: How high-performers hide addiction and why rock bottom is necessary.

The Impossible Twist: Jesse's firsthand account of seeing his dead daughter during a plant medicine ceremony.

Breaking Trauma: How to stop being "just like your dad" and become the father your children need.

Tactical Tools: How to use Breathwork and "Gratitude Stacking" to hack depression immediately.

CHAPTERS

0:00 - Intro: The High-Functioning Addict

09:18 - Growing Up With a Heroin Addict Father

11:11 - The 30-Hour Bus Ride That Saved My Life

13:51 - The Truth About Quitting Cold Turkey

22:49 - What Is a Spiritual Awakening? (Real Definition)

28:02 - I Saw My Dead Daughter (Ayahuasca Story)

31:19 - Integration: How to Actually Change Your Life

35:19 - Parenting: Breaking The Cycle of Anger

39:04 - "Gratitude Stacking": A Tool for Depression

43:14 - What It Means to Be a Modern Man

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Book: From Heroin to Healer (Amazon)

Organization: weareawakenedhearts.org

Email: hello@jessetidisco.com

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ABOUT THE HOST Ted Phaeton is a TV News Anchor, Coach, and the Host of The Modern Man Podcast. He helps ambitious men master their time so they can lead their families, build wealth, and leave a legacy—without burning out.

Does God want you to be rich? In this episode, Bishop Kevin Foreman reveals the biblical blueprint for building wealth and challenges the controversial idea that "Jesus was poor."

If you are a man of faith who feels conflicted about chasing financial success, this conversation will change your life. Bishop Foreman—a multi-millionaire entrepreneur, author, and pastor—breaks down why poverty is not holiness, how to use the "Divine Download" strategy to scale your business, and the exact steps to go from surviving to thriving.

We also dive deep into overcoming childhood trauma, conquering the "Inner Me," and why you must stop waiting for someone to save you.

CHAPTERS

0:00 - Intro: Is Being Broke Biblical?

01:41 - "I Exist To Change Lives": The Bishop's Mission

03:21 - Surviving Abuse: Lessons From An "Ike Turner" Stepfather

04:34 - The #1 Enemy Every Man Faces (It's Not The Devil)

06:28 - How To Stop Sabotaging Your Own Success

10:15 - The Skill of Turning "Nothing Into Something"

14:42 - The Controversy: Was Jesus Actually Rich?

16:47 - Why It Is Evil To NOT Be Financially Empowered

19:51 - The "Divine Download": A Supernatural Business Strategy

23:31 - From Surviving to Thriving: The ABC Method

30:17 - How To Grow In A "Graveyard" (The Harvest Church Story)

37:07 - How To Become A History Maker

42:33 - The Hard Truth: Nobody Is Coming To Save You

🎙️ ABOUT THE GUEST:

Dr. Bishop Kevin Foreman is a nationally recognized leader, success coach, and the founder of Harvest Church (now History Makers). He is a serial entrepreneur who built Denver's largest black-owned real estate finance brokerage by age 21.

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Website: www.harvestchurch.church

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X: bishopforeman

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