Nancy and Sarah talk about how watching Artemis II was the injection of awe we all needed. Nancy is reminded of a podcast she recently heard with former senator Ben Sasse, who has pancreatic cancer and talks about facing the end of his life with grace. That’s a different psychic universe than the dysfunction of “What Broke the Beckhams?,” about Brooklyn Beckham (son of David and Victoria), a cautionary tale about extravagant wealth and celebrity. Then it’s on to a recent NYT story on single women throwing weddings for their birthday, which is NOT an actual trend, but still worth talking about.

Also discussed:

* It’s awe, baby

* “Our friend Ross”

* No spaceships for Sarah, no submarines for Nancy

* Oh, to be rich enough to never download another app

* “God’s plan,” discussed

* The awesomeness of Kyle Dunnigan

* The Real Housewives of … Schenectady?

* “I found a handbag that looks like a sandwich…”

* Tyrone, the cheerful doofus

* Sarah makes a date to try on wedding dresses

* Don’t arrest us, Netflix

Also, how long do you keep old laptops, Sarah parties at Area-Club-Studio 51, Nancy considers a new tattoo, and much more!

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Nancy and Sarah talk with Leigh Stein, whose recent Substack essay might be the best thing to come out of the Lindy West discourse. Entitled “I Escaped Bluebeard’s Castle. Lindy West Didn’t,” the essay describes an abusive relationship from Leigh’s past and sheds light on the painful accommodations some of us make to keep love - or its simulacrum - in our lives. No strangers to overdramatic relationships, the gals then take a trip down the memory lane of terrible boyfriends, the insecurities that make people act like creeps and victims, and the trap that is the public persona.

Also discussed:

* Virginity as liability

* Love addiction = the frothy dilemma of it all

* Nancy’s theory of Lindy West’s self-sabotage

* The Sylvia Plath and Ted Hughes school of romance

* Sarah is a sucker for a tough childhood

* That time Leigh contemplated a three-way

* “I remember going to a psychic …”

* An addiction to Intervention

* Rescuing someone over and over makes them weaker, then bitter

* Who do you become if you stop solving other people’s problems?

* What would Dan Savage say?

* Heather Havrilesky, preach!

Plus, polyamory as a conceptual art project, Nancy’s dad’s tough love, contemplating the many meanings of “the love hole,” and much more!

Announcements galore:

Go see Leigh in conversation with our beloved Kat Rosenfield, at the Darien Library on Tuesday, April 21, 7-8pm. Details here.

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