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The Divorce Course Podcast

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The Divorce Course Podcast is hosted by mother–daughter duo Laura Furiosi and family law specialist Lyn Galvin. Together, they break down the complex world of separation and divorce into clear, practical, and empowering conversations. From property settlements and parenting arrangements to dealing with difficult exes, finances, and family court, the podcast gives listeners the knowledge, tools, and confidence to navigate divorce without feeling lost or alone.Copyright 2024 The Divorce Online Course & Podcast
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  • Is Your Ex Watching You? Coercive control goes digital.

    Is Your Ex Watching You? Coercive control goes digital.
    Apr 1 2026
    🎧 Listen to this episode if:

    • You feel like your ex knows things they shouldn't

    • You suspect you're being tracked, monitored, or watched

    • You're going through separation and worried about digital safety

    • Your ex had access to your devices, passwords, or accounts

    • You want to protect yourself and your children from tech-based abuse

    What if your ex knew where you were… who you were talking to… and what you were saying — without you ever telling them?

    In this episode, we're joined by Catherine Plunkett, Director of Safety Net Australia at WESNET, to unpack the growing reality of technology-facilitated abuse in relationships and after separation.

    Because abuse doesn't always leave bruises.

    Sometimes it looks like:

    • your ex showing up where you are unexpectedly

    • knowing things you never told them

    • accessing your messages, accounts, or location

    And increasingly, this is becoming one of the most common forms of domestic and family violence.

    We break down what tech abuse actually is, how it happens, the warning signs to look for, and most importantly what you can do to protect yourself and your children.

    If something doesn't feel right, this episode will help you understand what might be happening and what steps you can take next.

    ⏱️ Episode Timeline - Is Your Ex Watching You? Tech Abuse in Divorce Explained

    00:00 – Is Your Ex Spying on You? Hidden Tech Abuse Signs

    01:35 – What Is Tech Abuse? How It Works in Relationships

    05:10 – How Common Is Digital Abuse After Separation?

    06:52 – Tracking Apps, Spyware & How People Monitor You

    12:06 – Warning Signs Your Phone or Accounts Are Compromised

    16:20 – What NOT to Do If You Suspect You're Being Watched

    18:00 – Digital Safety Checks & Getting the Right Support

    20:33 – Safe Phones, New Devices & Protecting Your Accounts

    23:12 – That "Alarm Feeling": Trusting Your Instincts

    24:11 – Smart Homes & Hidden Tracking Risks You Didn't Expect

    26:31 – Cars, GPS & How Vehicles Can Track You

    27:45 – Digital Safety Checklist: Steps You Can Take Today

    30:47 – How Kids Can Be Used in Tech Monitoring

    35:20 – AI, Deepfakes & The Future of Digital Abuse

    38:39 – Where to Get Help for Tech Abuse

    41:17 – Your Right to Privacy and Safe Communication

    42:27 – What Safety Net Australia Does for Victims

    44:19 – Final Thoughts, Support & Next Steps

    🔗 Links & Resources

    • Safety Net Australia – https://techsafety.org.au

    • eSafety Commissioner – https://www.esafety.gov.au

    • 1800 RESPECT – 1800 737 732

    • Lifeline Australia – 13 11 14

    ⚠️ Family Violence Disclaimer

    This episode contains discussion of family violence and may be distressing for some listeners.

    If you are experiencing domestic or family violence, support is available:
    📞 1800 RESPECT – 1800 737 732
    📞 Lifeline – 13 11 14
    🚨 In an emergency, call 000

    ⚖️ Legal Disclaimer

    This podcast is for educational purposes only and discusses general concepts. It is not legal advice. Every situation is different, and you should seek independent professional guidance for your circumstances.
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  • Refusing 50/50 Care? What to Do in Mediation When Your Child's Safety Comes First

    Refusing 50/50 Care? What to Do in Mediation When Your Child's Safety Comes First
    Mar 24 2026
    🎧 Listen to this episode if: You've been told to attend mediation but feel unsafe agreeing to child care arrangements Your ex is pushing for 50/50 care and you don't believe it's appropriate for the kids You're dealing with substance abuse, family violence, or safety concerns and your child's safety You feel pressured to compromise at mediation when you don't want to You want to understand your options without giving in on safety Have you been told you need to go to mediation, but you're worried about the outcome because you simply cannot budge when it comes to your child's safety? Has your ex demanded 50/50 care, but deep down you know that arrangement isn't in your child's best interests right now? We talk about how to approach mediation when you feel stuck, how to clearly communicate your concerns, and the practical options that may be discussed including supervised time, stepped arrangements, and drug and alcohol testing. If you're feeling pressured, overwhelmed, or unsure how to stand your ground, this episode will help you navigate mediation with clarity and confidence. ⏱️ Episode Timeline -Refusing 50/50 Care? What to Do in Mediation When Your Child's Safety Comes First [00:00] – Mediation With Safety Fears [02:33] – What Mediation Really Is [05:40] – Holding The Safety Line Why you don't have to agree to unsafe arrangements just to reach an outcome. [06:37] – Define The Real Risks How to clearly identify and communicate your specific safety concerns. [09:27] – What Courts Call Unsafe Understanding how the court views risk and safety in parenting matters. [10:33] – Supervised Time Options Exploring supervised contact as a way to maintain relationships safely. [12:56] – Choosing Contact Centres How supervised contact works and what to consider when selecting a centre. [16:34] – Cutting Contact And Court Optics What happens if time is stopped altogether and how it may be viewed legally. [18:43] – Stepped Parenting Orders Using gradual increases in time to build safety and trust over time. [21:26] – Therapy Conditions And Pitfalls When therapy is suggested, what to watch out for and potential risks. [23:06] – Drug And Alcohol Testing How testing can be used to address concerns and create accountability. [26:25] – Costs And Waitlists The practical realities of supervision services and delays. [26:45] – Paying For Supervision Who pays for supervised time and how this is handled. [27:28] – Preparing For Mediation How to go into mediation feeling clear, confident, and prepared. [28:13] – When They Refuse Supervision What to do if the other parent won't agree to safe options. [28:48] – Best Interests Not 50/50 Why equal time is not automatic and must reflect the child's needs. [30:40] – Court View On Refusal How the court may interpret refusal to compromise or engage. [33:27] – Holding Your Safety Line Practical ways to stay firm without escalating conflict. [35:17] – If Mediation Hits Impasse What happens when no agreement is reached and what comes next. [38:17] – Costs Threats Reality Check Addressing fear around legal costs and pressure tactics. [39:07] – Using Mediation For Property How mediation can still be useful even if parenting isn't resolved. [43:16] – Authenticity And Support Staying grounded, supported, and focused during a difficult process. ⚖️ Family Violence & Legal Disclaimer This episode contains discussion of family violence and may be distressing for some listeners. If you are affected, please consider listening with support or contact: Lifeline (Australia): 13 11 14 1800 RESPECT: 1800 737 732 This podcast is for educational purposes only and discusses general concepts in Australian family law. Every situation is different, and you should seek independent professional guidance for your specific circumstances. 🔗 Helpful Resources 1800 RESPECT – National Domestic Violence Support Lifeline Australia – 13 11 14 Relationships Australia (Supervised Contact Services) Parenting communication apps: OurFamilyWizard, AppClose 🎧 Recommended Episodes Mediation: What It Is (and What It Isn't) https://youtu.be/YvcWAYuG4QA?si=hSiXFvVDaFDV4J6v Understanding the Best Interests of the Child (Section 60CC) https://youtu.be/k4-QTbfW8XM?si=SDzN2cIzO4FtlMQu Mediation Series: How to Prepare and What to Expect https://youtu.be/cmcFWXD2EBs?si=TqUcJvQzmd2MMNJc
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  • The Parenting Order Loopholes Your Ex Might Exploit (And How to Close Them)

    The Parenting Order Loopholes Your Ex Might Exploit (And How to Close Them)
    Mar 18 2026
    🎧 Listen to this episode if:

    • You are about to negotiate parenting orders or a parenting plan

    • Your coparent is high conflict, manipulative or controlling

    • You're worried they will twist agreements or exploit loopholes

    • You're preparing for mediation or family court for parenting orders

    • You want parenting orders that actually reduce future arguments

    Family Violence & Legal Disclaimer

    This episode contains discussion of family conflict and family violence which may be distressing for some listeners.If you are experiencing family violence or feel unsafe, please contact 1800 RESPECT (Australia) or your local domestic violence support service.

    This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. Laura and Lynette are discussing general concepts in Australian family law. Every situation is different, and listeners should obtain independent professional guidance about their specific circumstances.

    Episode Time Stamps: The Parenting Order Loopholes Your Ex Will Exploit (And How to Close Them)

    00:00 High Conflict Co Parenting

    01:59 Why Orders Need Clarity

    05:10 Changing Orders Is Hard

    07:03 Loophole 1 Communication Rules

    11:53 Loophole 2 Last Minute Changes

    14:12 Loophole 3 Handover Boundaries

    20:14 Loophole 4 Extracurricular Conflicts

    26:30 Loophole 5 Stop Trash Talking

    28:04 High School Choice Traps

    29:39 Private School Fee Fights

    31:14 School Updates and Access

    32:07 Kids Phones and Screen Rules

    35:50 Passports and Travel Clauses

    40:06 Medical Decisions and Info

    44:34 Emergency Contact Requirements

    46:27 Rosters Holidays and Ambiguity

    50:07 Think About What Ifs

    51:12 Wrap Up and Disclaimers

    Helpful Resources

    • Lifeline (Australia): 13 11 14

    • 1800 RESPECT: 1800 737 732

    • Family Court of Australia resources on parenting arrangements

    • Parenting communication apps: OurFamilyWizard, AppClose, Talking Parents

    Episodes Mentioned in This Episode 1. 12 Agreements to Include in Parenting Plans

    Referenced when discussing the main structure of parenting agreements before talking about loopholes. https://open.spotify.com/episode/6j325rOj96QvV8spPnYsX5?si=td4XlKQZSr6CXfCSm9H_bA

    2. Handover Hell

    Mentioned during the discussion about pick-up and drop-off conflicts and handover disputes. https://open.spotify.com/episode/6Pskjns3vZkLyv9FCefvxm?si=guIkwi1ITJuTOnshvpP9VA

    3. Trash Talking

    Referenced when discussing parents speaking negatively about the other parent around the children.https://open.spotify.com/episode/7bxqn5I6B1HCzO9r0zKnxY?si=nEH3splzQxSTBOUikJJHhA

    4. Interstate Travel With Children After Separation

    Mentioned during the travel and passport boundary discussion. https://open.spotify.com/episode/0auxUUS6QSh0ILcGHXbQgk?si=CmhYz74pSquyhTI2dgRMbQ

    5. Tech Facilitated Abuse

    Referenced during the children's phones, devices and monitoring discussion. COMING SOON

    6. Sole Parental Responsibility

    Suggested for listeners who want to understand decision-making authority around medical or school issues. https://open.spotify.com/episode/2O0VczmgtAPUrvcgJiF8HP?si=BM0nanlwTP6k67SMF8yg4g

    Summary

    Many parents believe that once parenting orders are made, the conflict will finally stop.

    But the reality is court orders don't magically change behaviour.

    If you are dealing with a high-conflict, manipulative, controlling or avoidant ex, poorly written parenting orders can become a playground for loopholes, misunderstandings and ongoing arguments.

    In this episode of the Divorce Course Podcast, Laura and Lynette break down the most common loopholes people exploit in parenting orders and the practical boundaries you may want to think about before signing anything.

    Because while parenting orders can't eliminate conflict entirely, clear boundaries can prevent many of the arguments before they even start.

    You'll learn how to think about communication, handovers, school decisions, travel rules, technology, medical issues and more all through the lens of preventing future conflict.
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