Making new friends in your 40s and 50s? Not as easy as it sounds. We’re craving adventure, fun, and people who actually want to do things — but where are they? From snooker and golf to cocktails and afternoon teas, this is our honest take on trying to find genuine friendships that fit the life we want. Funny, raw, and real — just how we like it.

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We're not sure if we're getting older... or if everyone around us is just becoming more annoying. In this episode, we dive into classic ageing signs (aches, forgetfulness, flabby bits 😂), rant about people getting offended over everything, and ask the real question: do we care less now... or is the world just more chaotic?Expect banter, brutal honesty, and real couple chaos — as always.

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We’ve reached a point where you can’t say anything without someone getting offended. In this episode, we’re talking about cancel culture, the pressure to keep everyone happy, and how it’s silencing real people with real stories. From family judgment to social media trolls, this conversation is raw, honest, and probably what a lot of you have been thinking but were too afraid to say.

We're not trying to offend — just trying to talk.

Why don’t men talk about what’s really on their minds? In this episode, we get into why guys struggle to open up, what stops them from being vulnerable, and what’s actually going on in their heads. My wife pushes me to be real about my own thoughts, and we break down the unspoken rules that hold men back from speaking out. It’s an honest, raw, and eye-opening conversation about how men really feel.

Does getting older freak you out? In this episode, we get real about what it actually feels like to be in your 40s and 50s—the good, the bad, and everything in between. From confidence shifts to the pressure of beauty standards, we talk about how aging changes your perspective and what really matters. If you’ve ever worried about getting older, this conversation might just change how you see it.

Why do we feel the need to be someone we’re not just to fit in? In this episode, we dive deep into the struggles of staying authentic in a world that constantly pressures us to conform. As a couple who has built a life together—married for 26 years, raising four kids, and navigating careers, success, and challenges—we’ve learned that being yourself is the key to happiness. From dealing with self-doubt and people-pleasing to balancing personal goals and relationships, we share our real-life experiences and lessons on embracing who you truly are.

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On this episode of It Isn’t Easy, we dive deep into the topic of hyper independence and why it happens. Have you ever felt like you couldn’t rely on anyone and had to handle everything yourself? In this conversation, we break down the difference between healthy independence and hyper independence, how past trauma can shape your behavior, and the emotional cost of doing it all alone. Plus, we share our personal stories of how this has affected our relationship and what we’re doing to heal. If you feel like you’ve been carrying the weight on your own, this episode is for you! Tune in to discover the signs of hyper independence and how to create a healthier balance in your life.

Ever felt like you had no help, no support, and no role models to guide you?

We’ve been there. No shortcuts, no handouts—just hard lessons and growth. In this episode, we share how we built ourselves up, strengthened our relationship, and found our path without the support most people take for granted.

✔ The Power of Role Models – Why we all need them (even if we never had any).
✔ Breaking Free from People-Pleasing – How we stopped living for others and started living for us.
✔ Taking Your Relationship Off Autopilot – Why so many couples drift apart without realizing it.
✔ When Life Doesn’t Go to Plan – How to shift your mindset and grow, no matter what.

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