The Default Parent Dynamic: How to Share the Load, Feel Valued, and Parent as a Team (Episode 191)

In this episode, Kyle and Sara Wester explore one of the most common and misunderstood dynamics in modern parenting: the roles of the default parent and the non-default parent. They unpack why these roles form, what each partner often experiences, and how these patterns can create pressure, resentment, or feelings of invisibility.

With compassion for both parents, Kyle and Sara explain how routines are built through trial and error, why they deserve respect, and how well-meaning attempts to help can sometimes cause tension. They offer practical steps to improve communication, clarify responsibilities, honor each parent’s strengths, and build a more balanced partnership.

This conversation gives parents the tools to navigate differences, value each other’s contributions, and create a healthy, flexible family system where both parents feel capable, respected, and connected.

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