In this gripping episode of Surviving Toxic Relationships with Deana and Lizzie sit down with Ken Childs, a veteran Los Angeles private investigator whose 25-year career includes celebrity cases, criminal investigations, and exposing double lives.

Ken opens up about the rise of online deception, emotional cheating, and how narcissists use manipulation and control to hide their true selves. He shares insider tips on:

• How private investigators uncover hidden relationships and fraud.
• Why online “truth finder” apps often miss the real story.
• How to recognize early warning signs and trust your instincts.
• Simple steps to protect your identity, safety, and peace of mind in today’s digital dating world.

If you’ve ever questioned someone’s truth—or your own intuition—this episode will open your eyes.

Kenneth Childs, PI:

https://licensed-investigator.com

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In this deeply personal episode of Surviving Toxic Relationships, Lizzie shares her full story—one that spans faith, marriage, motherhood, religious abuse, emotional control, and survival.

From marrying young with the belief that God had ordained the relationship, to enduring years of infidelity, manipulation, and spiritual coercion, Lizzie opens up about what it means to love God deeply while living in a marriage that slowly eroded her safety, identity, and voice.

She shares the realities of:

• Religious abuse and misused Scripture
• Emotional control and walking on eggshells
• Staying “for the children” while losing yourself
• The moment fear became undeniable—and survival became necessary
• Rebuilding life as a single mother of four
• Discovering that not all abuse looks the same, even years later
• Finding clarity, community, and healing after toxic relationships

This episode also honors the power of motherhood, the long road of family healing, and the courage it takes to break generational cycles so that the next generation can live with discernment, freedom, and truth.

If you have ever questioned your faith because of a toxic relationship, felt torn between obedience and safety, or wondered if God could still redeem your story—this episode is for you.

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Episode 81: If you’ve ever dreamed of writing a book—or wondered if it’s too late—this inspiring episode is for you.

In this powerful conversation on Surviving Toxic Relationships, hosts Deana and Lizzie talk with Terry Whalin—author, editor, literary agent, and acquisitions editor at Morgan James Publishing—about how midlife can become the perfect time to tell your story, share your testimony, and transform your pain into purpose through writing.

Terry has written more than 60 books and worked with over 50 magazines, giving him a unique perspective on both sides of the editorial desk. Together, they explore how to publish your first book, how to choose between traditional, self, and hybrid publishing, and what it really takes to bring your story to life.

If you’ve come out of a toxic relationship, survived trauma, or simply feel called to write and leave a legacy—this episode will give you clarity, courage, and practical steps to begin.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• The three main publishing paths—and how to choose the right one for your goals
• Why midlife is the perfect time to write your story or memoir
• How to start with a strong book proposal that opens doors
• Common publishing myths that keep writers stuck
• How to use magazine writing and short stories to build your credibility
• Faith-based encouragement to turn your healing journey into purpose

Special Resources Mentioned:

• Free book proposal guide: BookProposals.ws
  
  
• Terry’s book 10 Publishing Myths with $200 in bonuses: PublishingOffer.com

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