Perimenopause and menopause are not “just hot flashes” — they’re a full-body, whole-life shift that most of us were never prepared for. In this episode, Jacki (CMO of EngErotics) sits down with Raven (Founder & CEO), Heather (COO & formulation specialist), and Amanda (sexologist & CBD researcher) for a brutally honest, often funny, and deeply validating conversation about what this transition actually feels like.

We cover:

• Early perimenopause in your 30s: weird cycles, night sweats, and feeling like a stranger in your own body
• Brain fog, mood swings, and “second puberty” no one warned us about
• Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT): fighting for diagnosis, access, and insurance coverage
• Medical gaslighting and why women are still dismissed when they talk about pain, fatigue, and hormonal changes
• Generational trauma and TV tropes: how 80s/90s sitcoms shaped our ideas of “nagging wives” and “crazy women”
• Body image in midlife: learning to love the body you have now and set boundaries that protect your energy

We also touch on hysterectomy, vaginal atrophy, long COVID’s possible hormonal impact, and why younger generations’ boundary-setting is giving us hope.

If you’re moving through perimenopause or menopause and wondering, “Is it just me?” ... it’s not. You’re not alone, you’re not broken, and this episode is your permission slip for more information, more support, and way more self-compassion.

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Cozy up for a conversation about hygge, pleasure, and rest in a culture obsessed with productivity.

The EngErotics team shows how small, bite-sized rituals, like hot showers, coffee moments, soft clothes, music, baking, or phone-free time with a partner, can become powerful self-care and intimacy tools.

We also unpack why rest feels “rebellious,” how aging and body changes shift our experience of sex, and what it really means to enjoy the journey when orgasm isn’t the only goal.

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It's the holidays, so we had a bit of a special guest for a couple of episodes: Mickey!

Logan wanted to spend some time with his dad and ask some questions about life and all that, so that's exactly what we did... and it's a good as hell listen, y'all!

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For the finale of this spectacular Tim Robinson show, we had to bring in an equally spectacular guest… Ross McCoy of The Orlando Talk Show with Ross McCoy. Here’s what we talked about:

• Logan has advanced to the state where he is living with comics now
• Logan becoming a snowbird at the age of 26
• We don’t fuck with stinky or wet.
• Nadga - Jacki’s ceramics teacher
• Ross in Deland at the Stetson Mansion
• Bespoke forging
• Logan is moving to Florida
• Ouid Technology
• Mike’s Heart transplant story
• Cigar talk
• Universal Studios memories
• Ron is so desperate for ANYONE to know that he is a good man
• Claymation
• Smiling Friends
• Animals
• Is Wendy’s Carvers Real?
• Wendy’s used to be the fancy fast food.
• Is this Tim Robison show a backdoor to a secret fancy Wendy’s?
• The new shape.
• Followed by Shape Chat with Ross, Logan, and Jacki
• The kid with the 3d printed gun
• Jeff doesn’t like the way he comes off
• Was that the hot tub guy in the tub?
• Who was the plastic surgery face man?
• Amanda can move things with her mind
• Logan trying out the Tim Robinson Over-the-Top-ness
• Don’t hate on Tubi and Roku
• We need Seth’s claymation version of Scrooge

We are ready for season 2 whenever you are, please.

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Things we talked about:

• Crazy wind
• Chex Max needs maggi
• Detroit Lions having the coolest merch
• Ron Trosper’s quiet celebration
• The water bottle is a really good yeti ad
• Wendy’s Carvers
• Natalie and Tara are like the two sides of Ron
• Who wants to meet BAAAABYYYYYYYY
• The whole family is goofy
• Jeff was being mean to everyone
• New bug expert guy
• Kudos to Ron for knowing what food places to go to.
• Blue soap is having a moment
• “Soap it up” - Logan
• Sometimes Ron’s driving is scary
• Walking right in to someone’s house
• Professor Roblay’s
• What is in the Pepper Patty Balls and why are they called Pepper Patty Balls
• Being part of the family
• Do we think Ron Trosper was proud of Barb or himself?

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Sorry for the extended video game content at the beginning. There was a discussion to be had.

Here is what else we discussed:

• Jacki’s Digital Communication + Title Theory = Debunked
• Logan is annoyed at people being bad at video games
• Being perceived is stressful AF
• Logan likes novelty
• Ice Climber games
• Jeff is out of touch and he hates it
• Jacki did a Ross
• Jeff’s job is not very creative
• This was a very job-focused, grounded episode
• The lady with metal in her stomach
• Bucky Balls
• Life of the Party Class
• Jacki’s idea for a “The Chair Company” anthology spinoff
• Maggie S.
• Ron is really good at reading people
• Violent Ron
• Artsy Ron
• Ron is a real Gaston type
• The destroying of the muffin
• Big burgers vs lil burgers
• Are Ron’s threatening phone calls coming from Amanda?
• Ron is AT HIS LIMIT
• Stressful Office Politics
• Everyone is so lonely
• Douglas: “Did the ramps survive?”
• Off-Road Precision Course
• Looks fun as hell
• Ron hired a bad security company
• Seth is looking for an older male to look up to (grey ponytail Richard)
• Also give us a series about Seth in High School
• At what point do you stop calling kids parties “kid’s parties”?
• Pee-Wee music
• Giant Chocolate King Kong
• Jeff didn’t even bring a present
• Is Ron’s office booze Display-Only?
• Covering up the puke with lit birthday cake
• Seth’s life changed when Ron refused to do the Pee Wee dance
• Focusing on Tecca has been Ron’s peace
• 50s Cop Hop
• Logan learns about Sock Hops
• Natalie’s Childhood?

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Another fine episode and Logan and I talked at least twice as as this episode ran.

Oops.

Here’s a smattering of what we talked about:

• Nadga fell down
• Veteran’s Day is weird holiday.
• Outkast’s Hall of Fame Induction
• Logan is a big Doja Cat guy
• The White Stripes got inducted to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame
• *and they deserved it
• Droyco had Ken Tucker RIGHT THERE
• Are eggs a pattern?
• Where was the red ball?
• The bar video game machines
• Ziosks at Chili’s
• Bar video games
• Tara is weirdly motherly with everybody
• Frankenweenie
• Paddington 2
• Bug naming rights
• We need a Mike spinoff
• Shoutout to Jim Downey
• How was Douglas eating from the freezer?
• “The Chair Company” is a modern office horror
• Mike’s apartment
• “Sorry to Bother You”
• Stomachs growling on demand
• Eating at Subway
• Expensive sandwiches
• Life of the Party class
• Sleeve in the soup
• Another hat appearance
• Will Ron ever get Maggie S.’s email?
• Ron has had a decent amount of head trauma
• Will we get a dad flashback?
• Ron not telling the truth
• Ron could save so many Doris’
• Is this Ron Trosper’s Scrooge story?

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