JJ and Kait Tomlin join the podcast to give candid advice to church leaders who, um, haven't dated in a while. It's different out there than it used to be.

They cover outdated dating advice, what pastors should say, and the real challenges of being a Christian and single today.

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FUND THE FUTURE MASTERCLASS

If you’re tired of feeling awkward about funding your mission and are ready to lead boldly into the future, check out my course, Fund the Future Masterclass.

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CHURCH SALARY

ChurchSalary 3.0 helps pastors and leaders answer things like: Am I being paid fairly? Are we paying our team fairly? How should cost of living, education, and experience affect compensation? It uses real, ministry-specific data to give you clarity and confidence.

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Recent data shows that while young men are coming to church in record numbers, women are leaving. Why? Kadi Cole shares the #1 reason women are leaving church (lack of trust) and outlines numerous other red flags that are alienating women.

Plus, she discusses how to address them and how to create an engaging environment for women, whether you lead a complementarian or egalitarian church.

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ART OF LEADERSHIP LIVE

If you’re leading a church and you know there’s more in you—and more ahead for your team—I want to personally invite you to something special.

September 21–23, 2026, I’m hosting The Art of Leadership LIVE in Nashville, Tennessee.

Visit theartofleadershiplive.com to secure the best pricing.

COMPASSION

In partnership with global churches, Compassion International has been serving children for more than 70 years.

Download free resources and learn more about how compassion changes everything at compassion.com/carey.

GLOO

With solutions like Gloo Workspace, where ministry leaders get work done, and partners like Igniter Media, Barna, VisitorReach, and Outreach, Gloo is providing the digital backbone for the faith ecosystem, equipping your church, ministry, and individuals to thrive in a digital age.

Learn more about how Gloo can help you do more of what you’re called to do by texting CAREY to 46816. That’s C-A-R-E-Y to 46816

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Beth Moore talks about leaving the SBC a decade ago, how to know when it's time to leave, why so many women are leaving the church, and proof-texting scripture to keep the pulpit and power.

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ART OF LEADERSHIP LIVE

If you’re leading a church and you know there’s more in you—and more ahead for your team—I want to personally invite you to something special.

September 21–23, 2026, I’m hosting The Art of Leadership LIVE in Nashville, Tennessee.

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GLOO FEED

We all know how fast things move in ministry—and how hard it can be to keep up.

That’s exactly what the Gloo Feed is built for.

This is a totally free, regular text that delivers the latest research, trending topics, and updates from across the Church.

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BELAY

BELAY is giving away its resource, The Future of Financial Leadership, for free. It discusses how to manage your church’s finances with efficiency and care, how their Financial Experts provide a human touch, and why it matters.

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In this episode, Carey asks the question of whether we're selling church growth and marketing revival on social media.

As leaders, our motives are always mixed, and Carey offers a framework for checking our motives before posting on social media. Momentum doesn’t need marketing. Don’t sell it. Steward it.

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ART OF LEADERSHIP LIVE

If you’re leading a church and you know there’s more in you—and more ahead for your team—I want to personally invite you to something special.

September 21–23, 2026, I’m hosting The Art of Leadership LIVE in Nashville, Tennessee.

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STATE OF THE CHURCH

Stay up to date on what's happening in the church. Find current research, data, and other resources at stateofthechurch.com/carey

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The cultural moment we're in isn't just tense — it's a full convulsion, and it's landing in your church every Sunday. In this emergency panel episode, Ed Stetzer, Adam Mesa, and Sharon Hodde Miller debate when to speak up, when to be silent, how to deal with fallout, and how to pastor people in a deeply divided age.

This is the conversation many pastors are desperate to have but afraid to start.

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FUND THE FUTURE MASTERCLASS

What do you do when your finances feel stuck, and giving doesn't match the mission you see God calling you toward?

I helped create Fund the Future masterclass, alongside Craig Groeschel, Ashley Wooldridge, Chris Hodges, and others — a course built to help you move beyond transactional conversations about money and into a transformational culture of generosity.

Learn more at careynieuwhof.com/fundthefuture .

SUBSPLASH

Subsplash handles the tech you need so your church can lead the mission.

Listeners, you can go to subsplash.com/carey to get $500 when you sign up today.

SWITCHER STUDIOS

Want to take your church’s live stream to the next level, especially as you head into Easter?

Switcher lets you grab your iPhones, iPads, and cameras, sync them together, and switch between angles live without complicated gear.

Add scripture, lyrics, and graphics on screen to keep your congregation engaged and stream to your website and all the major social media platforms at once.

Get an additional $5 off at checkout when you use the code “carey5”.

Want to take your church’s live stream to the next level, especially as you head into Easter?

Switcher lets you grab your iPhones, iPads, and cameras, sync them together, and switch between angles live without complicated gear.

Add scripture, lyrics, and graphics on screen to keep your congregation engaged and stream to your website and all the major social media platforms at once.

Get an additional $5 off at checkout when you use the code “carey5”.

Visit switcherstudio.com/carey to learn more.

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Life.Church Senior Pastor Craig Groeschel and his therapist, Dr. Wayne Chappelle, join Carey to talk about a wall Craig hit in ministry, that he thought might k*ll him.

They discuss what was at stake, how he got through it, what happens to leaders who don't take action, and how Craig recovered fully from what almost took him out.

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FUND THE FUTURE MASTERCLASS

Craig and I created Fund the Future Masterclass — a course built to help you move beyond transactional conversations about money and into a transformational culture of generosity.

If you want to grow in a way that lasts, visit careynieuwhof.com/fundthefuture.

CHURCH LAW & TAX

Church Law & Tax is a trusted online resource that equips pastors and church leaders with expert guidance on legal, tax, and other compliance issues churches face every day.

Sign up for their free weekly newsletter at ChurchLawAndTax.com.

ONE ACCORD

OneAccord is an AI-based translation platform designed exclusively for the local church. With over 50 languages available, their subscription plans start at $150 a month.

Our listeners get a free trial at oneaccord.ai/carey !

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Patrick Lencioni opens up about his dark night of the soul and his recent five-month sabbatical.

Plus, we discuss how we go to work to heal and the joys and challenges of leading next-gen leaders.

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HAYSTACK

Haystack is an AI-powered search engine for everything you've ever preached. Your congregation can ask real questions like “Why does God allow suffering?” and get answers from their pastor.

Book your demo by grabbing a spot on their calendar at thehaystack.ai. Mention this podcast and they'll import your sermon library for free. You'll see how it works with your own content before committing to anything.

THE ART OF LEADERSHIP LIVE

September 21–23, 2026, I’m hosting The Art of Leadership LIVE in Nashville, Tennessee.

If you’ve been thinking about applying, now is the time. Once Super Early Bird pricing expires, rates go up for good.

Visit theartofleadershiplive.com to secure the best pricing.

GLOO CONTENT STUDIO

Gloo Content Studio is designed around one simple idea: one message can power a whole week of ministry.

Reclaim your Mondays and extend the impact of your preaching at gloo.com/carey.

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Henry Cloud explains why leadership is not lonely, or at least, shouldn't be.

Plus, we discuss why founders hang on too long and why leaders have far more control than you think!

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THE ART OF LEADERSHIP LIVE

September 21–23, 2026, I’m hosting The Art of Leadership LIVE in Nashville, Tennessee.

If you’ve been thinking about applying, now is the time. Once Super Early Bird pricing expires, rates go up for good.

Visit theartofleadershiplive.com to secure the best pricing.

GLOO CONTENT STUDIO

Gloo Content Studio is designed around one simple idea: one message can power a whole week of ministry.

Reclaim your Mondays and extend the impact of your preaching at gloo.com/carey.

BELAY

Get Belay's, The Future of Financial Leadership, for free.

This guide discusses when AI can save you time, when human insight is non-negotiable, and how to balance the two effectively across your financial operations.

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