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Ep. 162: When I Stopped Trying to Be Neurotypical, Everything Changed + How I Found My Confidence For Realies

🎧Welcome back to The ADHD Entrepreneu(Her)—THE podcast for feral AF ADHD women who refuse to play by the fucking rules.

Confidence isn’t about being the loudest in the room—it’s about knowing exactly who the fuck you are, even when no one’s clapping. In this episode, I’m sharing what actually builds confidence for ADHD women in business—and it’s not fake-it-til-you-make-it bullshit, a polished brand photo, or a louder CTA.

I’ll walk you through the moments that cracked my own confidence wide open—and the practical shifts that helped me step into leadership with zero performative energy.

If you’ve been second-guessing, shrinking, or showing up halfway because you’re still scared to be seen, this is your invitation to knock that shit off and FINALLY have your own back. For real.

🦄 What you’ll learn:

🌶️ Why confidence has nothing to do with volume
🌶️ The moment I realized I was still hiding—and what happened when I stopped
🌶️ A question from a client that helped me FINALLY rip my last masks off
🌶️ How to know if your “visibility problem” is actually something deeper
🌶️ What I did behind the scenes that skyrocketed my self-trust
🌶️ The type of investment that paid off 10x—and the kind that didn’t
🌶️ A radical reframe that makes confidence inevitable (yep, even for you)
🌶️ How to speak with authority without sounding like a dick
🌶️ What happened when I stopped trying to be neurotypical or “fix” what was “broken”

📲 Available on Apple, Spotify and YOUTUBE!!
If you loved the episode, subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and come back every WEDNESDAY for a brand new episode.

I see you. I love you. I’m rooting for you. Always. Stay feral.

Ways to connect with me:

• Free Resource! The Feral CEO’s Business Audit - Boundaries + Capacity + Simplicity. INSTANT ACCESS HERE!

• Become an INSIDER -- The Love Note delivered to your inbox weekly (I don't do boring newsletters -- not in my DNA, bb!): CLICK HERE

• THE NEUROSPICY SISTERHOOD: Join this one-of-a-kind sisterhood of late-life diagnosed ADHD women in business like you! Check out the nitty gritty HERE!

• Instagram: @karrieoutloud
• My Website: www.karrieoutloud.com
• My DIRECT Email : karrielemansky@gmail.com (you will not get an assistant -- it's me!)

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🎧Welcome back to The ADHD Entrepreneu(Her)—THE podcast for feral AF ADHD women who refuse to play by the fucking rules.

Thinking of hiring a new coach? This episode is a checklist of questions that most people are too afraid to ask before investing thousands. But not you.

I’m breaking down the questions every ADHD woman in business should be asking before hiring a coach, mentor, strategist, or guide. These questions will help you protect your time, energy, and money, and make sure you’re choosing someone who actually GETS you and your brain.

Real talk: you don’t need a coach who’s just loud on Instagram with a pretty brand and good marketing skills. You need someone who can actually help you grow a business that works for you—not one that gaslights you into grinding harder

🦄 What you’ll learn:

🌶️ The question that reveals more than any sales page ever will
🌶️ A green flag most people overlook (but will change everything)
🌶️ The sneaky reason you might not feel safe raising your hand
🌶️ Why your gut already knows and how to stop ignoring it
🌶️ What to look for in someone who actually understands your brain
🌶️ A litmus test that separates real mentorship from fake authority
🌶️ One simple way to avoid wasting thousands on the wrong fit
🌶️ The difference between support and shame (and how to spot it early)
🌶️ How to make the smartest, most self-honoring decision before you invest

📲 Available on Apple, Spotify and YOUTUBE!!
If you loved the episode, subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and come back every WEDNESDAY for a brand new episode.

I see you. I love you. I’m rooting for you. Always. Stay feral.

Ways to connect with me:

• Free Resource! The Feral CEO’s Business Audit - Boundaries + Capacity + Simplicity. INSTANT ACCESS HERE!

• Become an INSIDER -- The Love Note delivered to your inbox weekly (I don't do boring newsletters -- not in my DNA, bb!): CLICK HERE

• THE NEUROSPICY SISTERHOOD: Join this one-of-a-kind sisterhood of late-life diagnosed ADHD women in business like you! Check out the nitty gritty HERE!

• Instagram: @karrieoutloud
• My Website: www.karrieoutloud.com
• My DIRECT Email : karrielemansky@gmail.com (you will not get an assistant -- it's me!)

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🎧Welcome back to The ADHD Entrepreneu(Her)—THE podcast for feral AF ADHD women who refuse to play by the fucking rules.

This episode is part strategy and part real talk. First, I’m walking you through how to turn a brand-new follower into a full-blown client in three posts flat.

Then I’m having a little heart-to-heart with you around what happens when the people around you just don’t get your vision and why you choose to own a business, because it is not a “sure thing.”

If you’ve ever questioned your growth, felt unseen in your big dreams, or needed a reminder of how fucking far you’ve come… this one’s for you, boo.

🦄 What you’ll learn:
🌶️ A simple 3-post strategy that changes everything (that most of my clients are missing when they hire me)

🌶️ The reason your content might still be cockblocking your client flow
🌶️ What to do when the people around you don’t believe in your vision
🌶️ A new lens for looking at that idea that won’t leave you alone
🌶️ What happens when you finally stop editing yourself
🌶️ A bold challenge to help you step outside your box today
🌶️ How to recognize when it’s time to set yourself free (for real this time)

📲 Available on Apple, Spotify and YOUTUBE!!
If you loved the episode, subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and come back every WEDNESDAY for a brand new episode.

I see you. I love you. I’m rooting for you. Always. Stay feral.

Ways to connect with me:

• Free Resource! The Feral CEO’s Business Audit - Boundaries + Capacity + Simplicity. INSTANT ACCESS HERE!

• Become an INSIDER -- The Love Note delivered to your inbox weekly (I don't do boring newsletters -- not in my DNA, bb!): CLICK HERE

• THE NEUROSPICY SISTERHOOD: Join this one-of-a-kind sisterhood of late-life diagnosed ADHD women in business like you! Check out the nitty gritty HERE!

• Instagram: @karrieoutloud
• My Website: www.karrieoutloud.com
• My DIRECT Email : karrielemansky@gmail.com (you will not get an assistant -- it's me!)

We're Replaying One of THE Most Important Episodes I’ve Ever Recorded — Episode 100.

If you’re new here, this is the one to listen to.
If you’ve been here a while, listen again — I promise it’ll hit different the second time around.

This was a milestone. Not just because it was my 100th episode, but because I took you all the way behind the scenes of how I built this business, got diagnosed with ADHD in my late 40s, and completely unmasked in real time — publicly, awkwardly, and audaciously.

I walk you through:

• How I built and burned down businesses before I even knew I was neurodivergent
• What it actually took to build a business that finally fit my brain
• The grief, rage, and relief that came with a late ADHD diagnosis
• Why I stopped forcing myself into business advice that wasn’t made for brains like mine
• The exact moment I realized I wanted to build my own damn table — and invite all of YOU to it.

Plus: the spicy story of how I grilled my doctor after he refused to refer me for ADHD testing. (Spoiler: don’t come for me with TikTok nonsense.)

This episode is the unfiltered, unapologetic map of how I got here — not just in business, but in finally understanding me.

If you’ve ever wondered if it gets better… it does. But only if you build it your way.

PS: I see you. I love you. I’m rooting for you. Now hit play, unicorn.

PPS: Stay weird. Stay magical. Don’t let anyone tell you there’s only one right way to do business — especially if they don’t even GET your spicy brain.

Ways to connect with me:

• Free Resource! The Feral CEO’s Business Audit - Boundaries + Capacity + Simplicity. INSTANT ACCESS HERE!

• Become an INSIDER -- The Love Note delivered to your inbox weekly (I don't do boring newsletters -- not in my DNA, bb!): CLICK HERE

• THE NEUROSPICY SISTERHOOD: Join this one-of-a-kind sisterhood of late-life diagnosed ADHD women in business like you! Check out the nitty gritty HERE!

• Instagram: @karrieoutloud
• My Website: www.karrieoutloud.com
• My DIRECT Email : karrielemansky@gmail.com (you will not get an assistant -- it's me!)

SIMPLIFICATION Starts HERE - Free Resource:CLICK HERE to grab my The Feral CEO’s Business Audit - Boundaries, Capacity, Simplification

🎧Welcome back to The ADHD Entrepreneu(Her)—THE podcast for feral AF ADHD women who refuse to play by the fucking rules.

This episode was recorded on impulse, because sometimes the best shit comes when you're lit up and raw.

After listening to a client’s podcast, I had to sit down and speak directly to something I’ve never said quite like this before. I’m unpacking a few of the deeper reasons that my coaching style works for ADHD women, how it’s evolved, and why your own way of doing things matters more than you think.

This one’s for the woman who’s done being told what to do—and finally wants to feel seen, safe, guided, lead, AND supported in a way that actually lands.

🦄 What you’ll hear:

🌶️ Why your own evolution matters more than your certifications

🌶️ The unexpected place real coaching transformations begin
🌶️ A subtle shift that changes everything for late-diagnosed women
🌶️ What I stopped doing that finally made it all click
🌶️ How I build safety without coddling
🌶️ Why I don’t believe in “one size fits all” (and what I do instead)
🌶️ The difference between being in your business vs. being all up in it
🌶️ The question I ask myself before every client call—and why you should too

📲 Available on Apple, Spotify and YOUTUBE (don’t forget to subscribe!!)

Loved this episode? Leave a 5-star review on Apple, and come back every WEDNESDAY for a brand new episode.

I see you. I love you. I’m rooting for you. Always. Stay unfiltered + feral.

Ways to connect with me:

• Free Resource! The Feral CEO’s Business Audit - Boundaries + Capacity + Simplicity. INSTANT ACCESS HERE!

• Become an INSIDER -- The Love Note delivered to your inbox weekly (I don't do boring newsletters -- not in my DNA, bb!): CLICK HERE

• THE NEUROSPICY SISTERHOOD: Join this one-of-a-kind sisterhood of late-life diagnosed ADHD women in business like you! Check out the nitty gritty HERE!

• Instagram: @karrieoutloud
• My Website: www.karrieoutloud.com
• My DIRECT Email : karrielemansky@gmail.com (you will not get an assistant -- it's me!)

SIMPLIFICATION Starts HERE - Free Resource: CLICK HERE to grab my The Feral CEO’s Business Audit - Boundaries, Capacity, Simplification

🎧 Welcome back to The ADHD Entrepreneu(Her)—THE podcast for feral AF ADHD women who refuse to play by the fucking rules.

It’s Coffee Talk time again, and this week’s guest is my friend and fellow wild woman, Abby Bradetich, the bold AF brand + web designer and content coach behind Illuminescence Creations. She is all about online presence and this discussion is fucking FIRE. If you have been needing to step into your online presence in a way that actually feels like YOU—and we had a fuck-ton to say about being real online, simplifying your content, and throwing out every rule that doesn’t serve your ooey, gooey energy dripping out of it everywhere.

We talk business. We talk brand. And we both agree: you don’t need to water yourself down to be taken seriously—you need to be all of who you are – louder.

🦄 What you’ll walk away with:

🌶️ The shit sandwich no one tells you you’re already eating

🌶️ The unexpected thing that made business feel easier overnight

🌶️ How to know if your brand is actually cock-blocking your conversions

🌶️ The ADHD-friendly mindset shift that changes everything

🌶️ Why your copy might be a fluffer for your competitors (and what to do about it)

🌶️ What no one tells you about embodiment

🌶️ The one question to ask if you have no idea what you’re known for

🌶️ Why your next best strategy is probably hiding in your DMs

📲 Available on Apple, Spotify and YOUTUBE!! If you loved the episode, subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and come back every WEDNESDAY for a brand new episode. I see you. I love you. I’m rooting for you. Always. Stay feral.

CONTACT ABBY HERE:

Website: https://illuminessencecreations.com/

Instagram: CLICK HERE

Ways to connect with me:

• Free Resource! The Feral CEO’s Business Audit - Boundaries + Capacity + Simplicity. INSTANT ACCESS HERE!

• Become an INSIDER -- The Love Note delivered to your inbox weekly (I don't do boring newsletters -- not in my DNA, bb!): CLICK HERE

• THE NEUROSPICY SISTERHOOD: Join this one-of-a-kind sisterhood of late-life diagnosed ADHD women in business like you! Check out the nitty gritty HERE!

• Instagram: @karrieoutloud
• My Website: www.karrieoutloud.com
• My DIRECT Email : karrielemansky@gmail.com (you will not get an assistant -- it's me!)

SIMPLIFICATION Starts HERE - Free Resource: CLICK HERE to grab my The Feral CEO’s Business Audit - Boundaries, Capacity, Simplification

🎧 Welcome back to The ADHD Entrepreneu(Her)—THE podcast for feral late-diagnosed ADHD women who refuse to play by the fucking rules.

In this episode, I’m sharing the honest, unfiltered reality behind “looking like you’ve got it all together”—because spoiler: I still get hit with doubts, fears, and imposter syndrome too. This one's for the business sisters building in the messy middle, wondering if they're the only ones. (You're not.)

🦄 What you’ll hear inside this episode:

🌶️ The truth about what “having it all together” really looks like behind the scenes

🌶️ A personal moment that sparked a major shift in how I show up as a coach

🌶️ How ADHD women secretly crave structure—but on our own terms

🌶️ The one mindset shift that made everything feel more spacious

🌶️ What I do differently than most coaches (and why my clients love it)

🌶️ How one 90-minute session gave my badass client her entire upgrade plan

🌶️ The reason I refuse to let you burn your business down (even when you want to)

Whether you’re building your shit on the side at 4am or are already full-time in your business, this episode is a must-listen reminder that you’re not behind—you’re right on time.

You’re just getting started, and you’re not burning it down.

📲 Available on Apple, Spotify and YOUTUBE!!
If you loved the episode, subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and come back every WEDNESDAY for a brand new episode.

I see you. I love you. I’m rooting for you. Always. Stay feral. 🪩🦄🌶️

Ways to connect with me:

• Free Resource! The Feral CEO’s Business Audit - Boundaries + Capacity + Simplicity. INSTANT ACCESS HERE!

• Become an INSIDER -- The Love Note delivered to your inbox weekly (I don't do boring newsletters -- not in my DNA, bb!): CLICK HERE

• THE NEUROSPICY SISTERHOOD: Join this one-of-a-kind sisterhood of late-life diagnosed ADHD women in business like you! Check out the nitty gritty HERE!

• Instagram: @karrieoutloud
• My Website: www.karrieoutloud.com
• My DIRECT Email : karrielemansky@gmail.com (you will not get an assistant -- it's me!)