In this episode of The Devil is in the Details, Dan and Jordan tackle a hot-button topic in Catholic circles: can lay people lay hands on others in prayer? Responding to a listener’s question, they walk through:

• How Vatican II’s call for greater lay participation was sometimes distorted
• Why blurring the line between priest and laity weakens belief in the Eucharist
• The connection between priestly gestures, apostolic authority, and spiritual warfare
• Why exorcists like Fr. Gabriele Amorth and experts like Adam Blai warn against lay people laying hands on heads
• How the enemy can use “healing” experiences and false power to ensnare people
• The real difference between supplication and assuming spiritual authority you don’t have
• Clear, practical guidelines for lay Catholics who want to pray for others without crossing dangerous lines

Dan also shares personal experiences assisting at exorcisms and explains why priestly gestures are never for the laity, while Jordan lays out a simple framework for understanding spiritual authority in the family and beyond.

“Do not judge” is one of the most quoted and most misunderstood lines in the Gospel. Jesus does not say “ignore your brother’s speck.” He says remove the plank from your own eye first, then you will see clearly to help your brother. In other words, humility and self knowledge come before any true correction.

In this episode of The Devil is in the Details, Dan and Jordan begin Chapter 3 of The Devil in the Castle and enter the battles of the Third Mansion in St. Teresa of Avila’s Interior Castle. Here the soul is more stable in prayer and leaving habitual mortal sin behind, yet it faces a deeper and more subtle war: pride, a critical spirit, and a distorted fear of the enemy instead of a healthy fear of God and of our own capacity to fall.

You will hear about

• Why we should not fear the devil, but should fear our own ability to rationalize sin and reject God

• How humility “knocks off the handles” that sin gives to the enemy

• The difference between judging and condemning, and how to read “judge not” together with “you will know them by their fruits”

• The real meaning of the plank and speck analogy and what it reveals about gentle correction

• How social media and outrage culture feed a critical spirit that can destroy community life and our own souls

• Practical ways to guard your tongue, avoid unnecessary criticism and speak only where you have responsibility or relationship

• Why God sometimes allows repeated failure so that pride is broken and humility can grow

This is Part 1 of a three part look at the Third Mansion. In later parts, Dan and Jordan will explore the transition from meditative to contemplative prayer and how the enemy tries to derail that deeper intimacy with God.

To follow along more deeply, get Dan’s book The Devil in the Castle and explore free resources on mental prayer, humility and spiritual warfare at SpiritualDirection.com and in the Apostoli Viae community at ApostoliViae.org.

In the second mansion of St. Teresa of Avila’s Interior Castle, the battle gets loud. You have started praying, you are doing the daily examen, and suddenly you see your sin, your patterns, and your past more clearly than ever. The enemy rushes in with shame, discouragement, confusion, and the lie that “all of this was easier before you started getting serious.”

In this episode of The Devil is in the Details, Dan and Jordan continue their series on The Devil in the Castle and unpack the spiritual warfare of the second mansion, where the soul is spiritually awake but still fragile.

You will hear about

• How daily mental prayer and the examen wake you up to the real state of your soul

• The way the enemy weaponizes shame, universal negatives, and “you will never change”

• Why quitting prayer to “make the attacks stop” is like paying protection money to the mob

• Practical tactics to resist temptation in the first wave and train your will to fight

• The need to flee near occasions of sin, change life systems, and sometimes even leave relationships or environments

• How detachment from media, noise, and certain friendships actually weakens the enemy’s grip

• Why small daily mortifications and physical discipline strengthen you for spiritual battle

They also touch on redemptive examen, the sovereignty of God in the middle of the fight, and concrete tools like Into the Deep, Finding Peace in the Storm, and the Holy Habits app to help you keep going when the battle feels most intense.

This episode is part of a series on The Devil in the Castle. For full context, start with the introduction and first mansion, then continue through the playlist. Resources and free courses on mental prayer, spiritual warfare, and discernment of spirits are available at SpiritualDirection.com and ApostoliViae.org.