If you are in the military or married to someone who is a service member and you are considering divorce, there are very unique aspects to a military divorce that you will want to know. Listen as David Smith, a retired US Air Force Dental Officer, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst, Certified QDRO Specialist, Military Divorce Financial Specialist, and founder of Sand Oak Divorce Solutions shares his expertise to help you avoid the landmines in divorce.

Military divorce generally follows the same process as civilian divorce, but with unique considerations due to the nature of military service. Key differences include potential delays due to deployment, specific laws protecting service members, and unique rules for dividing military retirement benefits. Divorce can also impact military benefits like housing allowances (BAH), commissary and exchange privileges, as well as healthcare.

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Produced by: Whitfield Media Group, Chattanooga, TN

Editing by: Tyler Owens

Email: ⁠⁠silverdivorcepodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠. We love to hear from you!

Facebook & Instagram @silverdivorcepodcast. You may also join the private Facebook Group: Divorce Recovery for Women Over 60.

Title Sponsor: Center for Sports Medicine and Orthopaedics ⁠⁠www.sportmed.com⁠⁠

Show Sponsor: Medicare Misty ⁠⁠www.medicaremisty.com⁠⁠

About your guest: David Smith is a retired (served 20 years) US Air Force Dental Officer turned Independent Financial Organizer and Coordinator. Also a Chartered Financial Consultant® (ChFC®), Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®), Chartered Advisor in Senior Living® (CASL®), Certified QDRO Specialist™ (CQS™) & a Military Divorce Financial Specialist. He is the owner of Sand Oak Divorce Solutions. Learn more: www.sandoakdivorcesolutions.com

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About your host: I’m Lisa McCluskey, MBA, a retired healthcare executive turned podcaster after being blindsided when my 34-year marriage ended. I interview experts on the Silver Divorce Podcast to help people through the traumatic divorce journey.

This podcast provides education and information and is not intended to replace the advice of a therapist or legal advice.

Apple: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/silver-divorce-podcast/id1746617333⁠

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Do you find yourself more anxious, stressed, perhaps becoming sick more frequently? There is a reason for that. It’s called Retired Husband Syndrome (RHS). Listen in as I share what RHS is and how you can manage not to lose your health and your sanity.

RHS is a real psychosomatic illness. It refers to a physical condition where wives experience stress, anxiety, or other health problems after their husbands retire and are home more often. This phenomenon is particularly observed in marriages with traditional gender roles, where the husband's retirement can disrupt the wife's established routines and sense of independence. It is the leading cause of divorce in Japan. In America, with the wave of Baby Boomers reaching 65, it has risen here as well. Divorce among those age 65 plus accounts for 1 in 4 divorces in the US today.

RHS manifests as various physical and psychological symptoms in the wife, including headaches, sleeplessness, depression, and increased feelings of stress, irritability, anxiety, even leading to ulcers.

Please follow or subscribe to this podcast; leave a rating and review and share with people you know experiencing the pain of divorce.

Produced by: Whitfield Media Group, Chattanooga, TN

Editing by: Tyler Owens

Email: ⁠⁠silverdivorcepodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠. We love to hear from you!

Facebook & Instagram @silverdivorcepodcast. You may also join the private Facebook Group: Divorce Recovery for Women Over 60.

Title Sponsor: Center for Sports Medicine and Orthopaedics ⁠⁠www.sportmed.com⁠⁠

Show Sponsor: Medicare Misty ⁠⁠www.medicaremisty.com⁠⁠

About your host: I’m Lisa McCluskey, MBA, a retired healthcare executive turned podcaster after being blindsided when my 34-year marriage ended. I interview experts on the Silver Divorce Podcast to help people through the traumatic divorce journey.

This podcast provides education and information and is not intended to replace the advice of a therapist or legal advice.

Apple: ⁠https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/silver-divorce-podcast/id1746617333⁠

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Divorce signifies the end of a marriage, a relationship, and a shared future, which can be deeply painful and evoke feelings of grief. Society does not always recognize that grief after divorce is real, causing many to keep their pain in the shadows. Listen as Tracy Nalory Fultz, a licensed clinical social worker, and owner of Heartfelt Needs Counseling and Caring Center helps walk us through healing, growth, and wholeness.

It is normal to experience Grief after divorce, as it involves the loss of a relationship, future plans, and a significant part of one's identity. Divorce grief is real and is often experienced as a process of mourning and involving a range of emotions, including sadness, anger, relief, and loneliness. It’s important to give oneself grace to grieve and time to work through the different stages. It's important to acknowledge and allow oneself to grieve, understanding that it's a journey that can take time and involve different stages. Tracy shares:

• Why grief after divorce is sometimes called disenfranchised grief and how it is unique.

• The stages of grief after divorce.

• Some ways we can begin to work through grief.

• What we should avoid when grieving.

• The indicators we should seek professional help.

Please follow or subscribe to this podcast; leave a rating and review and share with people you know experiencing the pain of divorce.

Produced by: Whitfield Media Group, Chattanooga, TN

Editing by: Tyler Owens

Email: ⁠silverdivorcepodcast@gmail.com⁠. We love to hear from you!

Facebook & Instagram @silverdivorcepodcast. You may also join the private Facebook Group: Divorce Recovery for Women Over 60.

Title Sponsor: Center for Sports Medicine and Orthopaedics ⁠www.sportmed.com⁠

Show Sponsor: Medicare Misty ⁠www.medicaremisty.com⁠

About your guest: Tracy Nalory Fultz has a passion to see people delivered, healed, and prospering in their soul and life. She is a licensed clinical social worker, and owner of Heart Felt Needs Counseling and Caring Center.With close to 25 years in the field of social work Tracy worked in the area of child welfare for 22 years and has been in the mental health field for the last 13 years. Tracy's current areas of specialty are grief and loss, childhood and adult relationship trauma and she also enjoys working with single women who need support, education and space to work through loneliness, rejection, and the narratives of why and what if's. You may contact Tracy at www.heartfeltneeds.com.

About your host: I’m Lisa McCluskey, MBA, a retired healthcare executive turned podcaster after being blindsided when my 34-year marriage ended. I interview experts on the Silver Divorce Podcast to help people through the traumatic divorce journey.

This podcast provides education and information and is not intended to replace the advice of a therapist or legal advice.

Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/silver-divorce-podcast/id1746617333

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