The Lies We Tell Ourselves to Stay Safe

What if the story you tell yourself about being “broken” is the safest way to stay exactly where you are?In this live episode of The Collective, we’re unpacking safe narratives — the comfortable stories we use to avoid accountability, justify stagnation, and stay loyal to an identity that no longer serves us. From “I’m too messed up from service” to “I’ll start tomorrow,” we’re calling out how these narratives quietly run the show for veterans, first responders, and high performers.We’ll explore:How “I’m broken” becomes an identity instead of a starting point for growthWhy pain and trauma feel safer than uncertainty and changeThe difference between real healing and hiding behind your storyPractical ways to challenge your own narrative and lead yourself forwardThis episode sets the stage for tomorrow’s conversation with:Tyler Grey – former Delta Force operator, actor, author, and advocate helping veterans find purpose beyond the uniformSebastien Lavoie – former Canadian Infantry and RCMP Emergency Response Team Sergeant Major, now a security professional and outspoken voice on leadership and human performanceQuestions to sit with as you watch:Where am I defending my damage instead of building from it?What story about my past do I keep repeating to avoid taking the next hard step?If I dropped the “broken” label, what responsibility would that put back on me today?If you’re a veteran, first responder, or driven civilian who’s done with excuses and ready for unfiltered truth, this one’s for you.👉 Join the live chat, share your own “safe narratives,” and hit Subscribe so you don’t miss tomorrow’s episode with Tyler Grey and Seb Lavoie.Time to stop defending your damage — and start building from it.