Ariel Fitz had it all until tragedy left her and her family homeless. Thrown into a new school where she didn’t speak the language, Ariel struggled to adjust and fell into depression and doubt. But God wasn’t done.

Through deep trials, Ariel’s faith was rebuilt and so was her life. When she felt called to leave a traditional career and start creating TikTok content and music, it was a leap of radical surrender. That leap turned into a viral ministry reaching millions.

In this episode, Ariel shares her powerful testimony, her unexpected rise on TikTok, and how faith fuels her music career. Her story is living proof that when God leads, anything is possible.

Ariel’s website: https://www.arielfitzpatrick.com/

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00:00:00 - Intro

00:03:08 - Ariel’s Background

00:09:06 - Seven Weeks

00:10:02 - Experiencing Homelessness

00:19:25 - I Renounced God

00:25:57 - Nimi Skincare

00:27:04 - Sharing struggles with family

00:32:16 - Moral education from parents

00:34:52 - Hallow

00:35:42 - Moral issues in Christianity

00:41:49 - Starting TikTok

00:45:42 - Discerning God’s voice

00:52:00 - Became a student of TikTok

01:12:33 - Ariel’s music and singing

“Obedience” in marriage is a loaded word—what does it really mean? Are women expected to submit like servants? Is Christian marriage inherently unequal? Or is there something deeper, more beautiful, and profoundly mutual at play?

Today I’m joined by Mary Stanford, who has spent her career unpacking this very paradox. How can a woman “submit” as described in Ephesians 5 and still be a full, free, and equal partner in marriage?

Mary dives into the God-given differences between men and women—how our bodies and dispositions reflect distinct, complementary gifts—and how this complementarity can lead to deep unity and even fruitfulness, both literally and spiritually.

This topic isn’t without controversy. The line between holy submission and enabling harmful dynamics is razor thin. Join the conversation in the comments and help us wrestle with one of the most misunderstood teachings in Scripture.

Obedience Paradox book: https://www.amazon.com/Obedience-Paradox-Finding-Freedom-Marriage/dp/1681926954

Mary's faculty website: https://www.christendom.edu/academics/undergraduate-faculty/mary-stanford/

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00:00:00 - Intro

00:06:39 - Few people have parents as model relationships

00:10:40 - Good Ranchers

00:11:52 - Key successes in Mary’s parent’s marriage

00:19:04 - What did fighting and resolution look like?

00:23:11 - EveryLife

00:24:11 - What is the Obedience Paradox?

00:32:26 - Man as an instrument

00:36:22 - We Heart Nutrition

00:37:20 - What does submission mean?

00:51:01 - The temptation for women

00:54:30 - What are women’s fallen traits?

01:08:38 - Do’s/Don’ts of Biblical Submission

01:27:13 - Final thoughts

Can sexual attraction shift? Can we rewire how past trauma affects us?

Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr. explores these questions through Reintegrative Therapy—a trauma-focused, evidence-based approach designed for those experiencing unwanted sexual attractions. Critics label it "conversion therapy," but Nicolosi argues it’s something entirely different.

In this episode, he explains how resolving deep-rooted trauma can sometimes lead to changes in sexual attractions and why this method is so controversial in today’s world. As the son of a pioneering psychologist, Dr. Nicolosi brings decades of clinical insight to a conversation that challenges post-modern cultural taboos and common assumptions.

Dr Nicolosi's website: https://www.reintegrativetherapy.com/

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00:00 - Intro

00:02:48 - Dr Nicolosi Sr’s Groundbreaking Work

13:39 - Nimi Skin Care

14:45 - Can people shift their attractions and desires?

24:48 - Covenant Eyes

25:52 - Monogamy and Homosexuality

33:23 - EveryLife

34:23 - Causes of SSA

00:46:17 - Temperaments and SSA

00:49:08 - “Unwanted” SSA and Re-wiring the Brain

00:53:02 - APA pretends not to acknowledge the data

00:57:03 - Sexual Ab*se Patterns in patients

01:02:36 - People who therapy didn’t work?

01:06:17 - Trevor Project and Su*cidality

01:14:02 - Supreme Court Case