🎙 The Feel Inspired Podcast | Episode 88 💥💔💷
Harj Gahley’s Raw Redemption Story

If Episode 87 was fiery, Episode 88 is deeply human.
This one isn’t a debate — it’s a truth-telling, heart-opening dive into the kind of struggle most people would never admit publicly.

In this powerful “Going Deeper” conversation, I sit down with Harj Gahley, who found himself landing into £250,000 of gambling debt through addiction - carrying the weight of shame, guilt, secrecy, and a fear that his entire world was about to collapse.

Harj opens up all of it, including the unrevealed details about how is family supported him through this deep revelation.

Inside this episode, we unpack:
✅ How the debt built up, and the emotional spiral behind it✅ The moment everything came crashing down✅ What actually happened when his family found out (not what you’d expect)✅ The deep shame and self-punishment cycle that follows financial trauma✅ How love, community, and brutal honesty helped him heal and rebuild✅ The surprising mindset shifts that pulled him out of darkness✅ Why so many men suffer in silence, and how to break that pattern

This isn’t just a story about money.
It’s about identity, redemption, family, and what happens when you have to rebuild yourself from the inside out.

If you’ve ever carried shame, hidden your struggles, or felt the pressure to keep up a “strong” image, Harj’s journey will crack something open for you.

🎧 Watch / Listen now — streaming on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & more.

💬 Your thoughts matter — share your take in the comments.
You never know who might feel less alone because you spoke up.

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🎙 The Feel Inspired Podcast | Episode 87 💥🧠

Are We Waiting Too Late to Start a Family? A Deep, Heated, No-Fluff Debate with Sweta Purohit

This one… ohhh this one gets real fast.

In this powerful “Going Deeper” episode, I sit down with the brilliant and outspoken Sweta Purohit as we tackle one of the biggest modern-life dilemmas:
Are we waiting too long to start a family — or are we worrying about it for no reason?

I came in on the “yes, we’re waiting too late” side.
Sweta came in on the “no, we’re not” side.
And what followed was a bold, heated but grounded conversation that cuts through cultural expectations, biological reality, emotional readiness, and the stories we tell ourselves.

But we didn’t stop there.
We pushed the envelope even further and asked another loaded question:
Is “trauma” becoming an overused word?
You can imagine how spicy that got. 🌶️

Inside this episode:
✅ The real reasons more people are delaying marriage and kids✅ How culture, career, and fear shape our timelines
✅ The biological vs emotional readiness debate — who’s right?✅ Why the “perfect time” might be a myth holding people back
✅ The surprising truth about trauma: overused, misunderstood, or a wake-up call?
✅ Hard questions, honest moments, and perspectives that challenge everything

This episode will make you rethink your timelines, your choices, and the stories society sells us about when life is “supposed” to happen.

🎧 Watch / Listen now — streaming on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts & more.
💬 Drop your take in the comments — this is a debate EVERYONE has something to say about.

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In this powerful 1-2-1 coaching episode of The Feel Inspired Podcast, Amit Sodha (The Love Doctor) breaks down one of the most common yet misunderstood relationship patterns: the anxious–avoidant loop.

If you’ve ever found yourself in a cycle where one person pulls away and the other panics… where connection feels amazing one minute and destabilising the next… or where communication breaks down right when you need it most — this deep dive is for you.

This episode comes from a live coaching session with a client who repeatedly found herself stuck in the anxious–avoidant cycle.

For privacy, her questions have been edited out.

In this video, Amit unpacks:
✨ What triggers the anxious–avoidant dance
✨ The neuroscience behind why partners pull back or cling on
✨ How attachment styles shape attraction, conflict, and emotional safety
✨ Why “mixed signals” aren’t actually mixed — they’re patterned
✨ How to break the loop so it never hijacks your relationships again
✨ Practical tools to identify your triggers and regulate in real time
✨ How to date with secure energy and attract emotionally aligned partners

Whether you identify as anxious, avoidant, or somewhere in between, this coaching session will give you deep insight into how these patterns form — and more importantly — how to heal them so you can experience real connection, stability, and love.

If you’re searching for answers on:

• anxious attachment

• avoidant attachment

• anxious–avoidant relationships

• dating someone avoidant

• emotional unavailability

• trauma bonds

• relationship patterns

• attachment style healing

• why you attract the same partners

• how to communicate your needs

• how to become more secure in dating

…you’re in exactly the right place.

This episode is your roadmap to breaking the cycle once and for all — so you can show up confidently, communicate clearly, and create the healthy, secure relationship you deserve.

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