Surviving Iraq and Beyond: Melissa Kilgore on Trauma, Creativity, and Finding Compassion -68

Ever wondered what it’s really like to be a woman serving in a war zone—and what battles rage on back home? This episode of Dog Tag Diaries brings you Melissa Kilgore’s powerful journey through military life, combat in Iraq, and the hidden challenges of military sexual trauma and family separation. Melissa reveals the costs of resilience, sharing how she rebuilt herself through creativity and art after surviving deep loss and disappointment. From strict military roots to grappling with transition and mental health, Melissa’s story sheds light on the realities female veterans face.

If you’re searching for authentic stories of survival, healing, and hope—or if you want to learn more about veterans’ mental health, creative therapy, and military family dynamics—tune in for a look at the human side of service that rarely makes headlines.

Melissa Kilgore was born in Spokane, Washington, and spent much of her childhood in Europe as an Air Force brat. A single mother of three by age 24, she worked multiple jobs—including with American Airlines—while pursuing her education. At 31, she joined the U.S. Army, later earning a bachelor’s degree in International Affairs with honors and a second degree in Art Practices.

Now based in Portland, Melissa continues to seek meaningful and challenging work while pursuing her passion to become a full-time artist.

Connect with Melissa:

Instagram - @mlk_studio_us

Website - www.mlkstudio.us

Read her writing - A Woman Turning 55

Kim Liszka served in the United States Army/Reserves as a Combat Medic, Combat Nurse, Flight Nurse Instructor and one of the Top Female athletes in the Army. Kim worked 20+ years as an ER nurse and decided to explore the world as a travel nurse. She's an Advanced Wilderness Expedition Provider and Chief Medical Officer for numerous endurance/survival expeditions in different countries. Kim has a son, Jace and a daughter in law, Sammy and 2 grand animals, Joey & Bear. Her dog Camo is her best buddy. Camo is the sweetest yellow Labrador Retriever to walk this earth. He loves licking snow, riding the ocean waves, visiting carnivore food trucks and loves belly rubs and treats. Fun Facts: Kim's lived in the Reality TV World! Fear Factor, American Ninja Warrior-Military Edition, American Tarzan, Spartan Namibia and more to come!

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