That's Not What I Said: The Quiet Art of Listening

What if better communication isn’t about saying more — but saying it with care?
In this warm, funny episode of Embers After Midnight, Alex reflects on 36 years of marriage, four very opinionated dogs, and the everyday art of listening. From leash-chaos diplomacy to “Gemini-approved” dog treats, she explores how humor, gratitude, and genuine curiosity can turn misunderstandings into moments of connection. Along the way, she shares three small but powerful conversations that remind her what really matters most — family, presence, and the courage to keep talking kindly.

Lighthearted, heartfelt, and perfectly imperfect — this one’s for anyone learning to build bridges instead of walls.

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