Dividing assets, managing debts, and securing your financial future—divorce comes with big financial questions, and getting the right advice early can make all the difference. In this episode, I sit down with Sharon Clark, a Chartered Financial Divorce Specialist (CFDS), to talk about how separating couples in British Columbia can navigate the financial side of divorce with confidence.

Sharon explains how a CFDS can help level the playing field, especially when one spouse has more financial knowledge than the other. She also shares insights on a CFDS's role in helping you consider the impacts of a settlement offer on your financial future, and how you can better understand your options going forward. If you’re going through a separation or you are counsel supporting clients who are, this conversation will help you decide if and when a CFDS is needed to help with those trickier financial family law issues.

• [00:04:21] What is a Chartered Financial Divorce Specialist, and how do they help during separation?
• [00:07:10] Understanding financial abuse—how to recognize and address it
• [00:11:44] The financial disclosure process—what surprises often come up?
• [00:20:27] The hidden risks of prioritizing the family home over pensions and investments—what to consider before making this decision
• [00:26:39] How forensic accounting can help uncover hidden assets and income
• [00:37:42] Business owners and divorce—determining true income and valuation challenges
• [00:52:22] What banks consider before approving a mortgage after separation

• Why working with a CFDS in British Columbia can bring financial clarity and help avoid costly mistakes
• The long-term financial risks of prioritizing the family home over investments and pensions
• How financial transparency can make negotiations smoother and more balanced
• Why early financial planning can save time, money, and stress in the divorce process

If you’re facing financial uncertainty in your separation or want to understand how divorce finances work in BC, this episode will give you practical insights from a seasoned expert.

Click here for Sharon's bio and business page, Centric Financial.

Finding the right lawyer for your separation or divorce is a big decision, and choosing the wrong one can cost you time, money, and unnecessary stress. But how do you know who’s the best fit for your situation? And once you book that first meeting, how do you make sure you get real value from it?

In this episode, we’re tackling three key questions that will set you up for success:

• How do you find a lawyer who’s the best fit for you? We’ll break down where to look, what to consider, and why recommendations aren’t always enough.
• How can you prepare for your first meeting? From knowing what documents to bring to asking the right questions, we’ll help you show up prepared and avoid wasting billable hours.
• What should you expect from that first consultation? We’ll walk you through the process, explain how legal fees work, and discuss what to do if you don’t feel like the lawyer is the right match.

Plus, we’ll cover how to research a lawyer’s background (including checking for disciplinary actions through the Law Society and reviewing case history on CanLII).

Whether you’re just starting to explore your legal options or ready to book your first consultation, this episode will help you avoid costly mistakes, save time, and feel empowered in your decision-making.

🔗 Find links to all resources mentioned in the show notes at agosling.ca.

CLICK HERE for your FREE first meeting prep checklist!

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Co-parenting with a difficult ex can be incredibly challenging, but there’s a way to make things smoother. In this episode, I chat with John-Paul Boyd, KC, an accredited family law arbitrator, mediator, and parenting coordinator, to explain how a parenting coordinator can help in high-conflict situations.

John-Paul walks us through the role of a parenting coordinator—what they do, how they work with families, and when to consider hiring one. With his extensive experience, he offers valuable insights into how parenting coordinators can help you make decisions, manage conflicts, and bring structure to co-parenting relationships.

John-Paul’s expertise, along with real-world examples, will give you a better understanding of how this service can make a real difference in your co-parenting journey.

About John-Paul Boyd:
John-Paul Boyd is an accredited family law arbitrator, family law mediator, and parenting coordinator, a member of the bars of Alberta and British Columbia. John-Paul practiced family law in Vancouver for 14 years before taking a position as the executive director of the Canadian Research Institute for Law and the Family in 2013. He returned to private practice, providing services throughout Alberta and British Columbia in 2018 and was appointed Queen’s Counsel, now King’s Counsel, in 2019. John-Paul is a recipient of the Distinguished Service Award presented by the Law Society of Alberta and the CBA Alberta, the CBA’s national Pro Bono Service Award, the UBC Law Alumni Association’s Outstanding Young Alumnus Award, and the CBA British Columbia’s Pro Bono Award. He has been recognized by Best Lawyers in Canada since 2010.