The Impact of Dyslexia and ADHD on Love

Join the Control to Connection Community https://www.skool.com/relationship-revolutions-5514/about Contact InfoAlan Watts The Love Engineer, a coach whose mission is to help high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women stop pushing away the very men they say they long for. Combining wisdom in attachment, nervous system healing, and relational dynamics, Alan guides women from over-functioning, anxiety-driven patterns into presence, ease, and receiving love without losing themselves.With his signature approach, Alan unpacks the operating systems that silently sabotage attraction and teaches women how to rewire their bodies to trust steady masculine energy.His work isn’t about strategy or “dating hacks” it’s about nervous system upgrades, inner integration, and creating chemistry through safety.As host of Relationship Revolutions, Alan leads honest conversations about real love, the behind-the-scenes of how we heal, do less, and let the kind of men we claim to want finally feel possible.Website www.theloveengineer.rocksLinked in https://www.linkedin.com/in/loveengineer/GuestGeorgina Smith — Neurodiversity Advocate & Literacy SpecialistGeorgina Smith is the founder of CodeBreakers®, a proven multisensory, synthetic-phonics programme designed to help children, teens, and adults overcome reading and spelling difficulties, whether due to dyslexia or undiagnosed learning challenges.With over 15 years’ experience in special educational needs and learning-difference support, Georgina combines deep professional training (B.A. (Hons), M.A., PGC-SpLD) with a personal passion: her own family’s history of literacy struggles.She also leads ND360 Hub, a directory that connects neurodivergent people and families with trusted support, assessments, and resources across education and employment.https://www.linkedin.com/in/georginahsmith/SummaryIn this conversation, Alan Watts and Georgina Smith explore the complexities of neurodiversity, particularly dyslexia and ADHD, and their impact on relationships. They share personal experiences, discuss the importance of communication, and delve into how technology influences modern dating. The conversation emphasises the need for understanding and accommodating each other's emotional needs, the evolution of relationships over time, and the significance of love languages. Ultimately, they highlight that effective communication is the cornerstone of healthy relationships.TakeawaysCommunication is key in relationships.Understanding oneself is crucial for effective communication.Neurodiversity can impact dating and relationships significantly.Technology has changed the way we connect with others.Love languages play a vital role in understanding partners.Relationships evolve as individuals grow and change.Compromise is essential for maintaining harmony in relationships.Emotional needs must be communicated clearly to avoid misunderstandings.Personal experiences shape our views on relationships.Self-awareness can lead to healthier connections. Chapters00:00 Understanding Neurodiversity and Personal Journeys05:24 Dyslexia and Relationships: Personal Reflections10:25 The Impact of Neurodiversity on Work and Home Life14:29 Navigating Dating and Communication Challenges19:19 The Dynamics of Love Languages and Emotional Needs23:47 Building Stronger Relationships Through Understanding28:22 The Evolution of Love and Communication Over Time41:55 Exchanging Expectations for Appreciations44:19 Understanding Roles in Relationships46:30 Navigating Anxiety and Support47:37 The Impact of Technology on Relationships50:05 Rejection Sensitivity and Communication52:15 The Influence of Media on Relationship Expectations56:28 The Challenges of Modern Dating57:52 Defining Love and Connection01:01:35 Evolving Relationships Over Time01:07:00 Compromise and Communication in Relationships