Stop Toxic Relationship Cycles

Hi Superstar! 🤩 Your weekly Energy Update... We come together each week to activate Source Energy, unlock the secrets of Universal Law, and decode the deeper questions of Spiritual Psychology Coaching. So, grab your journal and a tea — Let's go! ☕️💗 Download the Universal Law Calendar with 52 weekly lessons — FREE when you join my Energy Update Newsletter ➡️ HERE Here’s what’s inside this week’s episode 👇🎧 Energy Update & Channeled Insights⚡️👁️ Q&A: Coaching Tips & Soul Work ☎️ Universal Law of The Week ✨ ➡️ ENERGY UPDATE | #1 Relationship K*ller and Healer Relationships are the greatest mirror of the soul. They don’t create your wounds, they expose them. This week, the cosmic focus turns to self-awareness within relationships, inviting us to examine the ways we unconsciously sabotage love, connection, and intimacy. According to Spiritual Psychology, every relationship is a projection of identity. The people who trigger you most are not your enemies — they’re reflections of your shadow self, pointing to unresolved trauma or misbeliefs in your subconscious mind. ✨ Universal Law teaches us that our relationships are not random, they are direct reflections of our inner world — our beliefs, patterns, and suppressed parts of self. The source of all relationship suffering? Wanting people and situations to be different than they are. When you say “they shouldn’t be like this,” you’re arguing with reality and projecting internal resistance outward. There’s only ONE way to break free from toxic relationship cycles... You must stop making the relationship your God. Your partner is not your Source. They are not your savior. They are not the reason you’re suffering — your perception is. When you make someone else the source of your happiness or pain, you hand over your power. You project your unmet needs, past wounds, and subconscious stories onto them, expecting them to save, validate, or complete you. But here's the truth: It's not your partner you're fighting — it's your own shadow. It’s not their actions — it’s the meaning you assign to them. It’s not about control — it’s about consciousness. So, stop trying to fix them. Stop trying to change them. Stop trying to rescue or reform them. Stop making them wrong so you can feel right. Instead: Take your power back. Make Source your Source again. Heal the part of you that’s looking for love outside yourself. Practice radical gratitude and spiritual responsibility. See your relationships as mirrors — not mistakes. ✨ Turn projection into appreciation. ✨ Turn attachment into alignment. ✨ Turn codependency into conscious connection. Celebrate who they are — not for what they give you, but for what they reflect. Because the moment you stop needing them to be different, you become free to love without condition. THIS WEEKS ASTROLOGY HIGHLIGHTS ⚡️🪐 🪐 July 22 — Sun Enters Leo The Sun returns home to Leo, awakening the part of you that craves expression, recognition, and creative leadership. But in the realm of Spiritual Psychology, true confidence comes not from performance, but from the subconscious belief in your worth. According to the Law of Individualization, you are a unique emanation of the Divine. This Leo season is a call to remember your spiritual royalty—not to seek the spotlight, but to embody your light. Spiritual Coaching Tip: Ask yourself: “What parts of me am I still seeking outside validation for?” Guide yourself and your clients to do subconscious belief work around visibility, worth, and divine identity. ⚡️ July 22 — Sun in Leo Sextile Uranus in Gemini Expect the unexpected—inspiration, synchronicity, even flashes of intuitive genius. This aspect is a cosmic green light to liberate the mind and shake up old paradigms. Through the Law of Emergent Evolution, you’re being guided to evolve beyond your comfort zone by aligning with spontaneous insight. Your subconscious is ready for reprogramming—if you're willing to embrace the unknown. Spiritual Coaching Tip: Try this journal prompt: “If I stopped trying to be who I’ve always been… who would I become?” Use movement or breathwork to unlock suppressed creativity today. 💥 July 23 — Venus in Gemini Square Mars in Virgo This tension may show up in relationships, especially between the mind (Venus in Gemini) and the desire to fix or control (Mars in Virgo). It's a powerful moment for subconscious shadow work around love, perfectionism, and self-worth. The Law of Polarity teaches us that contrast is the catalyst for consciousness. When friction arises, don’t resist it—use it to reveal the deeper emotional programming beneath the surface. Spiritual Coaching Tip: Support yourself or a client in the inquiry: “What does this conflict really remind me of?” Let emotions rise without judgment and use them to access the root cause. 🌟 July...