We explore how understanding neurodiversity can strengthen love, reduce conflict, and turn differences into design features rather than deficits. Dr. Matthew Zakresky shares science, stories, and practical tools to navigate communication, sensory needs, and executive function in marriage.

• one in five partners as neurodivergent and why it matters
• brain differences in form and function backed by scans
• direct versus indirect communication and meta-communication
• sensory needs at events, home, and intimacy
• “easy is hard, hard is easy” executive function gaps
• introvert–extrovert energy and risk–reward lenses
• assuming positive intent and separating intent from impact
• strengths focus, loyalty, creativity, and info-dumping as intimacy
• designing interdependence and interest-based community
• statistical thinking to normalize conflict and repair
• actionable adaptations voice memos, checklists, environment fit
• resources and where to find Dr. Matt’s work

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Dr. Dave Schramm:

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Dr. Liz Hale:

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We trace how childhood attachment styles shape sexual desire, arousal, and closeness in marriage, and why couples get stuck in the sex standoff. Mark Cameron shares practical steps to earn secure attachment and turn emotional safety into better intimacy.

• Key gender differences in arousal and desire
• The sex standoff and how it spirals
• Quick primer on attachment theory and styles
• Avoider patterns and nonrelational sex
• Pleaser appeasing, boundaries, and anxiety
• Vacillator intensity, protest, and withholding
• Disorganized attachment, control, and adrenaline
• What secure partners do differently
• Comfort Circle for empathy and regulation
• Neural pathways, practice, and earned security
• Resources: book, quiz, workshops, radio show

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Dr. Dave Schramm:

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Dr. Liz Hale:

http://www.drlizhale.com/

We sit down with Dr. Lee Baucom to unpack the “pause button marriage,” why most couples misdiagnose communication issues, and how small, steady habits and a team mindset rebuild connection. One partner can start the change with curiosity, empowerment, and self-management.

• defining the pause button marriage and its slow costs
• shifting from me and you to a true we
• why connection, not communication, is the core issue
• unpausing with small, repeatable habits of connection
• using invitational pacing instead of chasing
• curiosity as the path to empathy and safety
• self-management to reduce reactivity and blame
• hope’s three parts: where, how, and willingness
• practical tools to rebuild trust and teamwork
• resources, including the Unpause app and site

Visit our site for FREE relationship resources and regular giveaways:

Strongermarriage.org

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Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/strongermarriagelife/

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Dr. Dave Schramm:

http://drdaveschramm.com

http://drdavespeaks.com

Dr. Liz Hale:

http://www.drlizhale.com/