In this episode, I sit down with Jayne Storey for a deep conversation about golf, performance, and the inner life of an athlete. Jayne brings decades of experience in meditation, movement, and spiritual practice.

Golf feels hard when you’re trying to control every move. So we dig into how letting go leads to freedom and flow on the course. If you’re tired of grinding and want to just feel golf again, this is the conversation you need.

Thanks to Jayne for the thoughtful exploration of how golf can open the door to something far greater than just the game itself.

Topics discussed:

1. Golf as a Spiritual Practice – beyond the game and into self-expression

2. Sri Aurobindo’s Teachings – spirit, matter, and the athletic body

3. Scheffler’s Search for Fulfillment – dissatisfaction and meaning in sport

4. Flow and Meditation – entering the state where golf plays itself

5. Jayne’s Journey Through Movement Arts – Tai Chi, yoga, and swimming

6. Chi Energy in Sport – subtle awareness and performance

7. Relaxed Readiness – the paradox of being loose yet prepared

8. Getting Out of Your Own Way – surrendering to the swing

9. Ego on the Course – tension, fear, and the desire to succeed

10. Vigilant Passivity – alert presence without interference

11. Trusting the Body – allowing skill to emerge naturally

12. Equanimity Under Pressure – calmness when it matters most

13. Practices for Presence – meditation, grounding, and soft focus

14. Gratitude and Devotion – embracing golf as a higher offering

15. The Spiritual Horizon of Sport – where performance meets transcendence

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Jayne Storey's links:

Website: chi-performance.com

Books: chi-performance.com/books

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Confidence in golf often feels like it comes and goes with your scorecard. But what if there’s a way to build confidence that doesn’t vanish after a bad hole or a bad round? In this episode, we’ll explore where true confidence really comes from—and why most golfers never find it.

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Mental Game Assessment: Free assessment at joshnicholsgolf.com to identify strengths and improvement areas.

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Special guest Mike Berland joins The Mental Golf Show. They discuss the multifaceted nature of golf, emphasizing the importance of enjoyment over mere improvement. Mike shares personal experiences and insights on the psychological aspects of the game, the social dynamics involved, and the need for modernizing golf to make it more inclusive. The discussion highlights the balance between striving for better performance and appreciating the joy of the game, ultimately advocating for a more relaxed and fulfilling approach to golf.

Topics discussed:

• The Joy of Golf vs. Improvement
• Mental Game and Flow State
• Social Aspects of Golf
• Managing Expectations in Golf
• The Unpredictability of Golf
• Golf as a Social Connector
• Topgolf and Accessibility of Golf
• Rekindling the Love for Golf
• The Role of Mental Focus in Golf Performance
• Overcoming Distractions and Regaining Focus
• The Journey to Improvement and Consistency
• The Social Dynamics of Golf
• Modernizing Golf for Inclusivity
• The Evolution of Golf During the Pandemic
• Personal Exploration vs. Social Aspects of Golf
• The Message of 'Not About Golf'

Mike Berland's links:

Book: Not About Golf: The Life Changing Joy of Playing the Game

Facebook

LinkedIn

Instagram

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Mental Game Assessment: Free assessment at joshnicholsgolf.com to identify strengths and improvement areas.

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Welcome to the Episode 2 of the FundaMENTALS series, where Josh Nichols will be walking through the core components of a good mental game.

This week: the Pre-Shot Routine.

Every good pre-shot routine contains four key pillars. We explore those on this episode.

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Custom Weekly Practice Plan: Hand-built plans based on your stats and schedule at joshnicholsgolf.com.

Mental Game Assessment: Free assessment at joshnicholsgolf.com to identify strengths and improvement areas.

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In this enlightening episode, Josh Nichols sits down with Gary Waters for a deep dive into the mental game of golf and life. Gary, a performance coach with a passion for unlocking human potential, explores how shifting your perspective can transform your experience on the golf course and beyond.

From redefining success as inner peace to dissolving limiting beliefs that fuel fear and frustration, this conversation unpacks practical insights for golfers seeking flow, freedom, and joy in their game.

Whether you're a pro battling a slump or an amateur chasing enjoyment, Gary's wisdom offers a roadmap to playing with authenticity and ease. Tune in to discover how to rewrite your "why" and embrace a limitless approach to golf.

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Topics & Timestamps:

Perspective and Golf (00:00 - 06:00) Peace vs. Competitiveness (06:00 - 09:35) Dissolving Unhelpful Motivations (09:30 - 15:55) Overcoming Deep Frustration in Golf (15:55 - 19:56) Role of Therapy and Mentorship (19:56 - 26:17) Fear and Performance on the Golf Course (26:17 - 32:30) Balancing Conscious and Subconscious in Golf (32:30 - 38:02) Detaching from Identity in Golf (38:02 - 46:05) Origins of Limiting Beliefs (44:23 - 47:32) Self-Acceptance and Authentic Self (47:32 - 51:28) Balancing Acceptance and Change (51:28 - 57:33) Resistance as an Opportunity (57:33 - 01:02:58) Gary Waters Contact and Resources (01:02:58 - 01:05:39)

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Resources and Links Mentioned by Gary Waters:

• Gary Waters' Website: garywaters.co.uk
• Gary Waters' Instagram: @iamgarywaters
• Power vs. Force by David R. Hawkins
• The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
• Peter Crone's work: petercrone.com

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The Perfect Pre-shot Routine digital course: Dial in your pre-shot routine here.

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Divot Board: Get 10% off at divotboard.com/mentalgolfshow using code 'MentalGolf10'.

Josh Nichols Golf (1-on-1 Mental Coaching): Email josh@joshnicholsgolf.com or visit joshnicholsgolf.com for sessions.

Custom Weekly Practice Plan: Hand-built plans based on your stats and schedule at joshnicholsgolf.com.

Mental Game Assessment: Free assessment at joshnicholsgolf.com to identify strengths and improvement areas.

The Mental Re-Grip Newsletter: Sign up for weekly mental game tips at joshnicholsgolf.com.

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Welcome to the first episode in the FundaMENTALS series, where Josh Nichols will be walking through what he believes are the core components of a good mental game.

First up: Acceptance

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Dallas Webster, creator of the Tangent Golf app, joins to discuss his journey from competitive high school golfer to tech entrepreneur, focusing on using data to improve golf performance while keeping technology unobtrusive.

Topics & Timestamps:

• Introduction to Tangent Golf App (05:03)
• Mental Game and Tracking (06:25)
• The Tangent Four (14:44)
• AI Caddy and Course Management (10:43)
• Battling Mental Demons (19:34)
• Balancing Technology and Focus (24:52)
• AI Caddy’s Impact (26:54)
• Mental Game and Dispersion Patterns (29:35)
• Avoiding Negative Visualization (32:28)
• Subconscious and Target Selection (33:53)
• Pressure and Mental Shifts (35:17)
• Handling External Distractions (42:23)
• Mental Breakthroughs in Tournaments (43:44)
• Public Golf Journey and Mental Struggles (46:34)
• Rating Good Shots with Poor Mental Game (51:50)
• Mental Game’s Impact Across Skill Levels (55:02)
• Hands-Free Technology Use (01:02:18)
• Dallas’s Golf Journey (01:07:13)

Where to Find Dallas:

• Website: tangent.golf
• App: Tangent Golf on the Apple App Store (Android coming soon)
• YouTube/Instagram: The Good Miss Golf

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In order to play well, you have to let go of playing well.

In order to lower your handicap, you have to let go of lowering your handicap.

These paradoxes make for tough, disciplined behavior. But if you can dial this in then you'll be getting out of the way of your own golf improvement.

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🎓 The Perfect Pre-shot Routine Digital Course

🏌️‍♂️ Basic and Custom Practice Plans

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1-on-1 Mental Coaching

Are you a competitive golfer? Interested in working 1-on-1 with Josh as your Mental Coach? Email Josh directly at ⁠⁠josh@joshnicholsgolf.com or head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠joshnicholsgolf.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

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📚 2025 Book Club!

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YouTube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Josh Nichols Golf