Should you pay for your kids to go to college?

Most people can't afford to pay for their kids to go to college, but many at least try, and some foot the full bill. Our discussion starts at the basic question... Is this even the right way to look at it? Even if you have the means for college is that the right message? And if you don't have the means, should you put aside your own well being to save for college? Yes we actually talked about this. If your a dad looking for advice, this is a good one. Also complementary to our previous discussion about if your kid should go to college in the first place. Here's that one - https://open.spotify.com/episode/3JEnksMCSiuQUV5jG5l3V3?si=8baaff350ddb4c2e