• 240 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 6: Appreciation is Spoken
    Oct 6 2025

    What does a healthy relationship look and function like? That’s the focus of this 7-part series. The goal is to paint an accurate and aspirational picture of how two people behave in a conscious, loving relationship by discussing the seven components of heathy intimacy.

    In this episode, you’ll learn the sixth component of healthy intimacy: Appreciation.

    In great relationships, appreciation is not just felt, it’s verbally spoken. But it’s more than saying “thank you” or “I appreciate you.” It’s seeing beyond a person’s mere actions, to seeing the heart, intention and motivation that produced those actions.

    To truly see a person and then find the words to express what you see is a profound skill that must be learned and mastered if we want great relationships.

    This is a very important and complicated issue, so don’t miss this episode!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 4 Books:

    · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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  • 239 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 5: Agreements are Kept
    Sep 29 2025

    What does a healthy relationship look and function like? That’s the focus of this 7-part series. The goal is to paint an accurate and aspirational picture of how two people behave in a conscious, loving relationship by discussing the seven components of heathy intimacy.

    In this episode, you’ll learn the fifth component of healthy intimacy: Agreements.

    The secret sauce of great relationships is trust. But don’t tell yourself that trust is a complicated or complex thing. It isn’t. Trust is the easiest thing in the world to build and maintain. All we need to do is make and keep clear agreements. That’s it! It’s as easy as that. But far too many of us lack this kind of integrity and it’s largely why we struggle in relationships.

    This episode explores why that is, so don’t miss it.

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Christina Wyman’s Article on Marriage: https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/taylor-swift-travis-kelce-engagement-marriage-rcna228293

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 4 Books:

    · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    48 m
  • 237 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 4: Affection is Felt
    Sep 22 2025

    What does a healthy relationship look and function like? That’s the focus of this 7-part series. The goal is to paint an accurate and aspirational picture of how two people behave in a conscious, loving relationship by discussing the seven components of heathy intimacy.

    In this episode, you’ll learn the fourth component of healthy intimacy: Affection.

    One of the signs that a relationship is healthy is that there is a lot of physical affection. There is touching, kissing, holding, hugging, and of course, sexing. And in this episode, you’ll hear all about affection and sex while dating as well as how it occurs in an established relationship.

    This is a very important and complicated issue to understand, so don’t miss this episode!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 4 Books:

    · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    49 m
  • 236 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 3: Authenticity is Expressed
    Sep 15 2025

    What does a healthy relationship look and function like? That’s the focus of this 7-part series. The goal is to paint an accurate and aspirational picture of how two people behave in a conscious, loving relationship by discussing the seven components of heathy intimacy.

    In this episode, you’ll learn the third component of healthy intimacy: Authenticity.

    One of the hallmarks of a great relationship, is that each person in the relationship not only is aware of what’s going on inside themselves, but they are also committed to being completely open and honest about it. There is no half-truth, no withholding, no concealing. The two are completely “naked” before one another.

    This is a very important and complicated issue to understand, so don’t miss this episode!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 4 Books:

    · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    1 h
  • 238 Who Killed Charlie Kirk? (It's not who they say it is.)
    Sep 12 2025

    In this special edition of the podcast, Roy Biancalana, our host, shares important information on who actually killed Charlie Kirk.

    It's not some college kid dressed in black wearing a baseball cap. No, the assasination was done by a far more sinister and scary group of people.

    Tune into this short, 18-minute episode because the future of your life and our country just might depend on it.

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  • 235 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 2: Acceptance is Given
    Sep 8 2025

    What does a healthy relationship look and function like? That’s the focus of this 7-part series. The goal is to paint an accurate and aspirational picture of how two people behave in a conscious, loving relationship by discussing the seven components of heathy intimacy.

    In this episode, you’ll learn the second component of healthy intimacy: Acceptance.

    In great relationships, the atmosphere is permeated with unconditional love and acceptance. The couple is not trying to change or control each other because they love each other as they are. However, that doesn’t mean everything is tolerated or that there are no boundaries.

    This is a very important and complicated issue to understand, so don’t miss this episode!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 4 Books:

    · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    55 m
  • 234 The 7 Components of Healthy Intimacy, Pt. 1: Alignment is Shared
    Sep 1 2025

    Frequently on this podcast, Roy Biancalana, our host, focuses on the beliefs, blind spots, baggage and behaviors that sabotage our ability to attract lasting love. That’s because, as the mystic poet Rumi said nearly 800 years ago, “Your task is not to seek love, but instead, to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.” So, it’s appropriate to talk about the barriers that keep us single.

    But that’s not the focus of this 7-part series.

    Here you will learn how a healthy relationship functions. The goal is to paint an accurate and aspirational picture of how two people behave in a conscious, loving relationship by discussing the seven components of heathy intimacy.

    In this episode, you’ll learn the first — and most important — component: Alignment. Great relationships are aligned when it comes to their purpose, lifestyle and commitments.

    Don’t miss this episode!

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 4 Books:

    · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    51 m
  • 233 When to Walk Away: Thoughts on When (and how!) To End a Relationship
    Aug 25 2025

    When Kenny Rogers sang, “You gotta know when to hold ‘em, know when to fold ‘em; know when to walk away, know when to run,” he was talking about gambling and playing cards. But little did he know that he was also giving some great relationship advice, too!

    We all need to know when to hold on to someone and when to let them go, when to walk away from a relationship and when to run. So, in this episode, Roy explores when to end a relationship and how to do it in the most conscious way possible.

    There is some valuable wisdom offered, so don’t miss it.

    Additional Resources Roy may have mentioned on the show:

    Roy’s Website: https://coachingwithroy.com

    Roy’s Relationship Fitness Self-Assessment Test: https://coachingwithroy.com/the-relationship-fitness-self-test/

    Roy’s 4 Books:

    · Quantum Questions: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0F4RFZBS3/

    · Relationship Bootcamp: https://amzn.to/360UsMR

    · Attracting Lasting Love: http://amzn.to/1UnYeYh

    · A Drink with Legs: https://amzn.to/31UBl3K

    Roy’s Group Coaching Program: https://coachingwithroy.com/group-coaching/

    Roy’s Complimentary 45-min. Coaching Session: To set up an appointment, email him at roy@coachingwithroy.com or call his cell 407-687-3387.

    The Attracting Lasting Love podcast explores the dynamics of mature and adult dating, delving into the issues of emotional intelligence, the law of attraction, and the quest for a life partner or soulmate, while offering conscious insights and mindful advice on navigating modern relationships.

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    1 h