Behind every bestselling psychology book is a story and a person. But what does it take to build a fulfilling psychology career and balance it with family life, writing, and impact beyond the therapy room? In this 199th episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Dr Marianne Trent is joined by Dr Martha Deiros Collado, clinical psychologist and author of The Smartphone Solution and How to Be the Grown-Up.

Martha shares her inspiring journey from struggling to secure AP posts to thriving in paediatrics, leaving the NHS after 12 years, and now combining private practice, public psychology, and authorship. We explore training, family therapy, multidisciplinary teamwork, resilience, and why perseverance pays off for aspiring psychologists.

Whether you’re applying for AP roles, preparing for training, or curious about career journeys in psychology, this episode is packed with learning, encouragement, and real-world insight.

This episode is filled with inspiration, resilience, and lessons for aspiring psychologists about perseverance, identity, and finding your own path — a perfect lead-in to the upcoming 200th episode celebrations!

#PsychologyCareer #AspiringPsychologist #ClinicalPsychology

⏱️ Highlights & Timestamps:

• 00:00 – Introducing Dr Martha Deiros Collado and her journey into psychology
• 01:14 – From wanting to be a doctor to discovering psychology
• 03:11 – University, first interests in forensics and health psychology
• 04:53 – Early AP role in paediatrics: epilepsy, brain injury, and brain surgery
• 05:53 – Training placements: psychodynamic year, CBT, and paediatrics at UCLH
• 07:45 – Discovering family therapy and blending approaches
• 08:42 – How children and families shaped her values and practice
• 10:49 – Leaving the NHS after 12 years: supervision, caseloads, and lessons learned
• 12:39 – Loving the work: privilege, variety, and the power of stories
• 14:26 – Balancing private practice, motherhood, and self-care
• 15:39 – Struggles with securing AP posts, honorary roles, and resilience
• 17:15 – Why unpaid roles were problematic and perseverance matters
• 19:08 – Courage to change paths: friends who retrained in other professions
• 20:58 – Valuing all roles in multidisciplinary teams
• 22:13 – Martha’s books: How to Be the Grown-Up and The Smartphone Solution
• 25:02 – Where to follow Dr Martha online
• 25:46 – Reflections on consultation, public psychology, and widening impact
• 26:46 – Thank you and a look ahead to episode 200 celebrations

Check out Dr Martha's previous episode talking about smartphone boundaries: https://player.captivate.fm/episode/5342ebb9-2735-45e5-ade3-db687c4fa249/ or on YouTube: https://youtu.be/mRs709Omu0o?si=VJTZzozXi5HpQIBv

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Have you ever carried a feeling that made you believe you were broken, unworthy, or unlovable? That’s the voice of shame but it doesn’t have to define you. In this follow-up to Episode 1 (“What Is Shame?”), Clinical Psychologist Dr Marianne Trent shares the practical, evidence-based strategies that help people recover from shame and rebuild their self-worth.

From naming and externalising shame, to tracing its roots, cultivating self-compassion, and rewriting your personal narrative, this episode is full of actionable tools you can use to loosen shame’s grip. You’ll also hear the next chapters in the fictional case studies of Amina and James, showing how recovery can look in real life.

Whether you’re an aspiring psychologist, a mental health professional, or someone on your own healing journey, you’ll come away with fresh insight and hope that shame can be transformed.

Timestamps

• 00:00 – Welcome and recap of “What Is Shame?”
• 00:35 – Why naming shame is the first step to healing
• 01:22 – Tracing shame’s roots in your life
• 02:05 – Fictional case study updates: James and Amina
• 04:04 – The role of self-compassion in shame recovery
• 05:15 – How safe relationships support healing
• 06:02 – Practical tools for loosening shame’s grip
• 07:18 – Writing a new personal narrative
• 08:22 – Final thoughts and encouragement

#ShameRecovery #MentalHealthTips #SelfCompassion #OvercomingShame #PsychologyPodcast

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🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses

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Thinking about becoming a CBT therapist but not sure where to start? In this episode of The Aspiring Psychologist Podcast, Dr Marianne Trent is joined by Sahana, a qualified CBT therapist, to explore the full pathway from PWP training to becoming a band 7 CBT therapist.

You’ll discover how the training works, what qualifications you need, and what life is really like during and after the course. From the reality of supervision and showing recorded sessions, to understanding the KSA portfolio and career progression opportunities, this episode offers an honest, practical guide to help you decide if CBT is the right path for you.

#CBTTherapist #PsychologyCareers #MentalHealthProfessionals #CognitiveBehaviouralTherapy #AspiringPsychologist

⏱️ Highlights & Timestamps:

• 00:00 – Introduction: Why CBT is a popular career path
• 01:26 – Sahana’s journey from psychology degree to CBT therapist
• 02:14 – Applying for trainee CBT roles & the KSA portfolio explained
• 04:44 – How training is funded: salary, fees, and structure
• 05:11 – Teaching blocks, supervision, and learning from experts
• 07:08 – The role of supervisors and why support is vital
• 08:02 – Group supervision & showing recorded sessions
• 10:07 – Why recordings feel daunting but are essential for growth
• 11:55 – Assessments, essays, case reports & the CTSR marking system
• 13:16 – Cohort support, peer networks & leaning on each other
• 14:55 – Training structure: 2 days university, 3 days placement
• 15:25 – Qualifying as a band 7 & what the role looks like
• 16:22 – Balancing face-to-face, remote, and group therapy work
• 18:06 – Career progression: senior CBT roles & moving into doctorates
• 19:49 – Why CBT training can be an empowering foundation for your career
• 20:42 – Wrapping up: reflections & resources

Links:

🫶 To support me by donating to help cover my costs for the free resources I provide click here: https://the-aspiring-psychologist.captivate.fm/support

📚 To check out The Clinical Psychologist Collective Book: https://amzn.to/3jOplx0

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💡 To check out or join the aspiring psychologist membership for just £30 per month head to: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/membership-interested

🖥️ Check out my brand new short courses for aspiring psychologists and mental health professionals here: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/short-courses

✍️ Get your Supervision Shaping Tool now: https://www.goodthinkingpsychology.co.uk/supervision

📱Connect socially with Marianne and check out ways to work with her, including the Aspiring Psychologist Book, Clinical Psychologist book and The Aspiring Psychologist Membership on her Link tree: https://linktr.ee/drmariannetrent

💬 To join my free Facebook group and discuss your thoughts on this episode and more: https://www.facebook.com/groups/aspiringpsychologistcommunity

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