Sis… I Might Be the Problem & the Solution at the Same Time

Let’s be clear—I’m not dragging myself… but I am holding myself accountable. 😭

In this episode, we’re talking about that moment when you realize the common denominator in the chaos might be you—and instead of spiraling, you finally start evolving.

We get into self-sabotage in disguise, why “I’m just protecting my peace” sometimes means avoiding growth, and how unhealed habits can sneak into your dating life, friendships, and boundaries wearing a cute outfit and good intentions.

This isn’t a self-hate episode. It’s a self-awareness with edges episode. Because once you recognize where you’re the problem, you also realize you have the power to be the solution. And that? That’s grown.

If you’ve ever said “why does this keep happening to me?” and immediately followed it with “wait…”—this one’s for you. Pull up, laugh a little, get checked gently, and leave better than you came. 💅🏽🎧