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  • 180: Rick Walker: 9 Steps to Building a Life of Meaning in a Modern World
    Nov 7 2025

    In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton engages with Rick Walker, author of 'Nine Steps to Build a Life of Meaning.' They discuss the importance of family, the challenges young men face today, and the necessity of embracing failure as a pathway to growth. Rick shares practical advice for daily improvement, the value of reading old books, and how facing fears can lead to personal development. The conversation emphasizes the significance of community, accountability, and the pursuit of a meaningful life.

    Takeaways

    • Too many men are winning on paper, but losing themselves.
    • The most important thing we do is who we raise.
    • Life is merely a string of failures with occasional moments of perfection.
    • Pain ultimately becomes the only pathway to joy.
    • The purpose of a good man is to invade the evil that he sees around him.
    • The two shall become one, it doesn't say that you stop being one flesh.
    • The thing that you least want to do is the thing you most need to do next.
    • If you don't know what you want, find out what you don't want to exist.
    • The older the sage, the quicker the solution.
    • If one man's done it, another man can do it.

    Chapters
    00:54 – Introduction to The Modern Man Podcast
    02:18 – Rick Walker's Journey and Identity
    03:16 – The Importance of Fatherhood and Family Dynamics
    07:48 – Embracing Failure as a Path to Success
    09:41 – The Crucial Age of 25 to 45 for Men
    11:58 – Defensive Strategies Against Modern Threats
    13:05 – Practical Steps for Daily Success
    17:34 – The Impact of Morning Routines on Life
    21:24 – The Value of Reading Old Books
    23:09 – Exploring Diverse Literature for Wisdom
    25:13 – The Value of Adversity and Fear
    28:55 – The Importance of Risk and Growth
    31:47 – Creating Meaningful Lives for Future Generations
    34:20 – Taking Action Against Evil
    37:33 – Finding Purpose in Family and Relationships

    Walker’s Links

    Website: rickwalker.com

    X: RickWalkerTX

    YouTube: rickwalkertx

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  • 179: Delegate to Elevate: Scaling Through Talent & Systems with Kasim Aslam
    Oct 31 2025

    In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton engages with entrepreneur Kasim Aslam, who shares his journey of building multiple successful businesses and the challenges that come with sustaining interest in them. They discuss the importance of finding purpose beyond financial success, the role of education in achieving one's goals, and the significance of identifying problems for success. Kasim emphasizes the value of reading both fiction and non-fiction to enhance understanding and creativity in business. The conversation also touches on the desire to give back to the community and the importance of waking up early to maximize productivity.

    Takeaways

    • Kasim Aslam emphasizes the importance of self-awareness in entrepreneurship.
    • The journey of building businesses often leads to a loss of interest once they succeed.
    • Finding a purpose beyond financial success is crucial for long-term fulfillment.
    • Chasing money early in life can provide the freedom to explore passions later.
    • Education is a key factor in achieving success and building a legacy.
    • Identifying problems is more valuable than simply solving them for others.
    • Reading fiction can enhance understanding of human behavior and motivation.
    • Non-fiction books condense years of experience into digestible insights.
    • Building a community and giving back can create a meaningful impact.
    • The importance of waking up early to maximize productivity and creativity.

    Chapters

    01:10 – Introduction to the Modern Man Podcast
    02:49 – Kasim Aslam: The Business Builder
    07:37 – The Challenge of Sustaining Interest
    12:37 – Finding Purpose Beyond Financial Success
    18:10 – The Inevitability of Success
    24:39 – Literature and Philosophy in Business
    26:03 – Identifying Problems: The Key to Success
    29:02 – The Power of Conceptual Thinking
    30:43 – The Role of Curiosity and Inspiration
    34:39 – Understanding People Through Fiction
    36:53 – The Legacy of Education and Entrepreneurship
    41:21 – Pareto Talent: Leveraging the 80-20 Rule

    Aslam’s Links

    Website: kasimaslam.com

    LinkedIn: kasimaslam

    YouTube: kasimaslam

    Facebook: kasimaslam

    Instagram: kasimaslam

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  • 178: From Lifting Weights to Lifting Consciousness: The Evolution of Mike Bledsoe
    Oct 24 2025
    In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted engages with Mike Bledsoe, a performance philosopher and leadership coach, discussing the journey of men in pursuit of success and fulfillment. They explore themes of emotional resilience, self-awareness, and the transformative power of fear. Mike shares his personal experiences, including his transition from fitness coaching to emotional development, and the importance of understanding one's emotions as a pathway to personal growth. The conversation culminates in the introduction of the Full Stack community, aimed at helping men navigate their emotional landscapes and achieve sustainable success. Takeaways Men often feel isolated and unfulfilled despite chasing success.Self-awareness is crucial for personal growth and transformation.Fear can be a powerful motivator if understood correctly.Emotional intelligence is key to achieving peak performance.Personal development requires a balance between heart and mind.The body holds significant intelligence that informs our emotions.Relationships can serve as mirrors for personal growth.It's important to embrace emotions rather than suppress them.Finding peace can enhance passion and productivity.The journey of self-discovery is ongoing and multifaceted. Chapters 00:00 – Awakening A Cycle Of Clarity (Teaser) 00:47 – Introduction to the Modern Man Podcast 02:02 – Meet Mike Bledsoe: A Journey of Transformation 03:41 – The Evolution of Self-Awareness 07:35 – The Role of Fear in Success 15:07 – Finding Peace Amidst Achievement 20:11 – Rewiring Relationships with Fear and Success 27:50 – Understanding Success and Awareness 28:57 – The Body as a Gateway to Awakening 37:51 – Emotional Intelligence and Its Impact 49:09 – The Full Stack Community and Its Mission Bledsoe's Links Website: bledsoe.life YouTube: MikeBledsoe Instagram: mike_bledsoe Free eBook Here: Mastering Self-Development: Strategies of the New Masculine: https://rebrand.ly/m2ebook ⚔️JOIN THE NOBLE KNIGHTS MASTERMIND⚔️ https://themodernmanpodcast.com/thenobleknights 🤝CONNECT WITH THE MODERN MAN🤝 Visit our website: themodernmanshow.com Follow us on Twitter: TheModernMan8 Follow us on Instagram: @TheModernManShow Subscribe to our YouTube channel: The Modern Man
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  • 177: Designing a Life That Doesn’t Need Escaping: LifeWork Design with Kason Morris
    Oct 17 2025

    In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Kason Morris, a strategist and author, about the importance of skills, story, and strategy in designing a fulfilling life and career. They discuss the concept of life work design, the role of AI as a partner in the workplace, and the significance of alignment over achievement. Kason shares insights on reinventing one's identity beyond job titles, emphasizing the need for adaptability and community support in personal growth. The conversation concludes with reflections on legacy and the lessons we can impart to future generations.

    Takeaways

    • Your strategy should be driven by who you are as a person.
    • Skills, story, and strategy are essential for personal branding.
    • Work should be a tool that funds and fuels your life.
    • AI is a partner that can enhance human capabilities.
    • Balance in work and life is a false dichotomy.
    • Alignment with personal values leads to fulfillment.
    • Community and accountability are crucial for personal growth.
    • Unlearning outdated beliefs is necessary for progress.
    • Design a life you never want to escape from.
    • Legacy is about living purposefully and impacting others.

    Chapters

    01:02 – Introduction to the Modern Man Podcast
    02:22 – Meet Kason Morris: A Powerhouse Strategist
    03:51 – Defining Strategy: Skills, Story, and Strategy
    05:25 – The Importance of Story in Life Work Design
    09:39 – Transitioning Skills for Life Work Design
    14:04 – AI as a Partner, Not an Adversary
    20:34 – Alignment Beats Achievement
    24:48 – Reinventing Identity: Letting Go of Titles
    29:16 – Designing a Life You Never Want to Escape
    35:40 – Legacy and Lessons for Future Generations

    Morris’s Links

    Website: kasonmorris.com

    LinkedIn: kason-morris

    Instagram:kasonmorris.official

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  • 176: Leveling Up: Learn-It-All Leadership & Growth with Damon Lembi (Part Two)
    Oct 10 2025

    In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton welcomes back Damon Lembi, CEO of Learn It, to discuss the importance of leadership, continuous learning, and the evolving landscape of work in the age of AI. They explore the journey of becoming a leader, the significance of empathy and authenticity, and how to navigate challenges with resilience. Damon shares insights on identifying potential leaders, the value of feedback, and the necessity of transparency during chaotic times. The conversation emphasizes the importance of seeing untapped potential in others and the role of AI in shaping the future of leadership.

    Takeaways

    • Leaders are always in the making, not just born or made.

    • Empathy is a critical skill for effective leadership.

    • Authenticity builds trust and connection with your team.

    • Great leaders see untapped potential in others.

    • Feedback is essential for growth and improvement.

    • Transparency is key during chaotic times.

    • AI will work alongside humans, not replace them.

    • Effective leaders empower their teams and delegate tasks.

    • Continuous learning is vital for personal and professional growth.

    • Resilience is necessary to navigate challenges and setbacks.

    Chapters
    00:50 – Introduction to The Modern Man Podcast
    02:07 – The Journey of a Forever Student
    02:49 – Transitioning from Individual Contributor to Leader
    07:01 – Identifying Leadership Qualities
    09:51 – The Importance of Authenticity in Leadership
    13:49 – Overcoming Personal Challenges as a Leader
    17:31 – Finding Purpose in Pain
    20:06 – Leadership Habits for Growth
    21:40 – The Power of Listening in Leadership
    24:28 – Setting Boundaries and Prioritizing Tasks
    26:10 – Leading Through Chaos and Challenges
    29:50 – Self-Care and Resilience in Leadership
    33:09 – The Future of Leadership in an AI World

    Lembi’s Links

    Website:

    www.thelearnitallleader.com

    www.thelearnit.com/free

    Tiktok: @keala_kanae

    LinkedIn: damonlembi

    YouTube: @LearnitTraining

    Facebook: Learn.iT.anywhere

    Instagram:damonlembi

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  • 175: From Imposter to Unf*ckwithable: Transformation Coaching with Keala Kanae
    Oct 3 2025

    In this episode of the Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton engages with transformation expert Keala Kanea, who shares his remarkable journey from working in a coffee shop to building a $140 million company. Keala discusses the importance of mindset, personal development, and understanding one's values in achieving success. He emphasizes the need for radical responsibility and the power of making the unconscious conscious. The conversation delves into the neuroscience behind values and behavior, offering insights on how to align goals with true values for a fulfilling life. Keala also shares personal challenges and lessons learned, reinforcing the idea that everything happens for a reason and that growth often comes from adversity.

    Takeaways

    • The journey of transformation often starts with a moment of realization.
    • Radical responsibility is key to personal growth.
    • Values dictate how we invest our time, energy, and money.
    • Understanding our unconscious values can lead to greater self-awareness.
    • The gap between our goals and values can hinder our success.
    • Neuroscience plays a role in how we pursue our values.
    • Making the unconscious conscious is essential for growth.
    • Results are a reflection of our true commitments.
    • Challenges in life often lead to the greatest lessons.
    • Everything is happening for us, not to us.

    Chapters

    00:00 Introduction to the Modern Man Podcast
    01:20 Meet Keala Kanae: From Barista to Business Mogul
    04:09 The Journey of Transformation: From Failure to Success
    09:30 The Power of Mindset and Radical Responsibility
    14:36 Understanding the Internal vs. External Control
    17:57 The Moment of Change: Shifting Perspectives
    20:15 Values and Goals: The Key to Fulfillment
    26:36 The Gap Between Values and Goals
    30:25 Aligning Values with Goals for Success
    30:51 The Neuroscience of Values and Change
    35:43 Understanding Values and Actions
    36:34 Making the Unconscious Conscious
    40:47 Identifying and Assessing Values
    45:42 Resources for Discovering True Values
    46:42 Lessons from Personal Challenges
    47:38 Closing Thoughts & Call to Action

    Kanea’s Links

    Website: https://www.kealakanae.com/

    Tiktok: keala_kanae

    LinkedIn: Keala Kanae

    YouTube: Keala Kanae

    Facebook: n.kealakanae

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    1 h y 9 m
  • 174: Fueling the Fire: Optimizing Men’s Hormones, Energy, and Performance with Dr. Ross Marchegiani
    Sep 26 2025

    In this episode of The Modern Man Podcast, host Ted Phaeton speaks with Dr. Ross Marchegiani, a functional wellness expert and chiropractic physician, about the importance of men's health, hormone optimization, and the need for emotional support among men. They discuss common health issues faced by men, the significance of proactive health checks, and the signs of hormonal imbalance. Dr. Marchegiani emphasizes the need for a holistic approach to health, addressing not just testosterone but also other hormones and lifestyle factors. The conversation highlights the importance of acknowledging and uplifting one another as men, and the benefits of optimizing health for better performance in all areas of life.

    Takeaways

    • Men often neglect their health and need to prioritize it.
    • Acknowledgment among men can have a profound impact.
    • Health encompasses physical, emotional, chemical, and spiritual aspects.
    • Proactive health checks are essential, especially for hormones.
    • Signs of hormonal imbalance include fatigue, weight gain, and low libido.
    • Testosterone is just one piece of the hormonal puzzle.
    • Lifestyle changes are crucial for optimal health.
    • Stress management is vital for hormonal balance.
    • Avoid endocrine disruptors like alcohol and processed foods.
    • Seek help from knowledgeable practitioners for holistic health.

    Chapters

    00:51 Introduction to The Modern Man Podcast
    02:08 Meet Dr. Ross Marchegiani: A Functional Wellness Expert
    04:47 The Importance of Acknowledgment Among Men
    09:02 Common Health Issues Faced by Men
    12:24 Proactive Health: When to Check Your Hormones
    15:42 Signs of Hormonal Imbalance in Men
    19:51 Understanding Hormones Beyond Testosterone
    24:00 Playing Offense in Health: Lifestyle Changes
    24:50 Habits That Harm Hormonal Health
    33:54 The Dangers of Relying Solely on TRT
    37:34 The Promised Land: Benefits of Optimized Health
    41:18 How to Connect with Dr. Ross Marchegiani
    42:58 Life Lessons from Fatherhood

    Marchegiani’s Links

    Website: dr-ross-marchegiani

    Instagram: rossmarchegiani

    LinkedIn: ross-marchegiani

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  • 173: The Purpose Mapping Blueprint: Escaping the Golden Hamster Wheel with Craig Filek
    Sep 19 2025

    In this episode of the Modern Man podcast, Ted Phaeton and Craig Filek delve into the concept of purpose mapping, a framework designed for high-achieving midlife men who feel unfulfilled despite their success. They discuss the journey of self-discovery, the importance of community, and the challenges men face in seeking help. Craig shares insights on navigating the second mountain of life, the role of fatherhood in personal development, and the barriers that prevent men from pursuing their true purpose. The conversation emphasizes the need for connection, the significance of understanding one's purpose, and the transformative power of bold communication.

    Takeaways

    • Purpose mapping helps men find clarity in their lives.
    • The journey of self-discovery is essential for fulfillment.
    • More money does not equate to happiness.
    • Fatherhood is a powerful catalyst for personal growth.
    • Men often feel lost after achieving traditional success.
    • Community and connection are vital for men's well-being.
    • The second mountain represents a deeper purpose in life.
    • Overcoming fear is crucial for personal development.
    • Men need to embrace vulnerability to seek help.
    • Clarity in purpose can reignite passion and drive.

    Chapters

    01:00 Introduction to Purpose Mapping
    03:57 The Journey of Self-Discovery
    06:32 The Purpose Mapping Process
    09:37 Exploring the Shadow Self
    12:23 The Importance of Connection and Community
    15:21 Navigating the Second Mountain
    18:07 The Role of Fatherhood in Personal Development
    20:41 The Map of Psychological Wholeness
    23:00 Personal Reflection and Vulnerability
    27:00 Practical Examples of Purpose in Action
    31:00 Defining a Personal Purpose Statement
    35:00 The Role of Purpose in Longevity and Fulfillment
    42:00 Distinguishing Purpose, Vision, and Mission
    43:00 Overcoming Barriers to Taking the Leap
    46:00 The Danger of Complacency and the Need for New Challenges
    48:00 How to Access Purpose Mapping Resources
    51:30 The Transformative Power of Fatherhood
    53:30 Recap
    56:00 Final Encouragement and Call to Action

    Felik’s Links

    Website: purposemapping.com

    Instagram: PurposeMapping

    LinkedIn: craigfilek

    YouTube: PurposeMapping

    Facebook: PurposeMapping

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