They say motherhood changes you but what they don’t tell you is that it reveals you.

Every trigger, every tantrum, every moment you snap and feel guilt bubbling under your skin. It will hold up a mirror to the parts of you you’ve spent years avoiding.

The parts that feel tender, reactive, and raw.

And that’s exactly what this week’s episode is all about. I sat down with Carly Ely, and we cracked open the truth about what motherhood is really asking of us. Not the Pinterest-perfect version but the real, soul-stretching journey of learning how to parent while still discovering who you are.

If you've ever wondered why motherhood feels like a spiritual awakening (but no one gave you a guidebook for it), you're going to feel so seen in this conversation.

• The way triggers point to unhealed parts of you and have nothing to do with your child’s behavior

• Why your worth has nothing to do with how well your child performs

• The grief that hits when you realize time is moving way too fast

• How motherhood becomes the mirror for your own emotional growth

• What it actually means to break generational cycles (without perfection)

• The shift from control to connection and how to let your guard down

• The quiet shame we carry and how self-compassion sets us free
  
  

✔ Felt like motherhood was asking you to do deep inner work (but didn’t know where to start)
✔ Needed a reminder that growth and grace can coexist
✔ Been trying to break cycles without burning out
✔Felt like your kids were showing you what you still needed to heal
✔ Struggled with shame and wondered if you were the only one

This conversation will validate your journey, soften your shame, and remind you that you’re not alone in the messy middle.

Meet Carly

Carly Ely is a conscious motherhood coach, subconscious reprogramming expert, and neurodivergent mom of two. She combines her background as a school psychologist along with her training and study of the reparenting and spirituality to guide women through the process of healing and rediscovering themselves in motherhood.

In this solo, from-the-heart episode, I’m sharing something completely unplanned, but too important not to record. After a powerful call with a client (and some serious energy downloads), I had to jump on and unpack what might just be the missing piece in your coaching, content, and conversions:
✨ The energy you hold for your clients.

We’re talking about the frequency behind your coaching sessions, sales calls, emails, and content—and how the way you see your audience changes how they rise.

• How your unconscious fears may be projecting onto your clients

• The practice I use before touching babies in the NICU—and how it applies to your business

• Why holding a frequency of abundance and wholeness makes you magnetic

• What it looks like to truly see your people in their limitless potential

• How to shift your energy before every post, pitch, or coaching call

• How energetic alignment became my biggest business breakthrough in 2025

• Behind the scenes of why I’m transitioning Your Cycle Advantage back into a high-touch group coaching experience

🌀 You’re feeling disconnected from your clients or content
💡 You’re craving more depth, alignment, and magic in your business
🧠 You’ve mastered the strategy but still feel something’s missing
💞 You want to lead in a way that feels intimate, intentional, and impactful
🔥 You’re ready to stop operating from scarcity and start creating from soul

👉 Join the waitlist for the new Your Cycle Advantage group coaching experience: RenaeFieck.com/yca-waitlist
👉 Grab your FREE book (U.S. only): RenaeFieck.com/freebook
👉 International? Order the book at: CycleSyncYourBusiness.com

If you try this energetic shift before your next client call or post, DM me on Instagram and tell me what you noticed! I want to know what changed. What felt different. What became easier. Because this? This is the kind of shift that ripples far beyond your inbox.

There was a time in my business journey where I truly believed that more effort = more results.

That if I could just master the strategy, stick to the schedule, and keep showing up consistently, I'd finally “make it.”

But then my body started whispering.

Then it started screaming.

And that’s where this week's guest, Brianna Rose, comes in because this conversation cracked wide open the illusion of success we've been sold as female entrepreneurs… and offered something so much deeper in return.

We talked about the things most people aren’t saying out loud including:

• How contraction is a sacred part of creation

• Why “overnight success” is often just smart marketing

• The real weight of launching and why it's okay to slow down

• Why your slower seasons are where your greatest ideas are born

• Why who you are matters more than what you offer

• The energetic reality of passive income (because it’s never actually passive)

• Why internal trust beats strategy every single time

• The truth about what coaching is really about

💭 Ditch the rigid formulas and build from your body’s wisdom
🌗 Embrace the slow seasons as sacred
🌀 Work with your energy, not against it
🔥 Redefine success on your terms not Instagram’s
💞 Lead with softness, depth, and unshakable trust

Meet Brianna

Brianna Rose is a somatic leadership mentor and creator of the Light Leader® Movement. She trains coaches, healers, and therapists how to facilitate deep, body-based transformation using the Meridian Mapping Method™ (MMM).

As a former marketing executive turned industry leader, she has built a 7-figure global brand helping high-performing women unlock their full potential through somatic intelligence, nervous system regulation, and embodied leadership. Her work bridges the gap between business strategy and the body, showing women how to lead with their energy, expand their impact, and create sustainable success—without burnout.

Through her signature programs, including the Academy of Light™ and the Light Leader® Certification, she has helped thousands of women step into aligned, powerful, and profitable leadership. When she’s not teaching, you’ll find her exploring the intersection of somatics, success, and the future of feminine leadership.