In this "Best of TFB" flashback, we're going back in time to revisit one of our most memorable episodes: “Confessions of a Control Freak.”

This was one of our most honest, light-hearted, and revealing discussions about what it really means to be labeled a “control freak”—both at home and in business. And since we've welcomed so many new listeners over the years, you may have never gotten the chance to hear it.

You'll hear Steve and Mary Alessi dive into the ways control can show up in our daily lives, from wanting things just right in the family or workplace, to the difference between healthy leadership and destructive, hidden manipulation. You'll hear share personal stories (including memorable family trips and classic elevator mishaps) and talk about the power of self-awareness, knowing when to let go, and how striving for order doesn’t have to mean becoming overbearing.

If you’ve ever been called controlling—or know someone who has—this "Best of TFB" episode is for you!

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If there was a test that measured your selfishness ...what would your score be?

Most people don't detect their own selfish actions until it's too late - and in a marriage, that can be a death sentence leading to pain and heartbreak.

To help you build a healthier relationship, Steve and Mary Alessi get brutally honest about attraction, selfishness, and those hidden habits that quietly sabotage marriages. You’ll discover how small, self-focused choices build up walls between couples—and how intentional acts of care, consideration, and vulnerability can break them down.

From tackling the age-old issue of keeping score to revealing the biblical secrets to a selfless marriage, you'll get practical wisdom that helps you look inward, own your part, and strengthen that all-important “we.”

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Tired of trying to get your kids off their phones and back into reality?

Maybe the answer isn't just taking away our children's devices.

Are our children's obsessions with their devices actually a sign of dysfunction or lackluster engagement at home?

In this powerful episode, Steve and Mary Alessi share some interesting perspectives on how to re-shape your approach toward technology and your kids' social environment.

Discover how to guide your children toward healthier interactions, both with their phones and within their family.

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