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  • Teaching your daughter to set boundaries and speak up for herself.

    Teaching your daughter to set boundaries and speak up for herself.
    Nov 17 2025

    Here's the deal: The world won't always respect your daughter's space, time, or feelings. But if she learns from you that her voice matters—if she knows how to say no, ask for what she needs, and stand her ground—she's going to be stronger in school, friendships, future relationships, and the workplace.

    Let's break down how to model, teach, and encourage this vital life skill in your everyday parenting.

    Why This Matters

    Boundaries are about self-respect, not selfishness. When your daughter can set healthy boundaries, she's better able to:
    ✅ Avoid peer pressure
    ✅ Communicate her needs clearly
    ✅ Build safe, respectful relationships
    ✅ Stand up when something feels wrong

    And here's the key: The way you respond to her boundaries will shape how confidently she sets them elsewhere.

    3 Practical Ways to Teach Boundary-Setting

    1. Model It Yourself—Out Loud

    Let your daughter see and hear you set boundaries in respectful, healthy ways.

    ✅ "I need a little quiet time right now, and then I'd love to play."
    ✅ "I'm not okay with being spoken to like that. Let's take a break and try again."
    ✅ "I have too much on my plate today, so I'll have to say no to that request."

    When you name your own limits clearly and calmly, you show her that it's okay to prioritize her own emotional and physical space—and that boundaries don't require anger or guilt.

    2. Celebrate Her Voice When She Uses It

    When she speaks up—even in small ways—acknowledge it and reinforce it.

    💬 "I'm proud of you for telling your friend how you felt."
    💬 "You did a great job saying no politely but firmly."
    💬 "You asked for what you needed—that takes confidence."

    When she knows you won't dismiss or shame her for expressing herself, she'll be more likely to keep doing it.

    And when she says "no" to you? Practice the pause. Stay calm. Show her that boundaries in a healthy relationship go both ways.

    3. Role-Play Real-Life Scenarios

    One of the best teaching tools? Practice. Take a few minutes and act out everyday situations together.

    Try these:

    🎭 A friend wants to copy her homework
    🎭 Someone makes her uncomfortable at school
    🎭 She's asked to do something she doesn't want to do
    🎭 She needs to ask for space, help, or privacy

    Let her practice saying:
    👉 "No, thank you."
    👉 "That doesn't feel right to me."
    👉 "I need some space right now."
    👉 "Please don't do that."

    Then talk it through: How did that feel? What was hard? What helped you feel strong?

    These mini rehearsals build real-world confidence.

    Quick Takeaway: Try This Today

    Here's your challenge:
    Today, pay attention to moments when your daughter expresses a need, says no, or sets a limit—and support her.

    ✅ Say, "Thanks for telling me how you feel."
    ✅ Ask, "What do you need from me right now?"
    ✅ Or tell her, "It's okay to say no. I'll always respect your voice."

    And then—live that out. Because when your daughter knows she can speak up with you, she'll know she can speak up anywhere.

    If you enjoyed this episode we ask you to take a moment to take our Dad and Daughter Connection Survey to let us know more about you as a dad. You can also sign up to get our newsletter to stay connected to our community and we will send items of interest to you to help you to be the dad that you want to be. Feel free to follow me on the following social media platforms: Facebook, Facebook Group, Instagram, LinkedIn, X.
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  • Teaching Your Daughter How to Handle Conflict Constructively

    Teaching Your Daughter How to Handle Conflict Constructively
    Nov 10 2025
    Hey dads! Welcome back to Dad Connections in 5, the podcast that gives you simple, real-life ways to connect more deeply with your daughter—in just five minutes or less. I'm Dr. Christopher Lewis, and today we're talking about something every daughter will face—conflict—and how you can teach her to handle it constructively. From playground drama to social media misunderstandings to future workplace disagreements, conflict is a part of life. And how your daughter learns to navigate it—with calm, confidence, and respect—will shape her relationships, self-respect, and success for years to come. So let's break it down. I'll give you three practical strategies that you can start using with her today—plus a takeaway challenge that makes this lesson stick. Why Conflict Skills Matter Conflict isn't the problem—it's how we deal with it that makes the difference. If your daughter learns to handle disagreement by shutting down, yelling, or giving in just to avoid confrontation, she might: ❌ Feel unheard or resentful ❌ Lose confidence in her voice ❌ Avoid standing up for herself But if you help her learn to express herself clearly, listen actively, and stay calm, she'll: ✅ Build stronger relationships ✅ Earn respect from others ✅ Become a confident communicator And guess what? She'll be watching how you handle conflict, too. So let's make it count. Three Ways to Teach Constructive Conflict Skills 1. Teach the Power of "I" Statements Most conflict escalates when people feel blamed or attacked. Teaching your daughter to use "I" statements helps her express how she feels without pointing fingers. Instead of: ❌ "You never listen to me!" Coach her to say: ✅ "I feel frustrated when I'm not heard. Can we talk about it?" You can role-play this with her. Give her a scenario, and walk through what it might sound like to express her side without creating more tension. 2. Encourage Active Listening—Not Just Waiting to Speak Listening is half the battle in any conflict. Teach her to: ✅ Make eye contact ✅ Stay quiet while the other person talks ✅ Repeat back what she heard: "So, what you're saying is…" You can practice this at home, even with simple disagreements. Model it yourself when she brings you concerns. Show her what respectful listening looks like. 3. Show Her How to Stay Calm Under Pressure Conflict can trigger big emotions, and it's hard to respond well when those emotions take over. Help your daughter recognize when she's upset—and give her permission to pause. You can say: 👉 "It's okay to take a breath before you respond." 👉 "If you need space to calm down, that's not weakness—it's wisdom." You might even share how you handle your own frustrations, especially when you don't get it right. That vulnerability makes your lesson real. Quick Takeaways: Start Today! Here's your challenge: Today, teach your daughter one phrase or tip to use the next time she has a disagreement—whether it's with a sibling, a friend, or even with you. ✅ Practice an "I" statement. ✅ Model active listening in a real conversation. ✅ Talk about what it means to pause and stay calm. And remember, every conflict is a teaching opportunity. The goal isn't to avoid it—it's to help her handle it with grace, confidence, and strength. If you enjoyed this episode we ask you to take a moment to take our Dad and Daughter Connection Survey to let us know more about you as a dad. You can also sign up to get our newsletter to stay connected to our community and we will send items of interest to you to help you to be the dad that you want to be. Feel free to follow me on the following social media platforms: Facebook, Facebook Group, Instagram, LinkedIn, X.
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  • Teaching Life Skills in a Fun and Engaging Way

    Teaching Life Skills in a Fun and Engaging Way
    Nov 3 2025

    We want our daughters to grow into confident, capable, and independent young women—and that starts with giving them the tools to thrive in everyday life.

    But teaching life skills doesn't have to feel like a chore, for you or for her. It can be:
    ✅ A bonding activity
    ✅ A confidence builder
    ✅ A memory maker

    And when it's fun, she'll want to keep learning more.

    3 Ways to Make Life Skills Fun and Engaging

    1. Turn It Into a Mini-Challenge

    Take something simple—like cooking dinner, pumping gas, or sorting laundry—and turn it into a challenge.

    💬 "Let's see who can fold the most shirts in two minutes."
    💬 "You're in charge of dinner tonight—but I'll be your assistant chef!"
    💬 "Let's create a $20 grocery list together and see what healthy meals we can make."

    This makes her feel empowered. She's not just helping—she's leading. And when you bring some friendly competition or creativity, she'll lean in instead of zoning out.

    2. Use Real Life as a Classroom

    Life skills don't have to be "taught" in a sit-down lesson—they're everywhere.

    🛒 Grocery store trip? Talk about comparing prices, reading labels, or budgeting.
    🚗 Car ride? Teach her how to check the oil or change a tire.
    🏦 Paying bills? Explain how to track expenses or save up for something important.

    The key is to involve her—not just tell her. Ask questions. Invite her to try. Let her mess up and learn from it. That's real growth.

    3. Make It a Shared Project

    Want to teach organization, planning, or teamwork? Start a project together.

    ✅ Build a birdhouse
    ✅ Plan a weekend getaway
    ✅ Start a garden
    ✅ Set a savings goal for something fun

    Projects are a great way to sneak in multiple life skills while building something meaningful side-by-side. It becomes less about the lesson and more about the journey you take together.

    Quick Takeaway: Try This Today

    Here's your challenge:
    Pick one life skill your daughter hasn't mastered yet—and teach it in a way that's fun.

    Maybe it's:
    🎵 Cooking a meal while listening to her favorite playlist
    🎯 Creating a savings goal for something she wants
    🎮 Turning laundry into a timed "level-up" game

    Make it memorable. Make it fun. And make sure she knows:
    💬 "I'm not just teaching you this because you need to know it. I'm teaching you because I believe in you."

    If you enjoyed this episode we ask you to take a moment to take our Dad and Daughter Connection Survey to let us know more about you as a dad. You can also sign up to get our newsletter to stay connected to our community and we will send items of interest to you to help you to be the dad that you want to be. Feel free to follow me on the following social media platforms: Facebook, Facebook Group, Instagram, LinkedIn, X.
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  • Building Brotherhood: How WeBus Connects Dads for Support and Growth

    Building Brotherhood: How WeBus Connects Dads for Support and Growth
    Oct 27 2025
    Fatherhood doesn't come with a manual—but the journey is deeply rewarding, especially when you're intentional about connecting with your daughters. In a recent episode of the "Dad and Daughter Connection" podcast, host Dr. Christopher Lewis sits down with Wes Piatt and Chris Roness—two dedicated dads and founders of WeBus International—to dig deep into the realities, challenges, and incredible rewards of raising daughters. One of the main themes woven throughout this heartfelt episode is intentional presence. Both Wes and Chris reflect on their own meaningful moments with their daughters, highlighting how vital it is to be truly present. As Chris shares, "It's those moments where they come to me because dad's got the answer… it's all about being present with my kids." Wes echoes this commitment by intentionally setting aside daily time to let his daughters choose activities, stressing that, "Whatever they want to do, I'm going to be a part of it." The episode doesn't shy away from the hard parts either. Both guests open up about mistakes and moments of failure, offering reassurance that vulnerability and honest communication are essential. Chris tells a story about miscommunicating with his daughter about their schedule and how owning the mistake, genuinely apologizing, and learning from it turned it into a powerful teaching moment. Wes reinforces that failure is not only inevitable but also an opportunity for growth, both as a father and for teaching his daughters resilience. Another profound theme is connection among fathers. Wes shares his personal struggles during a challenging time and how reaching out to other dads led to the creation of WeBus—a supportive community where men can share experiences (not unsolicited advice) and lift each other up. Through this network, fathers form bonds, share practical solutions, and most importantly, realize they're not alone on this path. The episode wraps up with actionable wisdom: be present, cherish powerful moments, communicate openly, and seek connection—both with your children and other dads. As Wes and Chris emphasize, it's about being the man and the example you want your daughters to look up to. Whether you're looking for inspiration, a reminder that imperfection is part of the journey, or simply some practical dad-to-dad guidance, this episode is packed with genuine stories and strategies. Tune in to the "Dad and Daughter Connection" for insights that will help you become the dad your daughter needs—and maybe find a brotherhood along the way. Ready to listen? Find the episode at dadanddaughterconnection.com and take the next step on your fatherhood journey. If you enjoyed this episode we ask you to take a moment to take our Dad and Daughter Connection Survey to let us know more about you as a dad. You can also sign up to get our newsletter to stay connected to our community and we will send items of interest to you to help you to be the dad that you want to be. Feel free to follow me on the following social media platforms: Facebook, Facebook Group, Instagram, LinkedIn, X. TRANSCRIPT Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:02]: Welcome to the dad and Daughter Connection, the podcast for dads who want to build stronger bonds and raise confident, independent daughters. If you're looking to build a stronger bond with your daughter and help her grow into a confident, independent woman, you're in the right place. I'm Dr. Christopher Lewis, and the dad and Daughter Connection is the podcast where we dive into real stories, expert advice, and practical tips to help you navigate the incredible journey of fatherhood. In every episode, we'll bring you conversations that inspire, challenge, and equip you to show up as the dad your daughter needs. So let's get started. Because being a great dad isn't just about being there. It's about truly connecting. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:51]: Welcome back to the dad and Daughter Connection. Really excited to have you back again this week. Every week. I love being able to reconnect with you, to talk with you, to be on this journey that we're both on together in raising our daughters and building those strong connections that we want to have with our daughters. One step at a time. Because none of us are thrown into fatherhood with that manual, per se. We have to learn it along the way. And it is so important to have strong connections with our daughters, and especially our daughters, because of that bond that happens between a father and a daughter and all of the research that shows the power of the relationship between the father and the daughter. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:36]: So every week, I love being able to talk with you, to walk with you on this path that you're on, but also introduce you to other dads that are doing their best to be the best dads they can be. And we got two great guests today. We've got Wes Pyatta and Chris Ronas are here. And we're gonna be talking to them not only about being ...
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  • Breaking Parenting Cycles: Building Lasting Dad-Daughter Connections

    Breaking Parenting Cycles: Building Lasting Dad-Daughter Connections
    Oct 20 2025
    Parenting doesn't come with a manual, but that doesn't mean you're alone on the journey. In the recent episode of the "Dad and Daughter Connection" podcast, Dr. Christopher Lewis sits down with Tia Slightham, creator of the Parenting With Purpose method and a coach to high-achieving parents. This insightful conversation dives deep into the challenges, growth, and opportunities both dads (and all parents) face when raising confident, emotionally secure daughters. One of the standout themes from the episode is the importance of breaking cycles—especially those rooted in our own upbringing. Tia shares how her father broke the cycles of abuse and alcoholism from his own childhood, emphasizing that while he didn't always have the resources or know-how, his willingness to try made a lasting impact. She encourages listeners that "breaking cycles is something I think we all have the power to do," reminding us that parenting is ultimately a learned skill. Tia explores different parenting styles—what she calls the "overpowering tiger," the "wet doormat," and her preferred "positive discipline parent." She describes how her own parents modeled these behaviors, and how she's forged a new path centered on connection, mutual respect, and discipline without punishment. For dads looking to build stronger relationships with their daughters, she recommends focusing less on forcing behaviors and more on connecting through empathy, listening, and presence. A practical tool Tia shares is "Golden Time"—spending 10 focused, device-free minutes a day doing an activity your child chooses. It's a simple but powerful strategy that helps rebuild connection, whether you're dealing with young children or teenagers. The episode also covers the struggles parents face with emotional connection and communication. Tia urges dads not to shy away from sharing their own experiences and emotions, showing that vulnerability can build empathy and trust. She advises parents to shift their language, replacing "if" statements with "when," to reduce power struggles and foster more respectful interactions. Ultimately, this podcast offers hope and actionable advice for any parent feeling overwhelmed, stuck in chaos, or disconnected from their kids. Tia's core message is clear: change starts with us—and it's never too late to build the relationship you want with your daughter. Ready for more stories, expert advice, and practical tips? Listen to the full episode to start building stronger bonds and raising confident, independent daughters! If you enjoyed this episode we ask you to take a moment to take our Dad and Daughter Connection Survey to let us know more about you as a dad. You can also sign up to get our newsletter to stay connected to our community and we will send items of interest to you to help you to be the dad that you want to be. Feel free to follow me on the following social media platforms: Facebook, Facebook Group, Instagram, LinkedIn, X. TRANSCRIPT Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:02]: Welcome to the dad and Daughter Connection, the podcast for dads who want to build stronger bonds and raise confident, independent daughters. If you're looking to build a stronger bond with your daughter and help her grow into a confident, independent woman, you're in the right place. I'm Dr. Christopher Lewis, and the dad and Daughter Connection is the podcast where we dive into real stories, expert advice, and practical tips to help you navigate the incredible journey of fatherhood. In every episode, we'll bring you conversations that inspire, challenge, and equip you to show up as the dad your daughter needs. So let's get started. Because being a great dad isn't just about being there. It's about truly connecting. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:51]: Welcome back to the dad and Daughter Connection, where every week we have an opportunity. We have an opportunity to be able to up our game, to be able to help ourselves, to be those dads that we want to be and to be able to build those strong connections that we want to have with our own daughters. That, and I say that we have an opportunity, because we do. Because when you go into fatherhood, there is no set pathway. There's no manual, there's no set thing that you have to do to be the best dad you can ever be. But there are things that you can do to be successful and to be able to build solid relationships with your children to help them along the way. Those tools for your toolbox, per se, that you can have and take with you. And a lot of times you can learn from others. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:39]: You can learn from others, whether it's your neighbor, whether it's a friend, whether it's someone you don't even know. They can help you along the way by giving you some of the tidbits, some of the things that they've learned along the way to help you to become stronger as well. That's why this podcast exists. This podcast is here to help you, to give you some of those tools for your ...
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  • Empathy, Trust, and Conversation: Raising Confident, Kind Daughters

    Empathy, Trust, and Conversation: Raising Confident, Kind Daughters
    Oct 13 2025
    If you're a dad looking to build a stronger bond with your daughter, the latest episode of the Dad and Daughter Connection podcast is a can't-miss listen. Hosted by Dr. Christopher Lewis, this episode features a heartfelt conversation with Alex Greenwood, father of an almost 17-year-old daughter, who opens up about the everyday realities, challenges, and rewards of being a present and engaged dad. The Power of "Hey, Dad" Moments One of the episode's core themes is the importance of creating and treasuring meaningful moments—sometimes in the simplest ways. Alex shares about his "hey dad" moments, where his daughter pops downstairs to sit and talk, checking in on him and sharing her world. These moments, whether brief or lasting for hours, have become the heartbeat of their connection. As Alex says, "these conversations can last anywhere from 20 minutes to two hours… and we talk about everything." These authentic check-ins remind us that genuine connection isn't built in grand gestures—it's nurtured in consistency and willingness to simply be available. Balancing Guidance and Independence Another central theme is the delicate balance between guiding and giving independence. Alex describes the challenge of working demanding hours, yet prioritizing availability for his daughter, whether it's teaching her to change windshield wiper fluid or sending a supportive text on a long workday. He emphasizes that, especially with teens, "availability" is key—not forcing connection, but being there when she seeks it. Intentional Parenting: Preparing for Life's Realities Alex and his wife have been intentional about preparing their daughter not for control, but for independence. They've communicated their evolving roles—from "bosses" when she was young, to "supervisors" during college, and eventually "consultants" and "friends." Through practical life lessons—whether teaching financial literacy through a make-your-own business project or discussing the realities of loss—they empower her with resilience, critical thinking, and empathy. Conversations that Matter The episode doesn't shy away from tough topics: discussing impermanence and loss, embracing vulnerability, and fostering trust through honest communication. Alex reminds fellow dads to "give yourself permission to be human" and always talk to your kids with respect. Listen to Grow as a Dad If you're seeking real-life stories, practical tips, and inspiration for meaningful father-daughter connections, tune in to this episode of the Dad and Daughter Connection podcast. Be reminded that being the dad your daughter needs is about showing up, growing together, and cherishing the journey—bumps, laughs, and all. Listen now at dadanddaughterconnection.com, and start building those memorable moments today. If you enjoyed this episode we ask you to take a moment to take our Dad and Daughter Connection Survey to let us know more about you as a dad. You can also sign up to get our newsletter to stay connected to our community and we will send items of interest to you to help you to be the dad that you want to be. Feel free to follow me on the following social media platforms: Facebook, Facebook Group, Instagram, LinkedIn, X. TRANSCRIPT Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:02]: Welcome to the dad and Daughter Connection, the podcast for dads who want to build stronger bonds and raise confident, independent daughters. Alex Greenwood [00:00:12]: If you're looking to build a stronger bond with your daughter and help her grow into a confident, independent woman, you're in the right place. I'm Dr. Christopher Lewis, and the dad and Daughter Connection is the podcast where we dive into real stories, expert advice, and practical tips to help you navigate the incredible journey of fatherhood. In every episode, we'll bring you conversations that inspire, challenge, and equip you to show up as the dad your daughter needs. So let's get started, because being a great dad isn't just about being there. It's about truly connecting. Welcome back to the dad and Daughter Connection. Really excited to have you back again this week. Alex Greenwood [00:00:56]: As always, every week, you and I are on a journey together. We are working our tail off trying to build these amazing relationships that we want to have with our daughters one step at a time. And I'll tell you, it's not always going to be easy. There's going to be bumps in the roads and you have to be able to sometimes be humble and know if you make mistakes, you're going to pick yourself back up and keep going. And it's so important that not only that you know that, but it's so important that you're willing to learn, to grow and to listen, because there are so many individuals around us that are fathering in different ways, and there is no one right way to father. That's why this podcast exists, because every week I love being able to bring you different people with different experiences that are fathering their ...
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  • Lessons on Love, Connection, and Family from a Dad of Three Daughters

    Lessons on Love, Connection, and Family from a Dad of Three Daughters
    Oct 6 2025
    Raising confident, independent daughters in today's world is no small task. On the latest episode of the Dad and Daughter Connection podcast, Dr. Christopher Lewis sits down with Rick Guymon—a father of six (including three daughters)—to explore the joys and challenges of fatherhood and what it really means to connect with your kids. From the outset, Rick's story is both moving and inspiring. He shares deeply personal moments, like his daughter's journey with leukemia and the isolation of the pandemic, that highlight how life can bring families together in unexpected ways. What stands out most in this conversation is Rick's commitment to being intentional as a dad. Whether it's through weekly one-on-one "interviews" with his children or setting aside family time each Monday night, Rick and his wife model the idea that strong relationships are built with time, attention, and care. One meaningful theme from this episode is the idea of balancing guidance and independence. Rick believes in fostering agency in his daughters, allowing them to make their own decisions but grounding them with parental wisdom and support. He discusses how their family motto—"almost nothing matters, but God's children do"—guides their daily lives, reminding them to focus on what's truly important: each other and serving others. Rick also opens up about mistakes he's made around perfectionism and the pressure to always get parenting right. He emphasizes the power of vulnerability—recognizing that nobody is perfect, and what matters most is loving your kids unconditionally. For Rick, it's been essential to let go of unrealistic expectations and simply be present, reassuring his daughters that there's nothing they could do to lose his or their heavenly parent's love. Beyond the serious topics, the episode is filled with practical insights—like the benefits of spending time in nature as a family, creating traditions, and encouraging individual interests (from singing to salsa-tasting). If you're a dad looking to build a meaningful connection with your daughter—or any parent hoping for fresh perspective—you won't want to miss this episode. Rick's wisdom and authenticity will encourage you to clear space in your life for what matters most: being present and intentional as you walk the journey of parenthood. Tune in to the "Dad and Daughter Connection" for more real stories and actionable advice, and get inspired to be the dad your daughter needs. If you enjoyed this episode we ask you to take a moment to take our Dad and Daughter Connection Survey to let us know more about you as a dad. You can also sign up to get our newsletter to stay connected to our community and we will send items of interest to you to help you to be the dad that you want to be. Feel free to follow me on the following social media platforms: Facebook, Facebook Group, Instagram, LinkedIn, X. TRANSCRIPT Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:02]: Welcome to the dad and Daughter Connection, the podcast for dads who want to build stronger bonds and raise confident, independent daughters. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:12]: If you're looking to build a stronger bond with your daughter and help her grow into a confident, independent woman, you're in the right place. I'm Dr. Christopher Lewis, and the dad and Daughter Connection is the podcast where we dive into real stories, expert advice, and practical tips to help you navigate the incredible journey of fatherhood. In every episode, we'll bring you conversations that inspire, challenge, and equip you to show up as the dad your daughter needs. So let's get started, because being a great dad isn't just about being there. It's about truly connecting. Welcome back to the dad and Daughter Connection, where every week we have a great opportunity. We have a great opportunity to connect together, to be a able to work together, to be able to go on this path together, because the journey that we are on is different. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:06]: Every one of us is going to have a little bit different journey as it comes to raising our daughters. But building those strong connections is so critical in being able to help our daughters to be the best people that we want them to be. And that's why this podcast exists. It exists to allow for you to learn, to grow, to be able to hear some different perspectives as well as be able to consider different ways of fathering, because there's no one right way to father your kids, and there's no manual that we've been given as our kids are born. So every week, I love being able to bring you someone new, someone different, that is parenting in a little bit different way that can give you some perspective, some different perspective on what fatherhood means and how they father their daughters to be able to build those strong connections. Today we got another great guest. Rick Gaiman is with us today. And Rick is a father of six, and he has three daughters and three sons. Rick ...
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  • Growing Together: Consistency, Challenges, and Connection with Daryl Potter

    Growing Together: Consistency, Challenges, and Connection with Daryl Potter
    Sep 29 2025
    Navigating the journey of fatherhood comes with unique joys and profound challenges, especially when it comes to building lasting, meaningful relationships with our daughters. In the latest episode of the Dad and Daughter Connection podcast, Dr. Christopher Lewis welcomes Daryl Potter—a seasoned banker, published author, and devoted father—for an inspiring conversation about the realities and rewards of raising both neurodivergent and neurotypical children. Right from the start, this episode sets a heartfelt tone about the power of presence, vulnerability, and intentional connection. Dr. Lewis reminds us that fatherhood isn't a quest for perfection, but a continual commitment to showing up, listening, and learning alongside our children. Daryl echoes this philosophy, sharing deeply personal stories from his nearly 30 years of parenting—a journey shaped by both typical milestones and unexpected challenges. His openness about raising a daughter with a degenerative, nonverbal condition is both moving and eye-opening, reminding listeners that every child's journey (and every dad's, too) comes with its own unexpected plot twists. A central theme of the discussion is the idea that parenting is storytelling—not just the stories we tell our kids, but the stories we live alongside them. Daryl explains how he intentionally crafts and shares stories about his own mistakes, growth, and childhood, giving his children not only a sense of family identity, but also permission to be imperfect, learn, and evolve. Just as importantly, he emphasizes the impact of the "stories" parents tell through their actions: how we handle spilled milk, failed attempts, or tough seasons. Our reactions can either instill shame or build resilience and belonging. The episode is packed with practical wisdom: the importance of consistency, the transformative power of focused listening, and the annual necessity of "rewriting" our own parenting narrative as our children grow. Daryl shares beautiful examples—like letting his daughter choose her own socks, even when communication is limited—that illustrate how honoring a child's agency and individuality nurtures their confidence and sense of self. For dads seeking actionable inspiration and heartfelt encouragement, this episode is a must-listen. It's a testament to the fact that connection isn't about being the perfect father—it's about showing up, embracing the journey, and learning to see the world through your daughter's eyes. Ready to go deeper? Listen to the full episode of the Dad and Daughter Connection and discover more stories, challenges, and wins from fathers on the same path. Your journey to a deeper connection starts here. TRANSCRIPT Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:02]: Welcome to the dad and Daughter Connection, the podcast for dads who want to build stronger bonds and raise confident, independent daughters. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:00:12]: If you're looking to build a stronger bond with your daughter and help her grow into a confident, independent woman, you're in the right place. I'm Dr. Christopher Lewis, and the dad and Daughter Connection is the podcast where we dive into real stories, expert advice, and practical tips to help you navigate the incredible journey of fatherhood. In every episode, we'll bring you conversations that inspire, challenge, and equip you to show up as the dad your daughter needs. So let's get started, because being a great dad isn't just about being there. It's about truly connecting. Welcome back to the dad and Daughter Connection, where every week we have an opportunity to be able to delve a little bit deeper into the relationships that we want to build with our daughters. And every day we're going to be pushing ourselves to challenge ourselves to be that much better. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:08]: And we have to be willing and open to learn and to grow and to be able to know that we don't know everything. We're flawed. We're going to make mistakes along the way. And that's why this show exists, that's why this podcast is here, and that's why I love every week being able to talk with you, to be able to walk with you on this journey. You know, I've got two daughters, many of my guests have daughters. And in this journey that you're on, be open, be open to listening and hearing what people are saying. Doesn't mean that you're going to take something out of every episode. I hope you do. Dr. Christopher Lewis [00:01:40]: But you're going to hear things. You're going to be able to learn things from every person that's on. That's why every week I bring different people on, different people with different experiences that can help you to be able to learn, to grow, to learn something a little bit new that you can put into that toolbox of your own. Now, today's guest is Daryl Potter, a seasoned banker, published author, devoted father who spent nearly 30 years balancing demands of a high level career and the joys of challenging. The joys and ...
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