The Loneliness of Doing It All

This one’s for every caregiver who has felt surrounded—but still alone.

In this episode, I’m peeling back the layers of invisible labor that come with doing it all: parenting, caregiving, managing systems, surviving systems, and holding everything together with hands that never get a break. I talk about the illusion of help, the weight of performative support, and the breaking point that led me to a deeper truth—one I think many of us know too well.

We’ll talk about what it really takes to make life “look manageable,” the difference between parenting and caregiving, and why well-meaning phrases like “God doesn’t give you more than you can handle” often miss the mark.

This is the episode I wish I had in my darkest, most overextended moments—and maybe it’s one you need today too.

You’re not too much.

You’re just doing too much, for too long, without enough support.

You are not alone.