What if the most difficult experience of your life could become the very thing that changes someone else’s?

When we share our stories, we don’t just recount the past - we give our audiences a way to see their own challenges differently, to believe in what’s possible for them, and to take action in their own lives.

In this episode of the Speaking Your Brand podcast, I talk with Karen Keene, a graduate of our Thought Leader Academy, whose life was forever altered after surviving a violent home invasion. Karen’s journey of healing - through 26 surgeries, unimaginable loss, and the courage to rebuild - has become the foundation for a keynote talk that inspires audiences to face adversity with resilience and purpose.

But this conversation isn’t only about Karen’s story. It’s about:

• Why your story can be just as powerful, even if you haven’t faced extreme trauma

• How to uncover the universal lessons in your story that speak to anyone in your audience

• The importance of moving from “sharing what happened” to “showing what’s possible”

• Karen’s M.A.P. framework and how it turns inspiration into action

• The transformation that happens for you when you tell your story with intention

If you’ve ever wondered whether your story is “enough” to share or how to use it to truly serve your audience, this episode will give you both the confidence and the tools to do it.

This conversation originally aired as episode 337 on July 10, 2023.

Links:

Show notes at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/story-transformation/

Discover your Speaker Archetype by taking our free quiz at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/quiz/

Enroll in our Thought Leader Academy: https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/academy/

Connect on LinkedIn:

• Carol Cox = https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolcox
• Karen Keene = https://www.linkedin.com/in/karen-keene-profile2023/

Related Podcast Episodes:

• Episode 297: Integrating Your Story Into Your Talks with Carol Cox, Diane Diaz, and Joy Spencer
• Episode 263: Finding the Emotional Heart of Your Message with Carol Cox
• Episode 230: Use Your Story for an Inspirational Talk with Tanea Smith
• Episode 137: The Missing Ingredients in Your Stories with Carol Cox

Ever wish you could walk on stage and instantly connect with your audience, whether it’s a room of five people or a stadium of 50,000?

In this episode, Diane Diaz and I are trying something new: a reaction video to a famous speech. And who better to kick things off than Taylor Swift’s 2022 NYU Commencement Address?

You might think being a global superstar makes Taylor impossible to relate to. But what she does in this speech is exactly what you can do in your own presentations to make your audience lean in, laugh, and feel like you’re speaking directly to them.

We break down three powerful speaking tips for relatability that you can start using right away:

• Self-deprecating humor to lower the pedestal and create connection.

• Knowing your audience: their stage in life, challenges, and what they want next.

• Bridging personal stories to universal themes so your message resonates far beyond the details of your own experience.
  
  

Whether you’re delivering a keynote, leading a workshop, or speaking on a panel, these strategies will help you connect, engage, and inspire, no guitar required (unless you have one, then bring it!).

Links:

Show notes at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/438/

Watch our video conversation: https://youtu.be/-Mm2_urTF40

Taylor Swift Commencement Address at NYU in 2022: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OBG50aoUwlI

Taylor on Travis Kelce’s New Heights podcast in August 2025: https://youtu.be/M2lX9XESvDE?si=r_GL2a_iNf2F_iuJ

Discover your Speaker Archetype by taking our free quiz at https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/quiz/

Enroll in our Thought Leader Academy: https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/academy/

Connect on LinkedIn:

• Carol Cox = https://www.linkedin.com/in/carolcox

• Diane Diaz = https://www.linkedin.com/in/dianediaz/

Related Podcast Episodes:

• Episode 426: Every Talk Needs Humor: Here are 5 Ways to Make Your Audience Laugh

• Episode 398: Storytelling for Leaders: Crafting Narratives that Inspire and Persuade

Do you ever feel like you're stuck in the "expert trap" - sharing lots of great information, but not quite connecting with your audience the way you want to?

In this episode, I talk with Dr. Teri DeLucca, founder of Impact Early Education and a graduate of our Thought Leader Academy, about how she made the bold leap from academic researcher and fact-based presenter to transformational speaker and sought-after thought leader.

Teri has not one, but TWO PhDs (yes, you read that right!), and like many high-achieving women, she found comfort in data and research. But as she began training preschool teachers and school leaders, she realized that just presenting facts wasn’t creating the impact she truly wanted.

In our conversation, Teri shares:

• What led her to start her own business and step into entrepreneurship

• The power of personal storytelling in leadership and speaking

• How embracing vulnerability changed everything for her and her audiences

• Her transformation through the Thought Leader Academy and how it impacted her signature talk

• Her behind-the-scenes prep for a major international keynote (and why she called me in for a VIP Day!)

• Why it's not only okay, but essential, to share your personal challenges as a speaker and leader

If you've ever worried that being real with your audience might hurt your credibility, you need to hear what Teri says about the moment she realized not sharing her struggles was actually holding her back.

Teri’s story is proof that when you let go of perfection and speak from a place of truth, that’s when real transformation happens—for you and the people you're meant to reach.

This conversation originally aired as episode 338 on July 17, 2023.

Links:

Show notes: https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/escape-expert-trap/

Learn more about Teri’s work at ImpactEarlyEd.com.

Listen to Episode 241 – The Expert Trap – to learn more about how to shift from expert to transformational speaker: https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/241/

Ready to escape the expert trap and develop your own signature talk and thought leadership? Join us in the Thought Leader Academy: https://www.speakingyourbrand.com/academy/