Drawing from my own experiences as a divorced mom and child of abandonment, I explore the transformative power of forgiveness - not just for others, but for ourselves. This isn't about letting someone off the hook; it's about freeing ourselves from the burden of pain and resentment so we can heal our hearts.

I share my personal journey of forgiving my mother, a decision that quite literally saved my life. Through this story, I illustrate how holding onto anger can be physically and emotionally destructive, while forgiveness can bring profound relief and peace.

1. Forgiving others: Understanding why it's essential and what happens when we don't.

2. Forgiving ourselves: Addressing the guilt and self-blame that often plagues single moms.

3. Forgiving those in our faith communities: Navigating the unique pain of being hurt by fellow believers.

We'll examine forgiveness through a spiritual lens, reflecting on Christ's ultimate act of forgiveness and how it relates to our own struggles. I reference Ephesians 4:32, reminding us of our call to forgive as we have been forgiven.

• Forgiveness is about your healing, not about the other person
• Unforgiveness is like a wound that never heals
• Forgiving yourself is just as important as forgiving others
• Even people in our faith communities can hurt us - they're human too
• Forgiveness doesn't excuse the behavior, but it frees you from its grip

This episode is part of a larger series on emotions that single moms often face. I encourage you to listen to the related episodes on anger, fear, and worry for a more comprehensive understanding of these challenges.

As we conclude, I extend an invitation for connection and further discussion. Whether you're seeking mentorship or simply want to share your thoughts on this topic, I'm here to listen and support you on your journey towards healing and forgiveness.

Related Episodes:

Why Are You Angry [Season 7| Episode 40]

What Would You Do If You Weren't Afraid? [Season 7 | Episode 41]

Is Worry The Thief of Your Peace? [Season 7 | Episode 42]

Trusting Jesus: The Ultimate Stress Relief for Single Moms [Season 7 | Episode 45]

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• The importance of recognizing and addressing caregiver burnout
• How a simple weekend getaway can spark a journey of self-discovery
• Practical tips for adding joy to your life through small, manageable steps
• The power of gratitude in shifting perspective and finding fulfillment
• Strategies for overcoming a victim mentality and taking control of your life

Debbie also shares her personal struggles with fertility, raising a child with special needs, and losing her husband - experiences that have shaped her resilience and compassion. Her story serves as a reminder that it's never too late to prioritize your own well-being and pursue your dreams.

• Implement a simple gratitude practice that can transform your outlook
• Identify and embrace the small joys in your daily life
• Shift your mindset from victim to empowered individual
• Make time for self-care, even with a busy schedule

Whether you're a solo mom, a caregiver, or someone feeling stuck in life, this episode offers hope, practical advice, and inspiration to help you reclaim your joy and purpose.

Remember, as Debbie says, quoting Glinda the Good Witch: "You've always had the power, my dear, you just had to learn it for yourself."

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Jennifer, affectionately known as "Aunt Jen," shares her wealth of experience in guiding women through financial crossroads. With 29 years in the financial services industry, she brings a unique perspective to help demystify money matters for those who feel intimidated by the topic.

• Discover the importance of having money conversations before entering new relationships
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• Understand how to live with purpose while feeling stuck in survival mode
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This episode provides invaluable insights for single moms looking to take control of their financial future. Jennifer's approachable style and practical advice offer a beacon of hope if you're feeling overwhelmed by your financial circumstances.

Don't miss this opportunity to gain financial clarity and empowerment. Tune in to hear Jennifer's full interview and start your journey towards financial confidence today.

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