Stop Fighting Yourself: Replace Drama with Decisions (Episode 112)

Ever notice how waiting to “feel like it” quietly kills your best plans? We sit down with author and podcaster Daryl Ditmer to explore why feelings make lousy captains and how discipline and consistency can steer you toward a life you actually want to wake up to. Daryl shares the blunt mantra that changed his trajectory—do the right thing especially when you don’t feel like it—and backs it with a raw story of teen addiction, a rock-bottom New Year’s, and the first shaky steps into a 12‑step room.

We dig into the difference between fleeting happiness and durable fulfillment, the real role of fear, and the myth that freedom means doing whatever you want. Daryl explains why discipline is not punishment but permission: the habits you protect become the map to peace of mind, better relationships, and meaningful work. He also reframes “the fight” most of us wage inside our heads. Instead of running the “ass kicking machine” when we make mistakes, he shows how to turn down the self-attack, accept confusion as part of growth, and keep your eyes on the windshield—what you can do next—rather than the rearview.

If you’re 16 and overwhelmed by vibes and pressure, or 46 and tired of drifting, this conversation offers practical tools: acknowledge fear without shame, pick one hard action and do it anyway, and build your life before someone else scripts it for you. We close with Daryl’s resources, including his books When I Stop Fighting and When You Stop Fighting, and his podcast that spotlights honest stories of change across generations.

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