Stop Dragging Your Divorce Into the New Year (A Guided Post-Divorce Reset)

If divorce has left you irritable, numb, exhausted, or feeling like you don’t recognize yourself anymore, this episode is for you.

In this special episode of The Crazy Ex-Wives Club, Erica shares audio from a live Divorce Detox Hour inside her membership, The Club. This is not a traditional podcast conversation. It’s a guided nervous system reset designed to help divorced women step out of survival mode and return to steadiness, clarity, and self-trust before entering the new year.

Through intentional breathwork, grounding practices, visualization, and symbolic release, Erica guides listeners through closing the emotional chapter of 2025 and consciously choosing what does and does not come with them into 2026. You’ll be led through a powerful “theater of your new year” visualization, a release ritual for what you’re done carrying, and a future-self encounter that helps clarify who you are becoming without pressure or forced goal setting.

This episode is not about fixing yourself or rushing healing. It’s about creating safety in your body, honoring what you survived, and making space for a version of you that isn’t built around endurance or emotional overfunctioning.

If you’re post-divorce and feel stuck in fight-or-flight, unsure who you’re becoming, or afraid of repeating the same emotional patterns in the new year, this episode offers a grounded way to reset and move forward without dragging the past behind you.

You’ll learn:

• Why divorce often keeps women stuck in long-term survival mode
• How nervous system regulation supports emotional healing after divorce
• Why “new year, new you” pressure can actually slow recovery
• How breathwork creates safety before emotional processing
• What it means to consciously choose what you carry forward
• How to release resentment, shame, and self-blame without rehashing the past
• Why healing requires embodiment, not just insight
• How to reconnect with your future self after identity loss
• Why choosing qualities matters more than rigid goals
• How community accelerates healing and prevents emotional isolation

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We talk about:

00:00 Why post-divorce irritability and numbness aren’t personality traits

02:00 What a Divorce Detox Hour is and why it works

04:00 How survival mode shows up after divorce

06:30 Grounding the body to create emotional safety

09:00 Breathwork to calm the nervous system

12:00 Moving out of the head and into the body

14:00 The “Theater of Your New Year” visualization

18:00 Witnessing what you survived in 2025

20:30 The Release Box ritual and letting go of emotional weight

23:30 Choosing who you are becoming in 2026

26:00 Meeting your future self and receiving guidance

28:00 Making promises and boundaries that support healing

30:30 Why community matters during identity rebuilding

33:00 Releasing the past without erasing it

35:00 Closing the session with steadiness and self-trust

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