In a diverse church family, differences in personal convictions can easily cause tension. Paul reminds us to practice Discerning in Love—knowing the difference between essential gospel truths, which we must never change, and secondary issues, where we should accept one another in grace. We are Accepted in Grace through Christ alone, Accountable to God as our only Master, and Assured by Christ who helps His people stand. Whether weak or strong in faith, God sustains us, and “with the Lord’s help, they will stand and receive His approval” (Romans 14:4b).

Romans 14:1-4

The phrase 'God is Love' is much more than a nice saying or simple figurative language - it is a distinguishing factor of our Triune God. To imitate His love and to make Him known to others is our office as Christians and as His Church. The outcome of following His commandment to love our neighbour is that we become evidence of life, faith, the reality of God and of the gospel message, Jesus Christ His Son.

Romans 13:8-10 and 1 John 4:7-16

Paul gives some very clear instructions of what we should do and what we should not do as we come to the end of Chapter 12. John Piper defines 'evil' as “The preference of anything above God” and Paul, along with the instruction, gives us a strategy and the outcome for how to overcome evil. Romans 12:17-21

Grace Filled Relationships Romans 12:14-16

What does real Christian love look like in the complexity of everyday life? In this message from Romans 12:9–13, we explore how love that is shaped by the mercy of God is more than mere politeness or outward niceness. Genuine Christian love is authentic in heart—it refuses to pretend and is rooted in God’s transforming love. It’s selfless in action—taking delight in honouring others, flipping the honour-seeking culture of the ancient Roman world and our modern world on its head. And it is steadfast in hardship—remaining patient, prayerful, and open-hearted even in suffering, rejection, and disappointment.

We’ll look at powerful biblical examples and historical stories—from the bold love of Jesus, to the lives of John Owen and Richard Baxter, to Jean Vanier’s legacy of honouring the overlooked. Whether you’re feeling crushed by pain or just needing a deeper vision of love, this message will point you back to the God whose faithful love is both the pattern and power for ours. Listen in to be reminded that Christian love is not a performance—it’s a miracle of grace lived out in the messiness of real life. Romans 12:9-13