The Illusion of Control: Finding True Safety in the Unknown

In this solo episode, Hillary dives deep into one of the most universal challenges of the human experience: our desire to control the external in order to feel safe, worthy, or at peace internally. This conversation explores the subtle yet powerful ways our subconscious patterns try to protect us—through perfectionism, control, people-pleasing, or over-responsibility—only to reinforce the very fears we're trying to escape.

Hillary shares a powerful reframe: what if you’re not off path, not behind, not broken—but simply in a sacred transition? What if the future doesn’t need to be figured out in order for you to feel safe right now?

We explore:

• Why control is often a trauma response, not a truth
• How to rewire your body to feel safe in uncertainty
• The difference between ego fear and soul truth
• The hidden cost of compensatory patterns like overdoing and proving
• A powerful client story that illustrates the energetic shift from fear to freedom
• Why you're never separate from life force energy—and how to reconnect to it now

This episode is a soulful transmission to help you shift from resistance to resonance. From gripping to allowing. From survival to true creation.

You’ll be reminded that the future is not your source of safety—your connection to self is.

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