Are tweets a true town square or just neon static? In this M3 Bear Cast, host Malcolm Travers invites 22-year-old communications grad Jameson into a circle usually held by forty- and fifty-somethings. The result: sparks of insight across the age gap.

Together they probe:

• Whether social media builds community or breeds counterfeit intimacy.
• How hope can be both lifeline and shackle in long-distance “situationships.”
• The performance of masculinity in queer spaces—and who gets to call it “real.”
• Coming-out tales that range from quiet inevitability to surprise plot twists.
• Workplace closets, generational blind spots, and the price of respect.

It’s a candid, crackling conversation that punches through clichés and side-eyes easy answers. Pull up a chair in the den—fresh perspectives and hard questions await.

In this episode of the M3 Bear Cast, Malcolm Travers unpacks two deeply entangled topics: the duality of masculine and feminine energy, and our shared responsibility to one another in dating and beyond. From cultural hangups around tops and bottoms to the confusion many gay Black men face when navigating gender roles in same-sex relationships, the conversation is raw, funny, and revealing. We also explore a powerful question: do we owe each other honesty—even when it’s uncomfortable? With personal stories, lively dialogue, and plenty of shade, this episode challenges the status quo while offering a space for reflection, growth, and community wisdom.

In this episode of the M3 Bearcast, host Malcolm Travers asks a deceptively simple question: Is truth always worth believing? — and discovers the answer is messier than it looks. Inspired by a TikTok deep-thinker’s take on conspiracy culture, Malcolm flips the usual inquiry (“Why do people swallow obvious falsehoods?”) into its mirror image: Why do most of us cling to truths at all, when well-placed fictions can be far more useful?
Optical illusions set the stage. “The Dress” and a sneaky rotating-window trick show how our brains gladly trade accuracy for survival-ready shortcuts, heightening contrast or inventing 3-D depth when it counts. The same mental sleight-of-hand, Malcolm argues, fuels patriotism, religion, and conspiracy lore: myths that bind armies, comfort families, or make political chaos feel tidy. He revisits personal rabbit holes—from theories about MLK’s assassination to 9/11 plots—and admits that community, not evidence, often decides which stories stick.
Rather than shaming believers, Malcolm calls for curiosity: What purpose does a given myth serve? Until society offers sturdier safety nets and meaning-making tools, he suggests, illusions—like ghost stories reshaped by early film—will keep proving their pragmatic worth. The episode ends with a nod to listeners: rate, share, and, if the spirit moves you, support Male Media Mind on Patreon.