Table Talk S4E2: Where People Speak From When They Try to Heal Others

Reality Check My Life | Table Talk | S4E2: Where People Speak From When They Try to Heal Others
Authority, Integration, and the Difference Between Volume and Coherence
Not all healing voices come from the same place.
And not all authority is the same kind of authority.
In this Table Talk, we explore a quieter but essential question in modern healing culture:
Where is someone speaking from in relation to their own wound?
This episode is not about diagnosing individuals or calling anyone out.
It’s about understanding transmission—how healing is felt, not just heard.
We look at:
why some voices feel stabilizing while others feel pressuring
the difference between speaking above the wound, inside the wound, and after integration
how culture and algorithms reward certainty and volume over coherence
why people are drawn to confident, directive voices during overwhelm
and how to practice discernment without dismissal or shame
This isn’t a purity test.
It isn’t about being “fully healed.”
And it isn’t about who’s right.
It’s about learning to listen for where a voice is coming from—and returning trust to your own nervous system.
Not every voice is meant to guide you.
Some steady.
Some walk beside.
And some simply show you where they are.
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