Take Your F**king Foot Off the Gas!

When fear hits, most people push harder.

That instinct — to defend, explain, prove, or fight — is exactly what makes things worse.

In this episode, Joe shares a critical life lesson he learned from his father that applies directly to moments of panic at work, especially when conflict, resistance, or pressure show up unexpectedly.

You’ll learn why the first move isn’t steering or reacting; it’s removing the pressure. How slowing things down can instantly change the outcome of difficult conversations.

And why fear-driven environments aren’t personal — even when they feel that way.

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