Your favorite podcasters just celebrated their fourth wedding anniversary! Blow the confetti cannons, and prepare to get jealous because we're here talking about showering each other with love in its many forms. And we're talking about how too many relationships are based on being transactional, and what we think that can do to people and their outlooks on romance. It's amazing what you can learn about someone just by talking to them.

It's weird that these days a helping hand is so often met with cynicism, and even weirder that it's often offered with strings attached. What happened to lending some help, or even just some empathy, without keeping score? That's what we're talking about. It's amazing what you can learn about someone just by talking them.

Think about how many songs have been written about lying. Really, just think about it for a moment. ...Now, why do you think that's a thing? Because lies are everywhere! And they always have been, from Santa Claus to Watergate to telling someone they look fine in those jeans to NOT telling someone they have spinach in their teeth. Are they harmful? Are they harmless? Can they be either? Or both? That's what we're talking about. It's amazing what you can learn about someone just by talking to them.