The Eroticism of Infidelity: Part Two with Veronica

What happens when you return to the places where your secrets were lived—and finally say them out loud? In this episode, we hit record on the road and open into a candid conversation about infidelity, erotic shame, and the pull of breaking rules, while staying honest about the real-world consequences.

I share why stories of women who cheat have always felt both true and electric to me, and why bringing that truth into the light is equal parts unsettling and necessary. Veronica joins me, sharing her journey that moves from survival to self-ownership: leaving an abusive marriage, exploring desire, and creating firm boundaries that made room for her safety, clarity, and pleasure.

We talk about her carefully structured “roster,” a risky affair that tested values and empathy, and the moment when fantasy collided with reality. When guilt arrives, Veronica chose accountability without spectacle—no revenge, no humiliating details—just a decision to move forward without burning everything down.

There are no easy heroes or villains here. Instead, we sit in the nuance: why taboo can be erotic, how power can return through structure and consent, and how compassion can exist for those who are hurt without weaponizing their pain. Faith appears as humility rather than judgment.

If you’ve ever wrestled with cheating as a kink or the narratives that dictated what a “good woman” is supposed to want, this episode invites you to listen with curiosity. Expect frank conversation and a humane look at complicated truths.

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